How to tell a girl that we're just friends? - Page 3
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THE_DOMINATOR
United States309 Posts
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Thienan567
United States670 Posts
On April 28 2012 21:01 Th1rdEye wrote: Eh, I hope it's not either of their FIRST dates ever with people.... Because if not, then this isn't even something to worry about. And, if your friend didn't see it until now..well, he must have his head in a book or something. I mean, who walks a girl to the bus stop or hangs out in halls and can't tell if someone is flirting with them? And, also, if neither of you have actually heard from the girl in direct wording, how can you be sure? Because this seemed like a "surprise" for him. Maybe she is bored, lonely, or likes guy friends over girl friends? Well by the sounds of the OP they're all in college and the guy is a physics major, aka a grade A nerd. So he probably DID have his head buried in a book the entire time while she's all giggly and shit, rofl. Anyway OP I think the momzoning/siszoning and/or the "can you help me with this chick" line is a great solution. It's just what I think though, who knows what'll happen with bitches. | ||
Loser777
1931 Posts
Update #1: It seems that as the trip as a whole was organized by some larger entity; they met a mutual friend at the park. Hopefully the mutual friend serves as an integrating factor to find the solution. I don't think he's going to say anything firm given that he has this bit of leeway now. | ||
thoraxe
United States1449 Posts
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Chimpalimp
United States1135 Posts
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itkovian
United States1763 Posts
On April 28 2012 17:51 Masq wrote: switch your gameplan, a macro build won't work. You need to go head first with a micro intensive build after scouting such an opener. I suggest a baneling bust. I agree, you don't want a macro game here, that will just draw it out too long with potentially devastating results. An early aggression build would be best. However, I think a baneling bust is too much of a do-or-die attack. You essentially blow your whole load in one dangerous moment. The method I've used, and would not recommend, in these cases is a cloak banshee attack. I play hard to pin down and hard to catch while harassing them to the point of a frustration gg. Again, I would not suggest this method because the opponent is typically unhappy and confused afterwards. Instead, I would suggest something more direct and brute force like a 4 gate. Simple, strait-forward. Its not as much about hiding your tech as it is about just hammering them with the truth quickly, and moving forwards from there. | ||
docvoc
United States5491 Posts
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Juliette
United States6003 Posts
I too third this. | ||
Loser777
1931 Posts
Well, as I mentioned earlier, physics master indeed found another group of friends, but this was not an asymptotically stable solution. The other group immediately assumed that he and Paula were a couple, and proceeded to act as a group of onlookers (taking several pictures of them). The rest of the day became exponentially more uncomfortable and awkward and I really don't understand why he didn't just say WE'RE NOT A COUPLE. The future really looks grim at this point. | ||
itkovian
United States1763 Posts
On April 29 2012 15:50 Loser777 wrote: Update 2: Well, as I mentioned earlier, physics master indeed found another group of friends, but this was not an asymptotically stable solution. The other group immediately assumed that he and Paula were a couple, and proceeded to act as a group of onlookers (taking several pictures of them). The rest of the day became exponentially more uncomfortable and awkward and I really don't understand why he didn't just say WE'RE NOT A COUPLE. The future really looks grim at this point. Sounds like he might as well take his chances and /0 at this point. At worst, the universe implodes; at best, he will be free of this burden with infinite new possibilities before him. | ||
UniversalSnip
9871 Posts
On April 29 2012 15:50 Loser777 wrote: Update 2: Well, as I mentioned earlier, physics master indeed found another group of friends, but this was not an asymptotically stable solution. The other group immediately assumed that he and Paula were a couple, and proceeded to act as a group of onlookers (taking several pictures of them). The rest of the day became exponentially more uncomfortable and awkward and I really don't understand why he didn't just say WE'RE NOT A COUPLE. The future really looks grim at this point. This system is becoming increasingly non-linear and chaos is certain to result. I strongly recommend physics master approach his maximum delta v in an attempt to turn around, or prepare for a rough landing in the maw of hell. | ||
FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
Think he deserves his fate at this point. | ||
Altercate
Sweden75 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Another support for this idea here. Alternatively, he could just go full honesty and tell Paula that 1) he likes hanging out with her but 2) he is not looking for a serious relationship with her because 3) he simply doesn't feel anything more than friendship. | ||
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