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On March 28 2013 15:01 Crazysane wrote: 18 never had a gf/dated
looks are so-so, smarts are so-so, kinda short
probably why
bro let me introduce you to this guy: this is Eazy-E. he was so short you could almost consider him a midget, and as you can see hes not especially handsome. He did however, have like 8 kids from different women and people say that when he was really going at it he had sex with 10 women a day.
Don't give me that "it's my looks" shit, go out there and be the animal you are supposed to be!
I had a relationship for 2.5 years with a girl which I liked to much, being the only reason for surviving this long. After the first date she kissed someone else but since we didn't have a relationship I accepted it and later on we dated again eventually having a relationship. During the relation she had a weakness for other boys that also looked attractive to her. Think this weakness usually showed up after a discussion (yes I am very good a discussing, which some people get irritated of even friends sometimes, but working on that hahah). During the relationship I broke up two times when later on she wanted me back. After 2.5 years still liking her a lot although she had this weakness (which I somehow was able to deal with mentally) she broked up with me and went with her best friend, both leaving a message for me: You are a great guy and will defenitely find the right one. Bullshit message in my eyes.
My friends called me crazy in a good way for surviving this way 2.5 years.
The good thing about these situations is that you learn a lot, and know how to deal better with this bullshit. Yeah for some shitty reason we have to deal with this bullshit, which in the past didn't happen as much as now (mean a generation before me). Why find some girls so hard to be loyal... Don't ask me! :D
I also think because of this situation I am for some reason a bit more strict before going into a relationship. And I also find it great to be single while waiting for a new date to occur :D
On March 28 2013 15:01 Crazysane wrote: 18 never had a gf/dated
looks are so-so, smarts are so-so, kinda short
probably why
bro let me introduce you to this guy: this is Eazy-E. he was so short you could almost consider him a midget, and as you can see hes not especially handsome. He did however, have like 8 kids from different women and people say that when he was really going at it he had sex with 10 women a day.
Don't give me that "it's my looks" shit, go out there and be the animal you are supposed to be!
He had 10w/d only because he was Eazy motherfucking E... Even trash-face david guetta can get these numbers. It is only a matter of sucess and the confidence it implies.
On March 29 2013 01:24 Gianttt wrote: I had a relationship for 2.5 years with a girl which I liked to much, being the only reason for surviving this long. After the first date she kissed someone else but since we didn't have a relationship I accepted it and later on we dated again eventually having a relationship. During the relation she had a weakness for other boys that also looked attractive to her. Think this weakness usually showed up after a discussion (yes I am very good a discussing, which some people get irritated of even friends sometimes, but working on that hahah). During the relationship I broke up two times when later on she wanted me back. After 2.5 years still liking her a lot although she had this weakness (which I somehow was able to deal with mentally) she broked up with me and went with her best friend, both leaving a message for me: You are a great guy and will defenitely find the right one. Bullshit message in my eyes.
My friends called me crazy in a good way for surviving this way 2.5 years.
The good thing about these situations is that you learn a lot, and know how to deal better with this bullshit. Yeah for some shitty reason we have to deal with this bullshit, which in the past didn't happen as much as now (mean a generation before me). Why find some girls so hard to be loyal... Don't ask me! :D
I also think because of this situation I am for some reason a bit more strict before going into a relationship. And I also find it great to be single while waiting for a new date to occur :D
I once had a relationship for close to a year... Kinda crashed when I found out that this bitch had been getting several dicks on the side.. Ironically when I broke it off, instead of her being like, meh I got my back ups she went into total hyperventilate ape shit freak out mode... Still can't put my fingers on how fucked in the head she was..
19 and never had a gf.. getting pretty desperate too! Confesed my love to a friend a couple of months ago, got rejected hardcore and now i don't know if i will ever find anyone.
On March 29 2013 04:58 AxiR wrote: 19 and never had a gf.. getting pretty desperate too! Confesed my love to a friend a couple of months ago, got rejected hardcore and now i don't know if i will ever find anyone.
On March 22 2013 20:23 Nuf wrote: I just friendzoned a chick that was too young for me, in my own opinion. I'm 22 and she's 17. I'm pretty proud of myself.
Literally the same thing just happened to me. I was talking to this girl in my class and was going to ask her out until I found out she is only 17 and is dual enrolled at my college. How did you go about telling her you're not interested? I don't want to end up leading her on, but I don't want to just stop talking to her either.
On March 22 2013 20:23 Nuf wrote: I just friendzoned a chick that was too young for me, in my own opinion. I'm 22 and she's 17. I'm pretty proud of myself.
Literally the same thing just happened to me. I was talking to this girl in my class and was going to ask her out until I found out she is only 17 and is dual enrolled at my college. How did you go about telling her you're not interested? I don't want to end up leading her on, but I don't want to just stop talking to her either.
You don't have to, this is one of the situations where it is better to be the guy. I've had several situations where I could tell a girl wanted me to ask her out but I just wanted to be friends, so I just kept acting like a friend. I'd say 90% of girls out there will never ask a guy out for various reasons. Just friend zone her and the likelihood of anything awkward coming up is incredibly low.
On March 31 2013 02:35 farvacola wrote: Risking oral herpes by making out with a stripper doesn't sound so great....I'm sure she really liked you though
On March 31 2013 02:35 farvacola wrote: Risking oral herpes by making out with a stripper doesn't sound so great....I'm sure she really liked you though
hahaha oral herpes. That shit is priceless.
Almost as priceless as the dude who thinks that kissing a stripper is a demonstration of the Kavorka It's not like she's, you know, paid by you and a bar to show you affection.
"Dude, that stripper said she wants me to go to some backroom with her. She wants it man!"
On March 31 2013 02:35 farvacola wrote: Risking oral herpes by making out with a stripper doesn't sound so great....I'm sure she really liked you though
hahaha oral herpes. That shit is priceless.
Almost as priceless as the dude who thinks that kissing a stripper is a demonstration of the Kavorka It's not like she's, you know, paid by you and a bar to show you affection.
"Dude, that stripper said she wants me to go to some backroom with her. She wants it man!"
Na she was at the bar, came up to me started talking. I kinda ignored her and made out with her. Then I asked her what she was and she said she was a stripper and she like tall white guys lmao.
On March 28 2013 15:01 Crazysane wrote: 18 never had a gf/dated
looks are so-so, smarts are so-so, kinda short
probably why
bro let me introduce you to this guy: this is Eazy-E. he was so short you could almost consider him a midget, and as you can see hes not especially handsome. He did however, have like 8 kids from different women and people say that when he was really going at it he had sex with 10 women a day.
Don't give me that "it's my looks" shit, go out there and be the animal you are supposed to be!
I used to know a bitch named Eric Wright - We used to roll around and fuck the hoes at night, Tighter than a motherfucka with the gangsta beats, And we was balling on the motherfucking Compton streets.
BITCHES AINT SHIT BUT HOES AND TRICKS LICK ON THESE NUTS AND SUCK THE DICK GETS THE FUCK OUT WHEN YOURE DONE AND I HOPS IN MY RIDE TO MAKE A QUICK RUN