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On January 27 2015 19:35 c3rberUs wrote:
SLEEP IN HER BED =/= mixed signals. LOL
Exactly this^
The only mixed signals you get must be caused by your reaction to all of this. By seduction language standards she is being as clear as one can possibly get, and she has to be thinking : "wow ok, I've been very outward with my intentions, the fact that he's keeping his distance must mean that he has something different in mind, I'm not gonna force him into anything he doesn't want". And then she proceeds to take her distance and seek someone else who's going to make her feel welcome.
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Northern Ireland22208 Posts
im feeling so bitter, i didnt have girls asking me over without parents, drinking and inviting me into their bed when I was 18 
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Canada13389 Posts
On January 27 2015 20:09 Scarecrow wrote:
Asking you over, without parents, drinking, then making excuses for you to stay in her bed, are not mixed signals. She's being as blunt as any girl her age is ever going to be. She won't say anything 100% clearly. She's doing as much work as she can but you're the one who has to make things happen. Don't talk about your feelings, just kiss her and everything will work itself out (the lying down 'friend' hug transitions well into making out for first timers). Seriously she wants a home run and you're too nervous to slide into first base.
And by being dumb and not realising this you may have tossed it away for now XD
Dude, just next time you see her, just say "yo, I was nervous I like you a lot, lets go on a date - a real one this time?"
And do it quick cuz you basically rejected her ... in her own bed ... in her mind based on what she did.
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On January 27 2015 23:51 ahswtini wrote:im feeling so bitter, i didnt have girls asking me over without parents, drinking and inviting me into their bed when I was 18
I feel your pain bro. Although I did experience sex at that age, it still would've been cool if the girl did the fcking work for me like OP!
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Northern Ireland22208 Posts
not saying it's grammatically incorrect, it's pretty dehumanising though
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United States10151 Posts
dude... she wants the penor to put it straight. go for it.
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On January 27 2015 15:13 lichter wrote:![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/13AV1Ip.jpg)
thats cheating
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On January 27 2015 14:30 fluffy_pylon wrote:I honestly don't know if she loves me the way I love her or just sees me as a very very good friend of the opposite gender, I mean she knows that I'm not gay, and all the signs she is giving off seems to suggest that she does like me. But I am too scared to say anything about that, and I think she knows that I'm scared, but she won't come out and say anything clearly either. I am so confused as to what I should do next.
Talking from my own experience the biggest mistake you can make is to not act upon your feelings. You can try to analyze her behavior as long as you want you will never know for sure how she feels and if something can happen between the two of you. Don't be scared to show your feelings it doesn't matter if she feels the same or not they are still valid feelings and if she is a nice girl she will still be nice to you so there is nothing to be afraid about.
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