EPTOn October 22 2013 09:04 Bippzy wrote:
Henceforth, she shall be known as wifey.
Henceforth, she shall be known as wifey.
ok come on i can't possible be the only person to find this hilarious right
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Carnivorous Sheep
Baa?21245 Posts
ok come on i can't possible be the only person to find this hilarious right | ||
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
She made all the moves and if I knew half of what I do about how women make "moves" I'd probally had gotten my first "serious" relationship there but I knew nothing and understood nothing so while it sucks and I still miss her. Don't think you're lucky that your girl won't move back to Thailand when the year is over, cus if you wait that long you'll probally be put in the friend zone cus she's come to know you as a friend and that will make "getting her" alot harder than it needs to be especially since she's on to you. I noticed you didn't write how "touchy feely" you two are, but honestly you should just GO for it. Good tip to asking girls out is if you ask them to come along to do something trivial, something you woulda done even if she didn't tag along which puts a ton of pressure of you both cus then it's not a "date", but you can use it as one, hell when I "got" my first serious girlfriend a year later after the exchange student business I asked her to come along cus I had to go buy Skyrim for my X-Box lol. Just take the initiative whenever you feel you can and for the love of god dont make up excuses for not doing anything, it'll do nothing. Go go ~~ keep us updated | ||
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NeuroticPsychosis
United States322 Posts
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MateShade
Australia736 Posts
Aside from that, just make a move to show her you are clearly 100% interested in her as a girlfriend and if she is keen things will fall into place if you don't talk about your grades all the time. | ||
Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On October 22 2013 21:17 Carnivorous Sheep wrote: ok come on i can't possible be the only person to find this hilarious right It's probably too old for most highschoolers. D: Anyways, ask her out and you will succeed. It's really that simple. Just not with friends. Probably even before the movie night. Don't do that "trick" date shit, where they think it's just hanging out. Just ask her out to a movie and dinner, or whatever else there is to do in your area (besides football.) | ||
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Battleaxe
United States843 Posts
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IronManSC
United States2119 Posts
Now I'm only speaking from my experience (1-time only experience, that is), but when I was a Senior in high school I dated a Sophomore girl. Love was in the air, or so to speak. We went on a few dates for probably 2 months, and then randomly things just fell off the grid. She started ignoring me, wouldn't text me anymore, and wouldn't look at me during math class. It drove me crazy. I even wrote a letter of apology to her for anything bad I may have done to her (I was completely oblivious to what was going on in her mind, or even if I did anything bad). She never responded to my letter. One week later, she ended up breaking up with me the night before sadie hawkins - the thing she asked me out to. There was no reason given for it either. I talked to her a couple years later and she said she was sorry, but that she was just confused with all the feelings and school priorities and other such things. I can't blame her. She was only 16. I guess my point is that high school dating sucks and doesn't work too often. It's great if it does and it sound like it might for you, but just be cautious and don't be too forward. She may have these flirty, lovey-dovey feelings for you but if it comes to the point where you guys make a commitment she might freak out and back off for various reasons (immaturity, not wanting to invest yet, etc). Not saying she will, but just be aware of what may happen and don't put all your balls in one basket. Do casual hang outs and be in public areas mostly. | ||
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Shiori
3815 Posts
I actually really like the concept of a pure, uncorrupted girl Scrolled down to see how many people quoted this. Was not disappointed. Dude: sexual experience (unless you're selling yourself to buy crack, or something) has absolutely nothing to do with virtuous character. I did the exact same thing as you did (over-idealizing relationships, sexuality, etc.) and it will come crashing down on you. You'll have sex, or date someone you were in "love" with, or get into a serious relationship, and it won't measure up to your ideal because your ideal is unreachable by definition. The rest of it sounds fine, and you're in highschool so it's all basically whatever anyway, but just try to find someone with an attractive personality and an attractive character. Usually you just get one or the other. | ||
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Xaax
United States102 Posts
Remember getting rejected is nothing you gain nothing you lose nothing. | ||
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Iplaythings
Denmark9110 Posts
On October 23 2013 00:27 Jibba wrote: It's probably too old for most highschoolers. D: Anyways, ask her out and you will succeed. It's really that simple. Just not with friends. Probably even before the movie night. Don't do that "trick" date shit, where they think it's just hanging out. Just ask her out to a movie and dinner, or whatever else there is to do in your area (besides football.) I suppose I should remember that you guys are in the US were "dating" is "common" afaik. In Denmark setting up a "date" is just super awkward as it makes (me and those I've talked to this about) feel pressured to make something happen whereas my suggestion is more casual, which sits better with me. Keep in mind I'm still a teenager and it was advice meant to not make him so tense when he decided to do "something". | ||
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Kenpachi
United States9908 Posts
On October 22 2013 17:04 Mstring wrote: Forget about trying to "get a relationship" and just start relating. qft this is good lol I dated a senior last year as junior.. She gave me all the right hints and they just flew by my head lol. Quite the perspective. Took about a month to realize and we started dating. | ||
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HolyExlxF
United States256 Posts
I guess if you just want a fun time with a clock, go for it. It'll be really hard to keep things up in college, so live for the moment I guess. Also, might want to brush up on your state's statutory laws. | ||
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Jibba
United States22883 Posts
On October 23 2013 07:03 Iplaythings wrote: I suppose I should remember that you guys are in the US were "dating" is "common" afaik. In Denmark setting up a "date" is just super awkward as it makes (me and those I've talked to this about) feel pressured to make something happen whereas my suggestion is more casual, which sits better with me. Keep in mind I'm still a teenager and it was advice meant to not make him so tense when he decided to do "something". Learn to do it the manly way and you'll be better for it. Especially as you (and them) get older.  On October 23 2013 04:03 IronManSC wrote: It's hard to resist, but don't go into relationships in highschool expecting to find love. Infatuation, yes. But both of you are going to (and should) change wildly over the next 10 years. This is to have fun and make yourself comfortable with it all. Don't feel bad about that.Wow some of you guys are harsh. I believe his intro wasn't a selfish thing necessarily, but rather to show us what kind of a person he is, and perhaps what his schedule looks like on a daily or weekly basis. He clearly has goals and desires in mind for his own life, and that's good (women love that a guy thinks positively about himself). Now I'm only speaking from my experience (1-time only experience, that is), but when I was a Senior in high school I dated a Sophomore girl. Love was in the air, or so to speak. We went on a few dates for probably 2 months, and then randomly things just fell off the grid. She started ignoring me, wouldn't text me anymore, and wouldn't look at me during math class. It drove me crazy. I even wrote a letter of apology to her for anything bad I may have done to her (I was completely oblivious to what was going on in her mind, or even if I did anything bad). She never responded to my letter. One week later, she ended up breaking up with me the night before sadie hawkins - the thing she asked me out to. There was no reason given for it either. I talked to her a couple years later and she said she was sorry, but that she was just confused with all the feelings and school priorities and other such things. I can't blame her. She was only 16. I guess my point is that high school dating sucks and doesn't work too often. It's great if it does and it sound like it might for you, but just be cautious and don't be too forward. She may have these flirty, lovey-dovey feelings for you but if it comes to the point where you guys make a commitment she might freak out and back off for various reasons (immaturity, not wanting to invest yet, etc). Not saying she will, but just be aware of what may happen and don't put all your balls in one basket. Do casual hang outs and be in public areas mostly. | ||
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Shiori
3815 Posts
It's hard to resist, but don't go into relationships in highschool expecting to find love. Infatuation, yes. But both of you are going to (and should) change wildly over the next 10 years. This is to have fun and make yourself comfortable with it all. Don't feel bad about that. This, but it's a paradox. See, the only way you can learn about what real love actually is is by thinking you're in love a bunch of times when you're young and naive, then over time realizing that you were missing the point. So while I agree with Jibba, I should also add that you shouldn't be denying any feelings you have. If you' think you're in love, there's a 99% chance that, at your age, you're wrong/don't understand what you're talking about, but, nevertheless, you need to figure out why that is rather than just assuming it's because of age. Age, on its own, won't solve any problems. You need to have experiences and make mistakes. So go all out, is what I'm saying. | ||
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