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firehand101
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Australia3152 Posts
June 21 2012 12:15 GMT
#1
It has gotten to a point where it is driving me crazy.

Long story short, there is a girl I like. But I just dont know........

aargg I always hear people say 'just ask her out' bla bla but what if it doesnt work? We go to the same school so it will be forever awkward ,,,

hmmmmm
she is so pretty, and smart, and just........

hmmmm

I think it is more complicated then just asking someone out. You have to earn their respect, through hard work.

Yeh maybe........maybe i will go down that route

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Anacletus
Profile Blog Joined April 2012
United States733 Posts
June 21 2012 12:16 GMT
#2
Just go talk to her and get to know her. What's the worst that could happen?
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firehand101
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Australia3152 Posts
June 21 2012 12:17 GMT
#3
On June 21 2012 21:16 Anacletus wrote:
Just go talk to her and get to know her. What's the worst that could happen?

saying no, which i guess doesnt sound too bad. I dont know.......maybe she doesnt like me and it would be awkward for her....i think i will have to earn her respect first
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firehand101
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Australia3152 Posts
June 21 2012 12:18 GMT
#4
Does anyone think there are relationships that will never happen?
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FraCuS
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United States1072 Posts
June 21 2012 12:21 GMT
#5
It won't happen unless you go and talk to her!
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iTzSnypah
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
United States1738 Posts
June 21 2012 12:21 GMT
#6
Erm by the time you earn her respect you'll be forever lost in the friendzone. My advice? Forget this girl, she is obviously out of your league.
Team Liquid needs more Terrans.
Hoosegow
Profile Joined August 2010
United States139 Posts
June 21 2012 12:27 GMT
#7
No risk, no reward. When you think to yourself about how great this girl is and how much you'd like to be with her, just remember that that can never possibly happen if you don't go talk to her.
firehand101
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Australia3152 Posts
June 21 2012 12:29 GMT
#8
On June 21 2012 21:21 iTzSnypah wrote:
Erm by the time you earn her respect you'll be forever lost in the friendzone. My advice? Forget this girl, she is obviously out of your league.

yeh this is the advice i was afraid of, but realised it is the most likely
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Azera
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
3800 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-06-21 12:41:06
June 21 2012 12:40 GMT
#9
Try to be friends with her first! A relationship that burns furiously will extinguish early, while a relationship that has been built slowly and steadily will last.

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Take what I say with a grain of salt. Never had a girlfriend before.
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Jinsho
Profile Joined March 2011
United Kingdom3101 Posts
June 21 2012 12:54 GMT
#10
Ask her out you moron.

"Forever awkward", no it won't. You'll get over her very quickly if she doesn't say yes.
Knap4life
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
Slovenia333 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-06-21 13:05:38
June 21 2012 13:05 GMT
#11


When it comes to women , you have to be the "DO IT" guy and not the "Think about it" guy.
Shock710
Profile Blog Joined December 2009
Australia6097 Posts
June 21 2012 13:11 GMT
#12
On June 21 2012 21:40 Azera wrote:
Try to be friends with her first! A relationship that burns furiously will extinguish early, while a relationship that has been built slowly and steadily will last.

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Take what I say with a grain of salt. Never had a girlfriend before.

Yeah friends first seems to work for my buddies, tho i've never a had agf either...=(

Azera, i'm coming to sg! TMR! whooo!
dAPhREAk gives Shock a * | [23:55] <Shock710> that was out of context -_- [16:26] <@motbob> Good question, Shock!
Disposition1989
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Canada270 Posts
June 21 2012 13:19 GMT
#13
do it. (you wont do it). but yes, talk to her. wanna spend the next 3 months thinking about what ifs? thats where youre headed and its not any better than where you are now i can tell you that!

if you go too slow, youre on the highway to the friendzone. start with something neutral, like a movie perhaps. see how she dresses and acts and stuff. did she hit you on the arm and tell you to shut UP!! etc etc. watch for these little things and gauge her interest in you
Maxd11
Profile Joined July 2011
United States680 Posts
June 21 2012 13:23 GMT
#14
Most of the advice here seems good but I do understand the "Forever-Awkward" thing. It's not like you ask her out and you never have to see her again. You have to see her every day and vice-versa. And then she might (will) go tell all her friends and you won't have a chance with any of them either (This is more amplified in a smaller school).
Good luck none the less and I hope you get her.
I looked in the mirror and saw biupilm69t
Stabby.aus
Profile Joined August 2010
Australia94 Posts
June 21 2012 13:31 GMT
#15
yolo man, fucking yolo!

It will suck if she knocks you back, but it will suck even more if she starts getting dicked by another guy while you are still plucking up the courage. trust me.
Cramsy
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Australia1100 Posts
June 21 2012 13:32 GMT
#16
How old are you?

I can see you're from Australia. I'm sure you know Australians well enough by now that we don't really care and carry on for too long.

Monday; "OMG DID U HEAR THAT HE ASKED HER OUT AND SHE SAID NO!?"
Tuesday; 'Who?'

Really, just go for it son.
"give me 20 minutes and I'll make them quiet" - MVP
FataLe
Profile Joined November 2010
New Zealand4535 Posts
June 21 2012 13:39 GMT
#17
Looks like you have a case of onitis.
Just ask her out if you feel confident she'll say yes.
What if she says no?
How old are you haha. If she says no, then it's no. You can't make her like you.
Life goes on man, find another whose better.

Good luck OP.
hi. big fan.
UncleOwnage
Profile Joined September 2010
Denmark36 Posts
June 21 2012 13:44 GMT
#18
In my experience, asking a girl you're obsessing over out can only produce good results.

Either she says yes and you win.

Or she says no which after tiny bit of pain/awkwardness/whatever (depending on your relationship) frees you to find another suitable mate(since you probably won't be obsessing as much).
Awful
Alpino
Profile Joined June 2011
Brazil4390 Posts
June 21 2012 14:02 GMT
#19
Go down the talking route. Rarely there'll be some kind of hard work that'll make someone who doesn't like you, like you.
20/11/2015 - never forget EE's Ember
DreamChaser
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
1649 Posts
June 21 2012 14:05 GMT
#20
5/5 would read again
Plays against every MU with nexus first.
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