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So I'm not sure what to do right now:
there's this girl I like. She likes me too.
The problem? She's in the capital (two hours drive away, she's on Romance studies in a university) on weekdays and we can probably only spend quality time together on the weekends (as I work on weekdays obviously). This whole distance thing can change though if things get serious.
Maybe I'm just being a coward which is weird as usually I don't have problems with making up my mind...maybe that means something? Anyway, I need a last push from TL to do the right thing.
So...
Poll: Should I ask her out?Yes. (107) 72% Shut up, go back to Fish and practice. (34) 23% No. (7) 5% 148 total votes Your vote: Should I ask her out? (Vote): Yes.
(Vote): No.
(Vote): Shut up, go back to Fish and practice.
+ Show Spoiler +bad blog, but ppl have made worse ones in the past...that sounds like a good excuse, I'll go with that
UPDATE:
+ Show Spoiler +She said "yes!", this is how I feel right now: ![[image loading]](http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lv324wkgoN1qj6qk9o1_500.jpg) Again, thanks everyone 
  
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two hour drive isnt that far
man up
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i was hoping for a very short girl.
those are hot
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Yes, 2 hours isn't bad at all. Speaking from experience, only getting to see each other on the weekends is not too insurmountable. Just make sure you can two can talk to eachother in someway basically every day even if you can't see each other in person.
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Short blog, short answer.
Yes.
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On February 03 2012 04:21 Gescom wrote:
Romance studies...?
Yeah, I was wondering the same. xD
I suppose that can only be a good thing for the relationship though.
Edit: ninjad ;o
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long distance relationships don't work.
don't try
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On February 03 2012 04:27 Roe wrote:
i was hoping for a very short girl.
those are hot
lolololol this made me die ha
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United States5245 Posts
My significant other lives 8 hours away. We see each other only ~2 times a semster, and on breaks. If we lived 2 hours I would be ECSTATIC. If she is great for you, then you should be glad with what you have and go for it.
That being said, since you aren't yet going out, make sure it's worth it before you do. Long distance SUCKS BALLS, but it is fully doable, if both people are committed.
Also, when I read title I thoguht it was going to be about a very SHORT girl haha.
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On February 03 2012 04:31 BoxedLunch wrote:
long distance relationships don't work.
don't try
speak for yourself
On February 03 2012 04:38 EchelonTee wrote:
My significant other lives 8 hours away. We see each other only ~2 times a semster, and on breaks. If we lived 2 hours I would be ECSTATIC. If she is great for you, then you should be glad with what you have and go for it.
That being said, since you aren't yet going out, make sure it's worth it before you do. Long distance SUCKS BALLS, but it is fully doable, if both people are committed.
Also, when I read title I thoguht it was going to be about a very SHORT girl haha.
agreed.
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United States22154 Posts
Life is about risks and reward.
Take the risk, worst case, it doesn't work out, and at the very least you will have grown from the experience.
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Calgary25981 Posts
Here's a tip: Next time instead of opening a thread to motivate you, imagine what advice you would give to someone in your situation. Then act on it.
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I see you didn't name any other female that you like.
This whole distance thing can change though if things get serious.
Only girl you like + possibility of convenience in the relationship.
This is a tough one.
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lolol fish is awesome. fish man fish.
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Here is one thing u need to think about.. are you a jealous kind of guy because 2 hours away is not to bad but its still far if your a jealous dude then your gonna drive yourself crazy. If not then just go for it.
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On February 03 2012 04:50 SeizeTheDay wrote:
Here is one thing u need to think about.. are you a jealous kind of guy because 2 hours away is not to bad but its still far if your a jealous dude then your gonna drive yourself crazy. If not then just go for it.
agree with this guy. best thing you can do is just act on your instinct and go for it. once you overcome the fear of doing it and get over all the circumstances in your head that you think matter (the truth is, it's about who you are not what you own or what you do) you will feel much better and understand that it's not as hard as you thought it was, and even if this doesnt work out you now have the added confidence of being able to ask any girl out.. just be yourself
edit: i also have friends who have been in long distance relationships -- seing each other on the weekends (even farther drives than what you are talking about).. two hours isnt terrible if you really like someone and arent hurt on money..
it can work out, just don't get jealous and have trust. that's one of the biggest things my friends have told me you need to have
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Imagine a fortuneteller told you that a year from now the girl is going out with a guy from her school and your circumstances are also different. The fortuneteller tells you that a year from now you will be wondering what could have happened but never will because change is constant... Your job now is to prove the fortuneteller wrong.
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