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lilsusie
Profile Blog Joined August 2007
3861 Posts
November 23 2009 03:26 GMT
#41
What every one is saying is true. Time is the only thing that's gonna help you out, but don't wallow in your pain, go out and be with other people who care about you. It's at night that hurts the most, but try your best to continue being active in your life without her.

You're allowed to think about her, and in fact, your friends might get sick of you talking about her all the time. But it's all a part of the healing process... you'll be fine. Good luck~
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Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6772 Posts
November 23 2009 03:51 GMT
#42
My girlfriend and I broke up about 10 months ago after a relationship of 2 years. I can pretty certainly tell that she wasn't (and hasn't been) with another guy though, so I can't comment on that pain

but losing something like that is indeed quite painful. The things you have to realize are that
-You = you. Someone else won't make you 'whole', be strong for your own sake.
-It's probably her loss.
-Right now she's probably the only girl on your mind but soon enough you'll start awakening from a slumber. And if you think that 'there's no one else like her', I'll ask you the following question: do you think there's no other lifeform in the vastness of our universe? 3billion+ is a biiig number
-Ratio over emotions, at least thats my prescription for you right now

good luck bro
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StromThurmann
Profile Joined November 2009
United States4 Posts
November 23 2009 04:10 GMT
#43
I just read the op and it's terrible, I was in a similar situation last year with my ex girlfriend .

So I've got my own sort of problem and I guess this blog presented an opportunity and stops the spam of multiple girl blogs, I figured I would just post it in an already-existing girl blog.

I've been doing a study abroad since the summer and so I was trying online dating, and I have been talking to this girl for about two months now - everything has sort of escalated to the point I'm pretty sure she "likes" me and I was thinking I really liked her too. I've seen some pictures of her and stuff and I thought she was pretty cute, so I was super pumped. Problem is this, I've finally met her now that I'm back home and it turns out I'm not as attracted to her as I thought I was, although I had seen at least 20 pictures of her in the two months we've been talking, somehow I was kinda bummed when I actually got to meet her.

For me, looks are probably 50% of the equation in any type of relationship, I believe that you need to be attracted to a person physically in addition to having an emotional attraction. So my problem is that it has turned out that I'm not as attracted to her as I thought - the problem being that we've already progressed a certain degree in the two months that we had been talking, and we get along nicely and everything but I'm sort of "meh" on her appearance. It hasn't gotten to the point where I have asked her out yet, but I'm not sure what to do. I know I like her quite a bit, but I'm sort of scared to committ myself to something that I'm not positive I will be 100% with, especially how my last relationship ended.

So what can I do? Especially if I think she's way more into me than I am into her, I really don't want to break her heart or ruin her hopes and stuff like that because that would be really messed up of me, but at the same time I feel like I was part of this buildup that didn't pan out when we actually met and I feel a bit stuck.

Reading phone book ftw
OpticalShot
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada6330 Posts
November 23 2009 04:27 GMT
#44
It took me about 1 year to "forget" my ex-gf but yeah just take your time. I never thought time will heal but in fact it does... what you can do in the meantime, is NOT destroy memorable items or symbolic things. After some time you will be able to look back and smile...
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evanthebouncy!
Profile Blog Joined June 2006
United States12796 Posts
November 23 2009 07:30 GMT
#45
oooh man
Life is run, it is dance, it is fast, passionate and BAM!, you dance and sing and booze while you can for now is the time and time is mine. Smile and laugh when still can for now is the time and soon you die!
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