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genryou
Malaysia390 Posts
Reason? 1) If she is late, you don't have to be a dumb ass and wait for her for an hour. you are not even interested in her that much right? 2) If you still feel uncomfortable around her when you get together, you just can leave after you finish your coffee. Its not a date and you just go there for a drink. So yeah. | ||
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ketomai
United States2789 Posts
It seems like you are troubled because she doesn't know everything about you , yet she's trying to show interest. If you want to not meet her because you prioritize your break time over meeting her then fine. However, DON'T refuse to see her just because she's interested in you so quickly; that's normal. | ||
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prOxi.swAMi
Australia3091 Posts
Do it. | ||
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keepITup
251 Posts
On December 07 2009 19:36 genryou wrote: Instead of going on a date, ask her to come to your house and get a coffee at nearby cafe. Reason? 1) If she is late, you don't have to be a dumb ass and wait for her for an hour. you are not even interested in her that much right? 2) If you still feel uncomfortable around her when you get together, you just can leave after you finish your coffee. Its not a date and you just go there for a drink. So yeah. . | ||
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
On December 07 2009 19:35 keepITup wrote: yeah which is why alcohol didnt really help me here because i wouldnt have wanted to talk to her that much if i was sober that night -_- iono dude, i know your probably speaking the truth but i just have a bad feeling, like i know what kind of girl this is already. i mean for example, i woke up today to find her comments all over my facebook. One of the things on my page recently was another girl posting a little quiz app on my page asking the question, "What does keepITup think about you?" and she answered, "hmm i dunno..but i'd sure like to know =) " so we teased eachother a bit with comments and that was that -- it was like 3 weeks ago.. but now this girl that im talking to commented on that conversation i had, saying "hmmmmmm." wtf is that? she's already concerned about what I say to other girls? conversations that i've had weeks ago? 0_o yeah man she totally sounds super clingy. Seems like the type that hasnt had much relationship experience either. I wouldnt get involved with someone like that, especially if she is jealous of things that she shouldnt be. If all she wanted was a one night stand, then yeah maybe....but it seems more like she wants marriage haha. I'd friend zone her asap. | ||
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
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Etherone
United States1898 Posts
you had fun talking to her, and being with her drunk right? well there you go problem solved. on a more serious note, how old are you so we can actually give you advice, if thats what you came here for. also dont feel guilty for "leading her on" you are just awesome, and she was attracted, not your fault imo | ||
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keepITup
251 Posts
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motbob
United States12546 Posts
On December 07 2009 19:56 keepITup wrote: im nearly 20 (pathetic I know) but she's 20 as well, and just seems way too childish to me (not that me asking for advice on TL makes me manly or mature or anything). i am already 100% sure i wouldn't want to be in a long term relationship with her. like yeah i'd love to get laid but i'm not desperate enough to build a whole relationship around that goal. i'm a pretty happy guy -- i'd really like a girl in my life, but im not crying about it. oh in that case n/m. It's good advice never to date a girl you wouldn't marry. | ||
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ProbeSaturation
Canada292 Posts
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keepITup
251 Posts
On December 07 2009 20:18 ProbeSaturation wrote: are you cool? or are you sorta a loser? lol what kind of question is that? | ||
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chongu
Malaysia2594 Posts
TL is ur BFF | ||
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meeple
Canada10211 Posts
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ProbeSaturation
Canada292 Posts
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deth
Australia1757 Posts
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Xxio
Canada5565 Posts
On December 07 2009 21:08 dethrawr wrote: Hit it, scribble "TEAMLIQUID FIGHTING" on her back, take pix, post, become a god. ahahahahaah YES | ||
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
I tend to lose interest in girls who are just a bit too interested in me before I am that interested in them. As much as making the moves can be a pain in the ass, I really prefer it. I've tried to analyze it psychologically and I've come to the conclusion that I either have some type of closeness issue, or I am just attracted to girls who are hard to get. Obviously I'd like to believe it's more of the latter, but it's probably more likely a combination of both with a bunch of other things. | ||
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Cloud
Sexico5880 Posts
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starfries
Canada3508 Posts
On December 07 2009 18:51 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: You need therapy... and no youre not good at talking to girls. Even when you're drunk. Seriously what is wrong with you? If she really is cute, you should be HAPPY she's interested in you. Therapy? wtf.. all he said is that he's a little turned off by how clingy she is and suddenly he has psychological problems? Anyways, go for it, unless you have a good reason not to (better girl in mind, too far away, you really aren't attracted, etc.) It's your first time and its worth the experience, even if you know it probably won't end well.. and the first one isn't gonna be perfect, unless it's also the last. | ||
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blue_arrow
1971 Posts
if she rejects you, remember to show that you're very hurt and do so in a way that the girl should feel extremely sorry/guilty (look very sad, stop talking as much etc). if she doesn't display guilt/sorrow then there is something very wrong with the girl/her clinginess/interest and it is a good chance to break off all contact right here. never keep out the possibility that it is her who is leading you on | ||
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