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Korea (South)1897 Posts
On September 19 2012 19:02 Grend wrote: Hey I want the exciting stuff, not everyday normal stuff!
+1, besides you're writing cause you want to, not to cater to us (but if you are writing to entertain, then exciting plz!)
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Not that I ever disliked your blogs, but this one sort of hit the spot for me, your blogs always had an air of being a bit over the top and overly dramatic. Not saying that you were lying or anything, it just seemed like "Oh, it's a Snet blog, it will be some amazing story where he saved someones life 2 seconds before said person had a baby, and then 5 pages of people praising him for being a hero and doing something pretty much no one else can do".
Keep writing your blogs about what you want, I just think it's really cool that you wrote this blog and explained that you're aware of how it sounds etc.
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Russian Federation823 Posts
Right now i am at work, but later i have time to express why your blog is awful literature (this one being slightly less awful though), so i'll just edit it.
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frequent fliers
Basic Service Calls
Ah, My Ride (company I worked for).
such good times...
I've always appreciated your blogs. The 1% makes the 99% worth it.
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I'm what in USA is called a paramedic, I know that your stories are true. Being over dramatic actually is fine, all the people do that when telling a story, exagerating is in the human nature.
The thing is... sometimes there are stories that are just too crazy to be believed even if they are 100% true. Keep writing, I can relate
On September 19 2012 18:48 felisconcolori wrote: I've always heard the dictum that emergency first responders (EMTs, Firefighters, Police) live in a world that is 99% mind numbing boredom with 1% shrieking terror and insanity. I mean, a lot of their time is in preparation, or waiting. Going straight from the mundane into the extreme with little to no warning, and then often times having to switch back to a mundane frame of mind (false alarms, misunderstandings, etc).
I think you are absolutely right about the ratio, but not entirely about the mental aspect. Imo is less harder than you may expect. The thing is: paramedics are not emotively involved. Sure, there's always that one time when you feel depressed right after and I even know about a woman who had to work on a car crash when her son was involved without knowing it beforehand (otherwise the central wouldn't have sent her - shit went really wrong) but these are extremely rare exceptions. Except for that, we are not personally involved: we don't personally know who we are going to take and most of the times we don't really care, even. I hope not to be misunderstood since "not caring" seems quite cold, but I can't express myself well in english. Still, there's a big difference between a random patient and your son. If your son dies you almost die with him, if a random guy dies you accept it quite quickly since that's the way life works and it's not likely your first, second, tenth time. Also during these emergency situations we are healthy and fine, that makes a big difference.
About the 1% of work, here's what a colleague of mine has to say ^_^ First Law of Emergency Thermodynamics : the probability of being called is directly proportional to the temperature of your lunch Never understood why people tend to get hurt when you are eating or watching Dreamhack with your base's PC.
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On September 19 2012 19:24 Tobberoth wrote: Not that I ever disliked your blogs, but this one sort of hit the spot for me, your blogs always had an air of being a bit over the top and overly dramatic. Not saying that you were lying or anything, it just seemed like "Oh, it's a Snet blog, it will be some amazing story where he saved someones life 2 seconds before said person had a baby, and then 5 pages of people praising him for being a hero and doing something pretty much no one else can do".
Keep writing your blogs about what you want, I just think it's really cool that you wrote this blog and explained that you're aware of how it sounds etc.
It does become kind of tiresome. I don't know if its some sort of subconscious jealousy that I'm not aware of, but its like every blog posits the exact same response. You're a hero, everything you do is amazing, I could never be like you. It just gets tiresome when you read that in every blog, and the subject matter kind of supports those responses indirectly. Its like these blogs have become a cult of personality where people just worship Snet. Like it doesn't even matter what he puts out there (with the possible exception of this reflective blog), you can expect all the responses to be hero worship, I guess it just feels excessive and a bit too egotistical. Maybe I'm bothered that it seems less about what he's doing and more about one person.
But I'm glad that isn't Snet's intention, I'm thankful he wrote this to clarify .
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Didn't know there was any Snet name recognition at all, to be honest. I do remember reading some cool blogs about a paramedic saving people but couldn't have told you the name of the author if my life depended on it.
As far as "reality" goes, I think it's safe to assume that everyone should know that. It's common sense. I remember reading a study where they determined that most people are slightly more depressed than 100+ years ago because of the select knowledge of others' lives. In other words, it's a lot easier to feel down about your own situation when you compare your own mundane, day-to-day activities with what everyone else is sharing about their lives - essentially their highlight reels. They essentially posited that mostly everyone is feeling uninteresting and that it's just based on an incomplete point of view.
As far as the paramedic line of work goes, I assume a lot of it is mundane. I don't mean that in a bad way, but maybe I can describe it better in an example. When my dad got attacked & beat up by a family member, the cops were called afterwards. They came to his house, took a report and so forth. Even though he insisted he was fine and just bruised, they made an ambulance come. The poor paramedics had to answer the call, essentially for nothing because there was no emergency; there was no real need for them to be there. I also remember one of them commenting that it was more exciting than what they were doing before anyway.
I just hope they didn't put others at risk trying to get there quickly, burning through reds and whatnot, for such a waste of time...
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I have realized my blogs have been either depressing, unbelievable, attention seeking, and/or seen as bragging/gloating.
It's your blog, do as you feel. I like them.
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where did you get the idea that your blog was depressing, unbelievable, attention seeking, and/or seen as bragging/gloating.
?!!?! your blogs are awesome just the way they are. DONT LISTEN TO THE HATE
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United States10328 Posts
wait, people dislike your blogs...?
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On September 20 2012 07:14 ]343[ wrote: wait, people dislike your blogs...?
yea this was my first thought too
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If you're referring to the blog where people were doubting that you are both a volunteer and a paid worker, then forget it. Obviously if people are reading the blogs, they enjoy them.
tl;dr keep writing
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Canada1096 Posts
Never read your blog but was drawn here by the title of this post "reality". After reading your post i say do your thing mate!
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I've never really taken issue with your blogs or the topics you write about or the fact that you're choosing the exciting days. I've quite liked some, but the thing that makes me really groan is the cliche kinda punchline. I don't like it when I see it on admittedly fictional television shows, I don't like it when I see it in non-fiction. It takes away from the whole piece, and as you get more and more relient on short, snappy sentences, suddenly none of them have power because there's nothing like a narrative to compare them to.
I have no problem with you personally or what you do or the fact that you write a blog, but if you're trying to take criticism I think people are misunderstanding the part of these blogs which is irking them. It's how you're getting the message across, not the message itself. It just seems like it thinks its a little more clever/powerful than it is. "Today I saved a life." Where have I heard that before? The more cliche, the more ingeniune it feels. I can just hear batman narrating some horrible movie sometimes. "I didn't give them the hero they wanted, I gave them the hero they needed." Whooooooa deep. If you have an interesting life don't sully it like this, just write more naturally. Boxer wasn't any kind of writer but his bio was interesting because he wrote how he felt and about himself. I don't feel like I am reading about a human being when it seems too cliche ;p
derp burp. It's just my feedback, anyway. Do with it what you will.
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Don't pay any attention to it Snet, its not worth it. there will always be auto 1-star people and haters who dislike the fact that you are doing something amazing with your life while they are not. If you choose to blog about a call where nothing happens or the patient got worse I'd be fine reading that too, your style is so unique and your life is so driven (excuse the pun) that really anything you blog about can catch my eye .
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I've been reading your blog for the last 3 years that I've been on TL and enjoyed every single one of them. I realized from the beginning you were cherry picking stories, I have no problem with that. It would only cross a line to me if you were making them up or grossly embellishing them, which it doesn't seem like you do.
You often talk about the thrill you get from saving someones life. Some people have interpreted that as you arrogantly taking sole credit for saving them. I don't. You played an important role that you should be proud of and without it many of your patients would have died. Sure, other people were sometimes more critical to patient outcomes but this isn't their blog. The great things that the nurses, other EMTs, doctors, technicians, etc. should be celebrated but they don't take away from the things you do.
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I enjoyed your previous blogs. It felt it gave me an insight into a world I never see. This blog just adds to that I appreciate it.
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Hell, you work this job voluntary. You have all the right in the world to blog about the heroic stuff as much as you like.
I for myself enjoyed your stories so far.
+ Show Spoiler +And if you wish to brag you actually have the damn right to do so, too
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Please continue sharing the 1%. I want to you to share experiences that 99% of us will never get to.
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