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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On February 15 2014 04:26 Najda wrote: It sounded like you sent the letter to her as a test to see if she was dating anyone else. No, I just found a motive I knew she would appreciate, because it hits her humour right at the mark: ![[image loading]](http://i0.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/498/750/dd3.jpg) So I had it printed on fancy paper etc., cut it out, put it on a nice card etc. No vile intent. But then I got thinking... | ||
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isaachukfan
Canada785 Posts
On February 15 2014 06:53 SixStrings wrote: No, I just found a motive I knew she would appreciate, because it hits her humour right at the mark: So I had it printed on fancy paper etc., cut it out, put it on a nice card etc. No vile intent. But then I got thinking... You just made this day for me....glad to see your (sort of)gf appreciates dark humour | ||
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Gotard
Poland446 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland27228 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On February 15 2014 06:53 SixStrings wrote: No, I just found a motive I knew she would appreciate, because it hits her humour right at the mark: So I had it printed on fancy paper etc., cut it out, put it on a nice card etc. No vile intent. But then I got thinking... Just curious, were you the same person who posted in this thread a while back about initiating conversation with strangers on the train with "It feels like we're on the way to Auschwitz" ? | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6192 Posts
On February 15 2014 06:53 SixStrings wrote: No, I just found a motive I knew she would appreciate, because it hits her humour right at the mark: So I had it printed on fancy paper etc., cut it out, put it on a nice card etc. No vile intent. But then I got thinking... Lolol, wat. That card is both awful and amazing. And has undertones of incest, considering they were the 'twin towers'. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On February 15 2014 12:04 Najda wrote: Just curious, were you the same person who posted in this thread a while back about initiating conversation with strangers on the train with "It feels like we're on the way to Auschwitz" ? I am. But it was a very crowded tram. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
I'm glad you were able to find someone with your same sense of humor then. | ||
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DoctorM
United States36 Posts
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Silver Streak
Finland4 Posts
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HeeroFX
United States2704 Posts
On February 16 2014 05:10 DoctorM wrote: So I went on an amazing valentines day date yesterday. Both of us weren't single when we met, then I got broken up with. She was in a long distance thing, so we were hanging out together/semi flirting pretty often. Three weeks ago she got broken up with, and we've flirted pretty hard since. The date was awesome and we definitely got involved, but both of us agree we aren't ready for a relationship again so soon. Gosh there's a lot of feels here it's almost exhausting. Nice man, I think you are in a good spot with her. But it is good you guys don't rush into a relationship, don't wanna be "the rebound" you want to be the slam dunk haha. Also that card was pretty awesome that is pictured here. The girl I like I sent flowers too her work she was so excited and happy. I guess 2 other guys sent her flowers too for that holiday she told me this but I felt like she made a point to say mine stood out. She put them up on facebook and everything so that is cool. But I finally got my answer with her...She isn't ready for a relationship as she wants to focus on her life, and she just wants a good friend. Which is a cool way of saying well I don't wanna date you now, but I want you in my life still..so whatever. So I guess we are still close friends I mean we text daily. It is tough because I thought holy shit she likes me more than a friend with the way she acted around me. I will say I don't regret anything I did for her, or said. But I have to step back and take it day by day and not get ahead of myself, maybe find another love interest. Maybe it will work out with her or not I think it was pretty brave to tell a person I am good friends with that I have feelings for, risking everything our friendship is. But it is stressful just wondering about where I stand, can I do anything to win her heart, or get ahead of the other guys....so fuck it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have other things to worry about right now, like studying for exams (last semester woot!). So once I am done studying for the day I am going to go play Diablo 3 or maybe go pick up the new Final Fantasy 13-3 and see how bad it is. (P.S thanks for letting me post this feels better to get it out of my system, maybe it will serve to remind me if I ever feel self doubt) | ||
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Calanthe
United States148 Posts
On February 15 2014 03:41 dravernor wrote: Also gl with your fiance today! :D Thanks! I picked him up yesterday and now he's at my apartment while I'm at work.  I never have to send him back agaaaaiiiinnnn!!!! | ||
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
So I went today. Bought my stuff and replicated a recipe. Totally gonna brag but it was excellent. My low cooking skills somehow paid off after 1 hour and a half of preparation(+ cook time) and girlfriend was in shock. Went all emo on me, crying, saying her heart could burst. Well yes, I guess it was that good. Even though I completely forgot to get some fire for the candle and it sat there the whole diner... unlit ! | ||
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Dogfoodboy16
364 Posts
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Zooper31
United States5713 Posts
On February 17 2014 17:31 Dogfoodboy16 wrote: So on Valentines Day I officially got out of the friend zone with my best friend of 4 years. Probably one of the best or worst decisions I have made in my life so far. I dunno what the protocol is now though. Do I now just act like we have been dating for years and treat it as a super serious relationship or keep it more casual? My life just got a whole lot more complicated XD If you guys alrdy hanged out a ton, just add kissing/hugging/fucking into the mix and do normal couple things. Buy her flowers and shit. You don't need to go through the awkward first date kind of stuff at all, this person is alrdy cool with you so just act like boyfriend and girlfriend. | ||
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Eisregen
Germany967 Posts
On February 17 2014 17:37 Zooper31 wrote: If you guys alrdy hanged out a ton, just add kissing/hugging/fucking into the mix and do normal couple things. Buy her flowers and shit. You don't need to go through the awkward first date kind of stuff at all, this person is alrdy cool with you so just act like boyfriend and girlfriend. Don't underestimate the irrational woman. Had the same thing last year (twice actually) were I finally hooked up with my best friend after 6 years and it got serious. Keeping it normal is a good idea, that is, if she doesnt change her behavour in relationships.... | ||
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MightyBill
93 Posts
On February 17 2014 17:47 Eisregen wrote: Don't underestimate the irrational woman. Had the same thing last year (twice actually) were I finally hooked up with my best friend after 6 years and it got serious. Keeping it normal is a good idea, that is, if she doesnt change her behavour in relationships.... Why irrational women? People in general are irrational, including you. Don't start overthinking stuff. And you hooked up with your 2 best friends?  | ||
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Dogfoodboy16
364 Posts
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Orcasgt24
Canada3238 Posts
On February 18 2014 12:06 Dogfoodboy16 wrote: Any ideas on how i can get on my girlfriend's parents good side? They are somewhat dismissive of me because they both have doctorates and i never finished high school. I own a house and make a good amount of money to comfortably support me and my gf so I don't really get what her parents big deal is. Its not like im trying to stop her from going to college but school was never my thing. Good job? Check Financially Stable? Check Owns a house? Check Go to College? XXXX Cannt date my daughter!! ^Parent logic. I don't think you can win them over personally unless you waste time and money going back to school. $20 bucks says they are asian :p | ||
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Dogfoodboy16
364 Posts
On February 18 2014 12:40 Orcasgt24 wrote: Good job? Check Financially Stable? Check Owns a house? Check Go to College? XXXX Cannt date my daughter!! ^Parent logic. I don't think you can win them over personally unless you waste time and money going back to school. $20 bucks says they are asian :p Actually her parents are Afgan. They were both scientists in Iran during the 70's and were able to gain American citizenship somehow because the US was in desperate need of scientists back then and the situation in Iran was getting ugly at the end of the decade. Mabye its just because im a white guy dating an middle eastern girl and they think im an infidel | ||
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