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keepITup
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paper
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TheFoReveRwaR
United States10657 Posts
Seriously what is wrong with you? If she really is cute, you should be HAPPY she's interested in you. | ||
motbob
United States12546 Posts
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keepITup
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On December 07 2009 18:51 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: You need therapy... and no youre not good at talking to girls. Even when you're drunk. no im pretty great | ||
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zyxjk
United States75 Posts
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keepITup
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On December 07 2009 18:54 zyxjk wrote: was the girl drunk too, that is the question. Everyone's a hero when they're drunk. unless they're driving. no, she's never had alcohol actually 0_o | ||
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PH
United States6173 Posts
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Chef
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On December 07 2009 18:51 motbob wrote: WTF, a girl is interested in you, get to know her ffs Nah, girls who come on strong to start (to the point it just feels uncomfortable) aren't really worth dealing with. They seem to want to be around you for the wrong reasons. Although, man, don't brag about your 8 hour IM conversations on the internet. Maybe you two will be a good lesson for each other, tbh. | ||
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keepITup
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On December 07 2009 18:51 TheFoReveRwaR wrote: You need therapy... and no youre not good at talking to girls. Even when you're drunk. Seriously what is wrong with you? If she really is cute, you should be HAPPY she's interested in you. eh | ||
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keepITup
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On December 07 2009 19:17 Chef wrote: Nah, girls who come on strong to start (to the point it just feels uncomfortable) aren't really worth dealing with. They seem to want to be around you for the wrong reasons. Although, man, don't brag about your 8 hour IM conversations on the internet. Maybe you two will be a good lesson for each other, tbh. eh | ||
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JohnColtrane
Australia4813 Posts
On December 07 2009 18:46 paper wrote: HIT AND RUN lol | ||
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vx70GTOJudgexv
United States3161 Posts
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BloodDrunK
Bangladesh2767 Posts
also- HIT AND RUN pure genius. | ||
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eXigent.
Canada2419 Posts
On December 07 2009 19:17 keepITup wrote: trust me i was pretty excited about the potential here, but i just dont feel that it's worth it. i've been in a similar situation where this girl on my floor became infatuated with me for no reason and she didn't look half-bad either. she was extremely clingy and pretty retarded, and i hated myself for everything i did with her. im not desperate here and i dont want to be. this girl has done nothing with her weekend but txt me and pull me into conversations everytime she sees me pop up online. i cant deal with this shit. maybe i sound crazy, i dont know. i just dont want to blow my whole winter break getting to know this girl. most women are this way. She is interested in you, and obviously thinks you are interested in her. Maybe having a 7hr conversation with her has made her believe you really wanna hang out. You're kinda being a douche for leading her on like that, and then complaining when she shows signs of lust. What did you expect to happen after talking for that long? A 7 hour convo is basically telling her you are super interested, and wanna get to know her "better". Your inexperience shows young one  | ||
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LaughingTulkas
United States1107 Posts
Key to note here is there are 2 ways of being a jerk here: 1. just not talking to her anymore without any communication as to why, and 2. getting with her and then dumping later for being annoying. Note in both of them she is the real loser (tbh, she kinda sounds like a loser anyway) while you just might have some annoying guilt, or you might not, depending on what type of person you are. One thing though, if your feelings are like they sound, getting involved any further is a BAD idea for both of you, and I don't recommend it. Just gonna get messy and you're going to be annoyed and she's going to be devastated because she sounds like she takes too much of her self-esteem from male attention. | ||
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Etherone
United States1898 Posts
well if you haven't had sex, then it's worth it. unless you're 14 then you can relax and keep looking. edit: also the guy above me has never" been straight up" and told some girl who likes him the way he felt ( in the case that he was not interested at all) unless of course she was ugly. it is the second worst thing you can do, the first being talking to her mother ( i've seen it happen) be smart make up some bullshit excuse, any excuse is a good excuse. time conflicts, being gay, or say you're into sdm. | ||
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Chef
10810 Posts
On December 07 2009 19:17 keepITup wrote: trust me i was pretty excited about the potential here, but i just dont feel that it's worth it. i've been in a similar situation where this girl on my floor became infatuated with me for no reason and she didn't look half-bad either. she was extremely clingy and pretty retarded, and i hated myself for everything i did with her. im not desperate here and i dont want to be. this girl has done nothing with her weekend but txt me and pull me into conversations everytime she sees me pop up online. i cant deal with this shit. maybe i sound crazy, i dont know. i just dont want to blow my whole winter break getting to know this girl. That probably means she's really bored and stays at home all day. If you're doing the same, you honestly might as well play mario bros with her or something. You can friend zone her pretty easily if it's too much. Don't worry about it so much. On December 07 2009 19:27 LaughingTulkas wrote: The best thing to do, if you are truly not interested, is to be straight up. Just tell her how you feel. Tell her you don't want to hurt her feelings by getting involved when you don't think you really have the same feelings for her. Hopefully this is true, and you can say it sincerely. Most girls will actually appreciate you being honest and open about your feelings even if they aren't what they want. No way. When a girls got to much time on her hands, the worst thing you can do is get all dramatic and break it down for her. | ||
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Kim_Hyun_Han
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keepITup
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On December 07 2009 19:26 eXigent. wrote: most women are this way. She is interested in you, and obviously thinks you are interested in her. Maybe having a 7hr conversation with her has made her believe you really wanna hang out. You're kinda being a douche for leading her on like that, and then complaining when she shows signs of lust. What did you expect to happen after talking for that long? A 7 hour convo is basically telling her you are super interested, and wanna get to know her "better". Your inexperience shows young one . | ||
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