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On March 11 2011 21:04 Br3ezy wrote: All in all they are my parents and its going to be sad when I break their hearts for drinking or sex when they find out
Damn, you really don't care about their feelings at all, do you? -_-
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On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway. Because nobody drinks under the age limit, am I right?
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On March 11 2011 22:23 awu25 wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway. Because nobody drinks under the age limit, am I right?
That doesn't make it right, or an excuse to give to the cops.
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On March 11 2011 22:24 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 22:23 awu25 wrote:On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway. Because nobody drinks under the age limit, am I right? That doesn't make it right, or an excuse to give to the cops.
Its only illegal if you get caught!
but seriously, i dont know many parents who gives a shit if their 16-17 year old smokes cigarettes. Most of them is against underage drinking though and not to mention cannabis
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On March 11 2011 22:27 Pulimuli wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 22:24 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On March 11 2011 22:23 awu25 wrote:On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway. Because nobody drinks under the age limit, am I right? That doesn't make it right, or an excuse to give to the cops. Its only illegal if you get caught! but seriously, i dont know many parents who gives a shit if their 16-17 year old smokes cigarettes. Most of them is against underage drinking though and not to mention cannabis
That's pretty bad parenting. Cigarettes are evil.
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if you fuck up in health. You fuck up in life. That's fucked
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On March 11 2011 22:27 Pulimuli wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 22:24 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:On March 11 2011 22:23 awu25 wrote:On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway. Because nobody drinks under the age limit, am I right? That doesn't make it right, or an excuse to give to the cops. Its only illegal if you get caught! but seriously, i dont know many parents who gives a shit if their 16-17 year old smokes cigarettes. Most of them is against underage drinking though and not to mention cannabis
Then they are ignorant or neglectful. Cigarettes are extremely toxic. TBH I'm ok with underage drinking if it's done semi-responsibly, but there's no way to responsibly poison yourself with cigarettes.
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@OP i'd learn what drugs do what. Your parents said you smoked one thing when you thought you smoked another. if your parents are right they really need to educate you on drugs, or you can educate yourself. because some drugs are really messed up and you cant moderate them no matter what.
also you dont have to drink beer because beer in US is some weak ass watered down shit.
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I don't care about rebellion or any of that shit, but whatever you do, make your choices responsibly. I'm 18 and I smoke marijuana/drink alcohol, but every time I do it's a conscious choice, with all things considered. Basically, be aware of the consequences (good and bad) of what you're doing, decide if the risk is worth the gain, and have a good time with your life either way. It starts getting really bad when you start doing things habitually. I've been there, and I've since figured things out. My real wake up call is when one of my connects got caught with a DUI of Marijuana and underage possession of alcohol. I've never driven high/drunk, but I certainly never will. This guy's got a hard road ahead, and I don't want that in my life. TL:DR- Be reasonable and responsible for yourself at all times. No exceptions. Congrats on Grammy :D
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You sound like a spoiled brat, OP. You still live in your parent's house. If you want to smoke, drink or do whatever the fuck you want then man up and get a place of your own. Otherwise, just fucking listen to them until you do get a place. That, or learn how to be a smart person and not get caught.
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I smoked cigarettes and marijuana for 8 years ,but now I quit cigarette since the beginning of 2011. Because no matter what people say cigarettes actually bring nothing valuable and are really bad for your health. Sure there are people who got to 70+ years old and have been smoking for 40 years, but just take a look at the numbers; lung cancer, among others, is definitely a serial killer.
As for alcohol, trust me, you don't want to get into alcohol, this is a fucking scourge, seriously it's worse than a ton of illegal drugs. I'll tell you, my dad was an alcoholic, so I saw firsthand what kind of damages alcohol can do not only to yourself but also to your family & friends.
I'm not saying smoking & drinking is 100% bad, I'm just reminding you of the risks.
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On March 11 2011 21:18 HuskyMUDKIPZ wrote: You live in a persons house and you can't follow simple rules that are in place to help you as opposed to hurt you.
Fuck, some people need to learn respect.
I 100% agree with this
IMO just stop smoking... Its good for you anways...
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On March 11 2011 21:15 Sayle wrote: How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway.
Illegal to drink and smoke before you're an adult? It's not the same everywhere and the OP didn't even specify where he was from, only that his parents were asian.
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On March 11 2011 22:19 Itachii wrote:Someday you will grow up, not only physically but also mentally and understand how stupid you were to do these things and not to listen to your parents when they were sharing their wisdom with you. Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 22:18 ZaplinG wrote: i get high and drunk with/around my parents a lot and we have a normal, healthy, and respectful relationship.
Thats not normal at all, sorry. Why not?
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I am not here to throw stones at you just some simple advice...
The devils lettuce (lol) wont ever kill you (or cancer) but you have to remember this is not your house and you don't pay rent. So you need to follow the rules until you are on your own. Don't be a smart-ass with your parents.
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On March 11 2011 21:22 DarkPlasmaBall wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 21:13 Br3ezy wrote:On March 11 2011 21:09 ffswowsucks wrote: Live your life as you want to live it. we only live once afterall. And remember to always nod your head and say yes to whatever they say to you. Was stoned when they were talking to me I deserve an oscar for my performance hehs Is this an advice thread or a brag blog? If you're living under their roof, you should abide by their rules. And from the sound of it, you're not old or mature enough to recognize that the things you're doing are illegal and can actually hurt you, especially if you're not careful.
It's not bad advice, but any and every adolescent (I have no idea how old OP is, I'm assuming mid teens) will ignore it completely. It's all very well to say you should do what your parents say, but teenagers have to live their own lives to a certain extent, it's a time when you find out who you are and if parents are too controlling then growing up won't happen. You have to be free to make some mistakes.
My advice OP is that when they seem most annoying, just remember that your parents want what's best for you even if they don't always know what that is.
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You may not realize it now but your parents are usually always right.
Especially if you live in their house, you kinda gotta live by their rules.
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that's not that bad, my parents used to rage a lot at me for suspecting that i smoke, even though i never did. Now that's something
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Wow, seriously? Might be cultural differences but in sweden it's pretty much standard to get wasted when you're 15. Some people even start drinking when they're 12. In my experience the people who get restricted by their parents are the people who fuck up the worst when they're legally allowed to drink later on in life. If you give your children freedom they will learn to handle it.
I say you should do what makes you happy, but also remember that dissapointing your parents isn't the greatest feeling in the world.
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If consequences dictate your course of action, Doesn't matter whats right, Its only wrong if you get caught. If consequences dictate your course of action, I should play god and just shoot you myself
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