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Don't worry about asking her out. Don't worry once you get rejected.
Once you get past this bump in the road, everything else afterwards seems like smooth sailing. It won't be that bad afterwards if you get rejected. It won't be that awkward, and they'll be other, perhaps even better girls. You'll see another girl in the future, and you'll remember how it wasn't that bad with this current girl, so you'll go for that other girl ezpz.
And better sooner than later. Methinks there is a slim timing before you get relegated into the friend-zone, at least for some girls. GO for it ASAP.
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On June 21 2012 21:40 Azera wrote:Try to be friends with her first! A relationship that burns furiously will extinguish early, while a relationship that has been built slowly and steadily will last. + Show Spoiler +Take what I say with a grain of salt. Never had a girlfriend before.
I've had a girlfriend before, and I can say that this is actually really good advice.
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Yeah, what's the worst that can happen if you get rejected? So you feel sad for a few days. There are plenty of fish in the sea ( as cliche as that sounds LOL )
gl!
Edit: I would start with some casual conversation, get to know her a little bit and then BAM ask. Anything further (ie, trying to become good friends with her, constant texting, etc) will only land you in the land of no return --> friend zone.
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If she's smart and pretty, she probably has been asked out quite a few times. If you don't make it particularly negatively memorable (by seeming particularly insecure/stumbling over words or creepy/obsessive) then I imagine that the any rejection awkwardness would fade as soon as you let it.
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