EPTI always felt the friendzone was a made believe zone that people make up when shit happens.
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Jisall
United States2054 Posts
I always felt the friendzone was a made believe zone that people make up when shit happens. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On April 03 2013 01:09 Jisall wrote: Lol in responce to a post a few pages back, that chick who i talked to for hours after the bar, made no attempt at a move. I made out with her last night, so no friendzone. I always felt the friendzone was a made believe zone that people make up when shit happens. Or whenever the guy gets rejected. It has legimate uses. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On April 03 2013 04:34 Zooper31 wrote: Or whenever the guy gets rejected. It has legimate uses. Or with guys too afraid to make a move. | ||
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Jisall
United States2054 Posts
You won't get rejected if you are nice and know how to have fun with a chicks personality. And eventually even a friendzoned guy can make a move, hes just got to take charge and make his move. | ||
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larryselina
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codonbyte
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GreEny K
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
Sometimes I think that there are things I should be doing while I still have free time. Writing programs that will make me lots of money or just do good for the world but I always procrastinate on doing this. I think given the chance I would go for a girlfriend. But not right now. Not while I have to move back to school in 5 months. | ||
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Kmatt
United States1019 Posts
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thot
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Well anyway, I'm hanging out with Jess the other day and we start fooling around. She eventually asks me if I think I could have sex without getting all weird about it (remember that she doesn't want a relationship and in the past I had), and I say yes (and I was being honest). So we end up having sex (my first time). Meanwhile, I'm still hanging out with Sarah and it seems like we're kind of moving towards something more similar to a relationship, and I know Sarah is down too (I've always been really nervous about sex in the past, and still am really). So where I was a virgin a few days ago I could possibly have sex twice, with two different girls, by the end of the week. I don't know how to feel about sleeping with two girls at the same time. On one hand, I'm 100% sure that Jess doesn't care if I fuck around with other girls because that's exactly what she wants, a friends with benefits type thing where we're both free to fuck other people. On the other hand, while me and Sarah aren't exclusive or anything I doubt she'd really be cool with me sleeping with other girls. Would it be bad to keep it up with Jess until things get more serious with Sarah, or am I just being a huge fucking asshole? | ||
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Antares777
United States1971 Posts
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On April 05 2013 09:08 thot wrote: In kind of a weird situation right now involving two girls (what a nice problem to have, I know haha). I've been friends with one of them for a good while (let's call her Jess), we had fooled around in the past (no sex), but we always ended up breaking it off because she refused to be exclusive with me. I met the other girl (let's call her Sarah) about two weeks ago and we've kind of been hitting it off. Well anyway, I'm hanging out with Jess the other day and we start fooling around. She eventually asks me if I think I could have sex without getting all weird about it (remember that she doesn't want a relationship and in the past I had), and I say yes (and I was being honest). So we end up having sex (my first time). Meanwhile, I'm still hanging out with Sarah and it seems like we're kind of moving towards something more similar to a relationship, and I know Sarah is down too (I've always been really nervous about sex in the past, and still am really). So where I was a virgin a few days ago I could possibly have sex twice, with two different girls, by the end of the week. I don't know how to feel about sleeping with two girls at the same time. On one hand, I'm 100% sure that Jess doesn't care if I fuck around with other girls because that's exactly what she wants, a friends with benefits type thing where we're both free to fuck other people. On the other hand, while me and Sarah aren't exclusive or anything I doubt she'd really be cool with me sleeping with other girls. Would it be bad to keep it up with Jess until things get more serious with Sarah, or am I just being a huge fucking asshole? Sarah would 100% be pissed and angry if she knew you were doing another girl while you were going on dates with her. Would be best to just not have sex with Jess until you get into an official relationship with Sarah if you don't want to end up losing everything with her if she finds out. Find out what's gonna happen with Sarah soon so you can either start doing her and be in a relationship or break it off and not mess up what you have happening with Jess. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On April 05 2013 09:11 Antares777 wrote: Asked a girl to prom. Execution was... ok. Not good, not bad, just ok. Now I have to somehow find enough money to pay for the tickets and rent a tux. Overall, I'm impressed with myself. I decided to make several roses out of tissue paper to ask her and it turned out to be a brilliant idea! Results are what matter! She said yes. She wants the D lol. The tissue roses are a good touch, if you can make them really good they are 10x better than giving her real ones. Theres places that gives low or special rates for tux's/dresses just for prom. Just start looking around and if you can ask where other people before you went. | ||
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thot
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On April 05 2013 09:17 Zooper31 wrote: Sarah would 100% be pissed and angry if she knew you were doing another girl while you were going on dates with her. Would be best to just not have sex with Jess until you get into an official relationship with Sarah if you don't want to end up losing everything with her if she finds out. Find out what's gonna happen with Sarah soon so you can either start doing her and be in a relationship or break it off and not mess up what you have happening with Jess. Well the thing is me and Sarah aren't dating yet, more of just hanging out (I'm in college, am broke, don't have a car, etc, so I probably won't be taking her out on many dates, but that's honestly besides the point, I know what you're saying), but I definitely agree that she'd probably be pissed if she found out and I definitely don't want that. Not only in the sense that I don't want her to be pissed at me, but also in that I don't want to hurt her. I guess I already know what the 'right' thing to do is, its pretty obvious. I'm probably just avoiding cutting it off with Jess because I'm ridiculously attracted to her | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
On April 05 2013 09:33 thot wrote: Well the thing is me and Sarah aren't dating yet, more of just hanging out (I'm in college, am broke, don't have a car, etc, so I probably won't be taking her out on many dates, but that's honestly besides the point, I know what you're saying), but I definitely agree that she'd probably be pissed if she found out and I definitely don't want that. Not only in the sense that I don't want her to be pissed at me, but also in that I don't want to hurt her. I guess I already know what the 'right' thing to do is, its pretty obvious. I'm probably just avoiding cutting it off with Jess because I'm ridiculously attracted to her Exactly. But hopefully you'll have a new girl to play around with soon enough. | ||
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iAmWaKai
Canada33 Posts
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Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
We're all in high school and so he likes a girl (Let's call her A), who is the sister of his classmate. She's 2 years younger than us. This classmate (Let's call him Z) and I are friends and he warned M that A is a bit crazy. I hinted at it, saying he shouldn't date her because even I know that this girl is straight up difficult (lots of problems. dysfunctional family, laziness, anger problems, suicidal, all her therapists quit on her, the one with her now treats her as if shes insane). So M goes on ahead to date her and later finds out he does not want to be in this relationship (found out about the mentioned above) so we wonder how he can break up with her. He would have broken up with her long time ago but if he did, A would throw a tantrum and stress out Z. He tried many different methods but none of them worked, some just blatantly backfiring because the girl was so emotionally attached. So he needed a way to break this relationship but stuck with her for the next 2 weeks until.. He and our friend (call him H) devised an epic plan where H baited out the hormones of A by just straight up asking for sex. A agrees to make out with him and M subtly hints that he knows what she had done and handles the situation like a man "Its ok you can tell me the truth..." and bam he friendzoned her. Oh man, lol. | ||
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Zooper31
United States5711 Posts
So the first date I just gave her a hug no kiss or anything but we both smiled and looked at each other, just didn't happen. Tell myself I'm gonna go for the kiss, she obviously is interested and we had a great time together. Stop truck lean over console, give a small slow smile and look into her eyes. She immediately looks down as shes grabbing her purse and I barely made any eye contact and she starts opening the door and then shes out of reach to do anything. Before closing the door she looks back in and smiles and says goodnight. No clue what happened. Did she deny me? Was she just oblivious? Was she really nervous and panicked? Why would you accept coming back to my place at 9pm at night to hangout on a 2nd date if you are going to deny a simple kiss goodnight. It's not some sort of commitment, she's alrdy told me she finds me attractive and vice versa. I know she said she was really shy and nervous but she starts to become herself and talk more and be more open when she gets more comfortable. I definitely noticed she was better on the 2nd date than the first and we had a better time def, not raining and all lol. Halp. I basically just had the "ok" face and sang my fuckity fuck song driving home thinking about everything I could've done better lol. | ||
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Serpest
United States603 Posts
On April 05 2013 09:44 Zooper31 wrote: Exactly. But hopefully you'll have a new girl to play around with soon enough. Would have been more hilarious had you used Jessie and Lucy as your gf's names. | ||
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