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Venus.exe
United States285 Posts
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decafchicken
United States20105 Posts
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RaNgeD
United States733 Posts
She just broke up with me blog, coming in 3 weeks. | ||
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RoyGBiv_13
United States1275 Posts
So, I face a similar problem. I met a girl a few years back in Austin, TX. We hit it off pretty well, though in an entirely unconventional manner. It was never serious, and at the end of the summer, each of our internships ended and we went back to school. Fast forward to this summer, when I run into her in Los Angeles. At the time I was living in town with my brother, but ended up moving in with an actor near downtown. Turns out that she is directing the play that my roommate is in. Small world... A month later, I move out a few hours away for work, and though we never did anything when I was in LA, I now wish we had. Every time I go to LA (usually once a month), we go on a date somewhere. I could never commit to it full time as the distance would be killer, but I also don't want to lose the option. I call it 'putting it on the back burner' It seems our modus operandi is to just run in to eachother quite a bit, so I do anticipate that in the future, it will work out. So I guess my over arching advice is to just not be in a hurry. If you really like her, tell her you are willing to wait for an opportunity where you arent setting yourselves up for failure. | ||
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ezk
Canada239 Posts
Distance will be a bitch because girls always crave for attention which you cant really fulfill completely when far away. Good luck. | ||
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jeeeeohn
United States1343 Posts
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FlaShFTW
United States10262 Posts
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Hoon
Brazil891 Posts
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
On February 03 2012 08:39 Hoon wrote: Expect to spend a lot of money on phone calls and text messages. 2hours isn't much unless they're living in the stone age and using a LAN line to call. | ||
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Hoon
Brazil891 Posts
On February 03 2012 09:24 tonight wrote: 2hours isn't much unless they're living in the stone age and using a LAN line to call. The distance between them shouldn't change the price of a text message during her college class imo. | ||
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BruteOLeary
United States29 Posts
2 hour drive is nothing, especially if you can spend the weekend there or she comes to your place so you actually get to spend time together. Just load some music onto an ipod and rock out until you get there. | ||
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TechSc2
Netherlands554 Posts
My girlfriend was 3 hour drive away from me for 2 yers, then we moved in with eachother and half a year later she was 3000 miles away from me for half a year  It's also better to spend quality time with eachother instead of quantity time with eachother in the early stages off an relationship | ||
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TechnoZerg
Australia75 Posts
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
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skatbone
United States1005 Posts
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Gann1
United States1575 Posts
I need sleep | ||
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DyEnasTy
United States3714 Posts
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Kamikiri
United States1319 Posts
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husniack
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
I know people have been telling you to go for it, but have you seriously considered the implications of a relationship with enough distance that you can't see each other at your leisure? I did it. It was awesome at first. Why? Because of me; distance had nothing to do with it. Why'd it end? Many reasons; distance had a lot to do with it. Distance puts an excuse not to see each other between you two. It causes strife that other relationships simply would not have because there is this barrier preventing you from seeing each other at your convenience. It makes spending time with one another for a weekend a chore of accommodation instead of just hanging out. Distance, any distance, is not something you want in a relationship. It's manageable it it's short, but if it's a "trip" to see someone, you're asking for trouble down the road. | ||
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