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Kakera
United States419 Posts
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LazyMacro
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Anytime things didn't go as I wanted them to, I would get anxious and worrisome about it. I would try to look for hidden meanings in what she said, and I would generally behave in a way that was detrimental to my ultimate goal. In the end, I was honest with myself, and I was honest with her. Instead of getting angry or sad, just take a deep breath, relax, and stop worrying. Maybe it'll work out with her, and maybe it won't. There's no reason to consider any woman (or man) to be special and significant in your life until long past the first date. She should be trying just as hard to win you over as you are to win her over. If it doesn't work out, fuck it. If you get rejected, fuck it. Humans are complex creatures with their own thoughts, experiences, and desires, and there aren't any rules, exactly. Furthermore, people aren't always logical, so a person's behavior may have very complicated reasoning behind it you can't yet understand. Just go with it. Don't be a doormat, but give the girl some space, too. | ||
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Hidden_MotiveS
Canada2562 Posts
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zak
Korea (South)1009 Posts
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Moonling
United States987 Posts
On November 16 2010 07:09 paper wrote: It's over. DELETE FROM FACEBOOK, HIT THE GYM LOL! ha come on man be optimistic  | ||
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Rev0lution
United States1805 Posts
On November 16 2010 08:30 Kennigit wrote: I've had this happen to me before, its a product of acting too needy and letting it move too fast without being really involved with her. Theres a couple things you can do to save/fix this. - Don't talk to her that much. Shes not your fucking wife - give her the pleasure or thinking and missing you and wondering why you aren't on msn. - Be the one the cut off convo cause you are busy doing stuff. - It's really important that you don't make a deal of this, but let her know that her behavior is unacceptable. Dont chase after her. You actually have a much better chance of success if you tell her that you have other things you can do in your time and her cancelling that late is unacceptable - if she wants to go out, she can call you. - Girls subconsciously do this stuff to test how much bullshit you will put up with and if you are really a man. In my online dating escapades, i had a girl cancel on me 5 hours before we were supposed to meet - i told her that was a her problem, not a me problem and that 5 hours cancel wasn't acceptable. I dropped her and then she chased me about a week after. - Wait 4-5 days, test the water if she hasn't contacted you already. Then pick it back up, cooly. The funniest part, people actually think you wrote that. The better you become at dating the more ridiculous this PUA shit becomes. Whoever said you should talk to a girl for 20 minutes.. please stfu and stop regurgitating off the PUA manual, you talk to a girl until you A) run out of conversation B) she gets bored that's when you hang up. | ||
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ZERG_RUSSIAN
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