EPTOr put a 10$ bill on her table after sex (and obviously say something along the lines of "that's for the service").
Bitch deserves it.
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ZBiR
Poland1092 Posts
Or put a 10$ bill on her table after sex (and obviously say something along the lines of "that's for the service"). Bitch deserves it. | ||
flamewheel
FREEAGLELAND26781 Posts
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Hidden_MotiveS
Canada2562 Posts
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iNcontroL
USA29055 Posts
How you don't kick a door down and trash a room with a ski mask on is beside me. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
if opportunity arises, break french fags leg | ||
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MaReK
Australia446 Posts
Anyway your not alone man and I'm sure many of us have gone through what you are feeling now. From my experiences don't contact her at all and you'll get over it all faster. I haven't contacted my latest ex for like 8 months now and shoved her 'can we be friends request' up her ass. I have no intention of ever being friends with her, and I know she hates that but frankly I don't give a flying fuck about her. Make sure you remove her as a friend off facebook so no more of those updates will make your heart sink again. Go have fun, sleep with as many girls as possible (her close friends if possible) and do things that make YOU feel better. Young girls are fucking hopeless with serious relationships. Trust me they're all the same, which is why I'm not seriously dating anyone under ~24 ever again. Fuck that. On November 02 2010 17:56 Rekrul wrote: that sucks, nothing u can do but let time heal. if opportunity arises, break french fags leg +1 | ||
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Happy.fairytail
United States327 Posts
Dude, you deserve better than that. Screw her. You're too good for her. On November 02 2010 17:56 Rekrul wrote: that sucks, nothing u can do but let time heal. if opportunity arises, break french fags leg Agreed. | ||
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NIIINO
Slovakia1320 Posts
dont be heartbroken go shopping and spend money on things you ever wanted or buy something to your close friends that always worked for me. And if she just text you its wierd i hate this type of saying goodbye. | ||
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QuanticHawk
United States32049 Posts
and just leave it at that goddamn thats shitty | ||
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Subversive
Australia2229 Posts
After reading all the replies, so many, if not all of which had such good advice and kind compassion, I think I agree most with Chairman Ray. He's less condemning than the others but I think he's closer to the truth than any of the rest of us. I was ready to tell you that you shouldn't have anything to do with her myself, my own indignation at your treatment bubbling to the surface. But after rereading your original post, and reflecting on what he said, I think he's right. She is young and immature. Her behaviour is reprehensible, but human. She didn't set out to hurt you, she just doesn't understand what she's doing. If you can find it in your heart to forgive, that's always a healthy option. Marradron's advice to let her know how she made you feel is useful too. It's always so helpful to have someone understand you, and would probably help her gain some insight into her behaviour as well. Having said all that, I think time apart is best for you right now. You need to heal and grieve. Time won't heal your pain, but at some stage new love will. In the mean-time spending time with friends and doing things to take your mind off it is good. I know you're aiming to become a pro in sc2, so I hope this doesn't derail it. All of this assumes she's not trying to make a play back for you because her new romance with the french guy isn't working out, as insanet suggests. If that's the case - run for the hills! But I don't think it is. I think what Chairman Ray wrote adds up better. And makes more sense. | ||
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MaReK
Australia446 Posts
On November 02 2010 23:40 Subversive wrote: Having said all that, I think time apart is best for you right now. You need to heal and grieve. Time won't heal your pain, but at some stage new love will. In the mean-time spending time with friends and doing things to take your mind off it is good. I know you're aiming to become a pro in sc2, so I hope this doesn't derail it. I'm sorry, but from my experiences and from other friends who have dealt with hard breakups, this couldn't be further from the truth. I believe time is the MAJOR healer with breakups. Sure he could get a rebound but that will only mask his feelings deep down. I'm sure he needs plenty of time to really start feeling better, like most of us. | ||
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BottleAbuser
Korea (South)1888 Posts
Consider that she lied to you. Probably not to fuck with you, but because she was scared of being honest with you, and how you might react. This would make her less of a bitch, but the important bit is still there: she doesn't trust you, and now you can't trust her. It wouldn't work well, if at all. Do what she did; remember the good parts, learn from the bad, and move on. | ||
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Subversive
Australia2229 Posts
On November 02 2010 23:41 MaReK wrote: I know this is a lame phrase but god dammit, it works. The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else! I'm sorry, but from my experiences and from other friends who have dealt with hard breakups, this couldn't be further from the truth. I believe time is the MAJOR healer with breakups. Sure he could get a rebound but that will only mask his feelings deep down. I'm sure he needs plenty of time to really start feeling better, like most of us. I totally agree. I originally had a line in my reply saying something along the lines of 'it's only been a week, you must be feeling like utter crap '. I just wanted to avoid the cliche of 'time heals all wounds'. I've found it's true of course, but that it's usually when you find someone new and amazing that you really get over someone. Time eases the pain but doesn't erase it. I wasn't suggesting a rebound or a one-night stand though. I should have perhaps said "Time won't heal your pain by itself". | ||
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lixlix
United States482 Posts
Also her message about how she misses your friendship is just a way to test whether you still have feelings for her. If you reply, you'll just stroke her ego. Get on with your life. Find a hotter, nicer girl, and soon you'll laugh at how you could have felt so sad over somebody so worthless. | ||
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forgotten0ne
United States951 Posts
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Slaytesics
United States123 Posts
I lost 2 girlfriends People have been trying to get me classified as clinically insane (don't wanna talk to much about that though) I have moved across the nation (west coast, which is actually quite nice) Btw, advice on your ex Just try to be friends, I can understand that you are very dissapointed. Try to put a ton of effort into something you have always wanted to do. I am doing NaNoWrimo this month because of not having a girlfriend. GL dude, and if you really want to know about the insane thing I would be more then happy to give you some details | ||
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Mobius
Canada1268 Posts
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ignored0ne
United States1 Post
I want you to heal, but I also want to you learn from your mistakes, A. I'm not a monster, and if you refuse to listen to anything I have to say, so be it. I just have to stick up for myself. You say we took a small break before the anniversary. Failed to mention that I had tried to end things with you (then, and multiple other occasions) because I was incredibly unhappy with our relationship and had been so for 3 months. I'm sorry blizzcon was the chance I had where you wouldn't refute me and make me feel guilty for wanting out, I really am. But when trying in person (more than once) didn't work, when over the phone didn't work, I didn't really see what else I could do. It wasn't that I was trying to be as insensitive as possible, but what other choice did I have? You say you took me to the beach, reserved a room in my favorite spot in the world. Ah yes. The room I found, reserved, and paid for? That room? The same anniversary trip where you said your camera made me look fat, refused to stop at the antique store I wanted to go to, left me to walk alone on the beach and cried over how alone i felt in the relationship despite my desperate want for closeness? As for the french boy... I truly apologize for jumping into a relationship. I guess having 3+ months of slowly feeling uncared for just helped me get over you while we were still together. But you can't say I didn't try. Like driving the 30 minutes it takes to get to your house after school at 9:30 at night, sneaking up to your room in nothing but panties to surprise you, and getting nothing but a "hey sweetie, hold on while I finish this game". I don't know if there are any other ladies on the internets, but really? I sat there for 8 minutes (yes i counted), naked (and i've got a cute body, too, so there's no excuse) while you finished a game. Growing increasingly frustrated and realizing that feeling at that moment summed up how I had felt with you for a while. Second place, unimportant, disposable. You couldn't figure out why I was upset? I was so tired of feeling subhuman, of you blaming your "high intelligence" for being unable to be considerate of my feelings. I hope the 40 points you won that game were worth it, because on top of everything else, that was my breaking point. Consider the goodmorning-unreciprocated-blowjob a parting gift to you. And despite all of the nasty things you will say about me, I can ignore them, because I know you're not a bad person and I know that your intentions are never hurtful. For now, paint me like a monster if that's what you need to do to feel better. But the last thing I really have to address is your attacking my family. It's uncalled for and untrue. I'm not depressed, my mom is a functioning human and has been healing herself after an abusive relationship, and my grandma is just an old lady who loves being outside. You make it seem like a horror story, but things have been going really well here, thank you. The one thing I hope you learn here, is not that I'm some immature selfish child that wants attention. It's that I (and most females) are living, breathing, emotional creatures and we need to feel connected with. No one wants to feel used, feeling like a tool for masturbation while having sex, or otherwise. For your next relationship, take time to listen to the female you're with and actually HEAR her. Make her feel important, learn from the mistakes you've made and be a big enough person to realize that you are not perfect, no one is. I wish you the best, and I always will. xo, g | ||
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Raeleigh
Canada902 Posts
Although I know there are 2 sides to every story, and it's nice to read the other, it's a bit weird to find the post, and post your reply. It's causing more trouble and looks a bit creepy.. If I had broken up with my boyfriend, and he had posted somewhere(like TeamLiquid, for example), and I found the post, I'd let it go. I wouldn't bother posting. Honestly, I wouldn't even bother looking for anything. Something that's done is done. You shouldn't be following it more. If you really had a problem, you would have sent him an email, or a message instead. In any case, I feel bad for what happened to you, forgotten0ne. But you just have to move on and realize there are more important people around who you'll be willing to work to keep, which if what your ex posted is true, you'll need to do. And although what ignored0ne said is true about girls, it was a bit immature and weird to post on TL. If you know this is somewhere your guy goes, let him have it. I had an ex who made an account on EVERY SINGLE forum and website I was active on, because he watched everything I did. If he actually posted and participated it would have been different, but it was just to see what I was doing and if I was talking to other guys. It's a bit weird, and possessive. He still was checking up after we broke up. Anyway, hope things work out. Just remember, if you have someone and you love them, do everything you can to keep them. And even when it's over, don't bad mouth them. It makes you look worse in the end. :3 | ||
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Skygrinder
Greece241 Posts
Also her last message was pretty mean imo.... | ||
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