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RubiksCube
Germany259 Posts
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GeckoVOD
Germany814 Posts
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FlaShFTW
United States10499 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46154 Posts
On June 22 2012 02:24 Gecko[Xp] wrote: have you ever heard of Schrödinger's cat? I really, really hope this is a Big Bang Theory reference. | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On June 21 2012 21:15 firehand101 wrote: It has gotten to a point where it is driving me crazy. Long story short, there is a girl I like. But I just dont know........ aargg I always hear people say 'just ask her out' bla bla but what if it doesnt work? We go to the same school so it will be forever awkward ,,, hmmmmm she is so pretty, and smart, and just........ hmmmm I think it is more complicated then just asking someone out. You have to earn their respect, through hard work. Yeh maybe........maybe i will go down that route you know what's going to earn her respect? growing the balls to tell her you like her | ||
Heyoka
Katowice25012 Posts
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oPPRoBe
United States199 Posts
On June 22 2012 02:46 heyoka wrote: I once asked a girl out in high school and she said no. I couldn't tell you her name anymore because I don't remember it. If that doesn't help boost your courage a little bit, I don't know what will. There's too little information for me to give proper advice but why not try asking her out to a movie or some other activities outside of school? You can gauge her interest in you and you get to watch a movie! Good luck. | ||
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Monarch.StarCrack
United States169 Posts
Perfect example, watch the old show Beauty and the Geek. | ||
BigFan
TLADT24920 Posts
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simian_sc
United States91 Posts
Think, more Stephano swag, less Nestea awkwardness. | ||
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shizaep
Canada2920 Posts
If you do not ask her out then you will always wonder about what could have been and will regret it forever. So... just talk to her. There is a reason why everyone gives this piece of advice. | ||
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Kalingingsong
Canada633 Posts
this is a numbers game, the chances that someone will like you is usually always below 50%, because its a lot easier to not like someone than it is to like them, so all you can do is ask a lot of people to increase your chances. Even if you work your ass off for one person they can always find more "reasons" to not to like you (so don't bother focusing too much on one person). If a customer doesn't like your product, you can try to improve your product however you can, but you should spend most of your effort on finding a new customer. | ||
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Probulous
Australia3894 Posts
 The most stressful thing in my life is getting out of bed to go to work. Enjoy the nerves, enjoy the shear gut-wrenching sweatiness of anticipation. If that isn't feeling alive, I don't know what is. Maybe finding fifty bucks down the back of the couch compares, or jumping out of an airplane. When people say life is for living, this is what they mean. Embrace the insanity  | ||
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firehand101
Australia3152 Posts
Haha it is all so simple when I'm on TL. Everything makes so much sense, and I am full of confidence now. Hell, i was full of confidence this morning going to school! Today was the last day of the term, and i was ready to ask her out... I had planned what i wanted to say and how to do it and everything........BUT FOR FRICGS SAKE all i did when i saw her was say 'hi' lol, there were so many opportunities to talk to her today, but i just turned away and pretended not to notice her....... IS THAT FUCKING NORMAL? fml why did i look away and not talk to her? her friends weren't even nearby, and she looked bored and lonely, and i couldnt even say anything........ this is fucked EDIT: i think i might have a disability when it comes to asking girls out....because of my sick hype in the morning, today i actually talked to so many more girls than usual, but the only one i want to ask out....wtf i pretended not to notice her? am i trying to act cool or something? | ||
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Probulous
Australia3894 Posts
It's not bad, like I said, enjoy it. There will be many years of yours where you wish you could feel that nervous expectation you get from asking someone out. It takes balls and some people are just naturals, others not so much. There are approximately 3 billion girls in the world, surely you can't fuck up with all of them Have a great weekend! | ||
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dAPhREAk
Nauru12397 Posts
On June 21 2012 21:18 firehand101 wrote: Does anyone think there are relationships that will never happen? kim taeyoon and me. =( | ||
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Azera
3800 Posts
On June 21 2012 23:29 GTR wrote: give her to me Arrest this paedophile. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
After cold approaching women for a while, it never truly goes away. Rarely do i approach with zero anxiety, there's always a bit of nerves. I have approached with no anxiety but i have to say its not as fun. It feels a lot more satisfying and rewarding to have some anxiety. Good luck with your endeavours | ||
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NoctemSC
United States771 Posts
On June 21 2012 21:18 firehand101 wrote: Does anyone think there are relationships that will never happen? First off, how old are you? This is relevant to any advice I would give you. Of course there are relationships that will never happen, you can't force someone to like you, that's absurd. Plenty of love interests are very one sided, just because you like someone does not mean that they automatically like you. You need to provide a bit more info in the OP if you're going to ask for advice. Are you her type? Do you believe you're physically attractive? Anyone that thinks that looks don't matter is lying through their teeth. Sexual attraction is important to any healthy relationship. You SHOULD desire the other person. If you don't believe she feels the same, you can always try to woo her but honestly, you can only do so much to try to make someone like you enough to actually date you. | ||
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Suc
Australia1569 Posts
On June 22 2012 15:35 firehand101 wrote: I have read every one of these posts, and they have all been absolutely amazing. They have made me laugh out loud (lol), cry (jks) but my favorite ones were the lengthy posts that made me really think about asking out girls in general. Haha it is all so simple when I'm on TL. Everything makes so much sense, and I am full of confidence now. Hell, i was full of confidence this morning going to school! Today was the last day of the term, and i was ready to ask her out... I had planned what i wanted to say and how to do it and everything........BUT FOR FRICGS SAKE all i did when i saw her was say 'hi' lol, there were so many opportunities to talk to her today, but i just turned away and pretended not to notice her....... IS THAT FUCKING NORMAL? fml why did i look away and not talk to her? her friends weren't even nearby, and she looked bored and lonely, and i couldnt even say anything........ this is fucked EDIT: i think i might have a disability when it comes to asking girls out....because of my sick hype in the morning, today i actually talked to so many more girls than usual, but the only one i want to ask out....wtf i pretended not to notice her? am i trying to act cool or something? Just don't give up, you obviously felt somewhat baller, so keep trying. If you see her on the holidays or next term, just go for it again. You made some progress by even saying "hi" and eyeing off the opportunities. Next time, you just have to jump off the cliff, just start walking towards her and don't stop. If you can't manage to ask her straight out, just bring up something related to the date that you want to take her on and then transition into asking her out. Keep trying mate, just make sure you do it this year lol, don't leave it too long. | ||
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