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 my parents confronted me right after I had a bowl of sour diesel and well not mug I can do to hide the smell immediatley or anything but so you know how asian parents are? I can safely say thy are the naiveist people I have ever known. They talked to me about not having premarital sex not to drink and that stuff(better hide the 10 cans of bud light in my room). When I had to tell my dad I suprised the Fuc out of him and his words of wisdom were not to do it because you can get throat cancer and if my coaches found out I would get liked off the team. They believed it was cigs I tried and not weed.
All in all they are my parents and its going to be sad when I break their hearts for drinking or sex when they find out
  
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Live your life as you want to live it. we only live once afterall. And remember to always nod your head and say yes to whatever they say to you.
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On March 11 2011 21:09 ffswowsucks wrote:
Live your life as you want to live it. we only live once afterall. And remember to always nod your head and say yes to whatever they say to you.
Was stoned when they were talking to me I deserve an oscar for my performance hehs
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How old are you?
If you're legally an adult, then you don't need to worry about it (although you should still listen to them). If you're not yet an adult, then drinking and smoking are illegal so you shouldn't be doing them anyway.
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Your parents will be sad but they need to understand that you will live your life the way you want to and make your own decisions... If your an adult that is.
If your living under their roof though, you should follow their rules.
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I also have Asian parents but luckily they don't know anything I've done. Also, talking to parents while high/drunk/etc is such a bad position to be in, hahaha.
I remember I was so wasted a few months ago after drinking and smoking so much in the city, I hadn't slept that night and called my dad to pick me up at like 10 AM, and it was HELL. He kept asking me what I did and all the stupid question Asian parents ask you and here I am sitting cracked out, I never want to experience that again. I've had a few where I've talked to parents baked but that it wasn't as bad as this. :D
I say as long as you get your shit done your parents shouldn't have anything to say for you. It's your life and you live it once!
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You live in a persons house and you can't follow simple rules that are in place to help you as opposed to hurt you.
Fuck, some people need to learn respect.
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why would you wana ruin your life with nicotine?... WHY?
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On March 11 2011 21:13 Br3ezy wrote:Show nested quote +On March 11 2011 21:09 ffswowsucks wrote:
Live your life as you want to live it. we only live once afterall. And remember to always nod your head and say yes to whatever they say to you. Was stoned when they were talking to me I deserve an oscar for my performance hehs
Is this an advice thread or a brag blog?
If you're living under their roof, you should abide by their rules. And from the sound of it, you're not old or mature enough to recognize that the things you're doing are illegal and can actually hurt you, especially if you're not careful.
I wouldn't risk your relationship with your parents on having fun with things that could kill you, if I were you.
But I'm not you, so good luck with whatever choices you make in the future.
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Need to listen to your parents son
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Well I'm guessing you live in the US? Sounds like you are still in high school. If so you are breaking several laws with the underage drinking and smoking (yes, I agree the laws are stupid, but stay with me). Basically you are breaking your parents rules, and making them lawbreakers by having underage drinking and illegal drugs in their house against their will. That's pretty disrespectful to people that are just trying to support you and look out for you.
If you can move out and support yourself, you should do it. I say smoke and drink and fuck all you want, but man up and make it a goal to not do that shit on your parents dime. It's disrespectful to your parents and to yourself.
Besides, it's infinitely easier to get laid when you don't live at your parents.
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You obey your parents do you hear me?
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While it is cool to "rebel" against your parents that is not a tie you want to sever. Chances are if you ever need help with anything your parents will be there for you, and from experience friends just won't. You are staying at their place, be respectful and obey their rules; if you want to smoke do it away from the house or just outside.
If you treat your parents with respect, who knows they may just treat you with respect.
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It is very cool to rebel. Live out the rest of your teenage years disappointing your parents. Then one day, when you do grow up, you'll realize more and more just how right your father was.
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I hope when you grow up you will realize that what you are doing is stupid and your parents just wanted to protect you.
PS.: You can get far-far worse things from smoking than just throat cancer
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Supposedly, alcohol and cannabis can screw around with the brain's development in teenagers.
This blog entry is proof!
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holy crap you guys need to give this dude a break
all he did was smoke a bowl and drink a little, its not like he was stealing money from his parents and shooting meth
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i get high and drunk with/around my parents a lot and we have a normal, healthy, and respectful relationship.
As long as it's not controlling your life I say go for it.
And congrats on your oscar, haha.
btw your parents sound like extremely unreasonable people.
But in all seriousness, smoking tobacco regularly will kill you slowly and painfully. I'd take their advice on that
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Someday you will grow up, not only physically but also mentally and understand how stupid you were to do these things and not to listen to your parents when they were sharing their wisdom with you.
On March 11 2011 22:18 ZaplinG wrote:
i get high and drunk with/around my parents a lot and we have a normal, healthy, and respectful relationship.
Thats not normal at all, sorry.
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