My wife went to Madrid,Spain for a business trip from Thursday till Saturday. On friday our daughter has to go to ballet lessons but I happened to have a surgery that day and I couldnt make it in time so her mother offered on thursday night that if I wasnt able to make it on time on friday she would take my daughter to that ballet class. So now comes saturday, wife returns from her business trip, all she keeps asking me about is what surgery I had, why it took so many hours, with which doctor I was with and things like that. I didnt really mind and gave her answers but inside me I was like why the hell is she suddently asking all these questions. anyway in the morning we all go to a playground for the kids and us to drink a coffee and relax and talk. After that finishes we start getting home, again something about my surgery comes up and im telling her the exact time I finished. So my surgery was from 8 in the morning till 16:00 and the ballet class was on 16:30. So she is like, if you finished at 16:00 why didnt you take our daughter to the ballet class. I was like, because I wouldnt make it in time and also I was very tired and hungry at that time so I thought it was best for your mom to take her. So she starts telling me I dont care about our children that I only care about myself etc. So we get home and she gets a 2hour sleep with our son and my daughter goes upstairs to my inlaws, I go outside the house because there has been a massive car accident so I go to check on it. After 2 hours I return, so my wife suddently tells me about a chair I brought from my parents house that Ive put to sit on the desk I have my laptop where at nights I can relax, play video games or whatever I wanna do. So we get into a really big fight about that particular chair and that she wants it out of the house and if I wanna use a chair I should take one from our living room or my daughter's chair, and I tell her no, these are uncomfortable I like this chair and this chair will stay here no matter what, so she tells me if I dont take back the chair she will either throw it in the garbage and that at night time she will turn off the internet to make me angry and that she doesnt care at all what I want. So I tell her I cant stand her controlling behavior and that this is not normal anymore to be asking this. And then she tells me if you dont like it go stay at your parents house because this is my house and I dont want you here if u like that chair. So I packed my things and left with the chair and now im living at my parents house. This happened on saturday.
PS: before she left for madrid she was telling me how good everything is between us and how happy she is, she even sent me a text from madrid saying she misses me alot and that we should go out the two of us one night. I really do not know what to say. Im sick of being controlled , im a grown up man and I would like to make decisions on my own. If it werent for our kids I would have taken a divorce seriously coz enough with all this BS.