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red4ce
United States7313 Posts
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Enervate
United States1769 Posts
On March 11 2011 23:39 Bergys wrote: Wow, seriously? Might be cultural differences but in sweden it's pretty much standard to get wasted when you're 15. Some people even start drinking when they're 12. In my experience the people who get restricted by their parents are the people who fuck up the worst when they're legally allowed to drink later on in life. If you give your children freedom they will learn to handle it. I say you should do what makes you happy, but also remember that dissapointing your parents isn't the greatest feeling in the world. Lol. Because children have fully developed mental capabilities while people at the age of 20 don't, right? | ||
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BaltA
Norway849 Posts
THEY KILL YOU! and IT SMELLS TERRIBLE!!!!! The drinking part aswell if you are under 18 or what the limit is in you're country... I waited with alcohol until I was 18 years old... Everybody has done some bad shit when they've been drunk ( when they were younger), and I have not done anything since I am clever enough not to drink until I pass out  | ||
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chobopeon
United States7342 Posts
Look, do your best to respect your parents and their wishes. But responsibly experimenting with pot, alcohol and sex is fine. Cigarettes are a bit grimy but that's up to you, too. Don't be an asshole about it, experience it, have your fun and grow up. There's nothing wrong with this. It's called being an American teenager. Just be safe - always be safe. But don't smoke in the house. That's fair. | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
Your biggest problem is the Bud Light, that stuff is seriously bad. Drink something decent yo! | ||
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JackMcCoy
165 Posts
one time me and my friend took my grandmas suv before we had our licenses in middle school but the police caught us ridin dirty and then we crashed and we got in big trouble. (u say well why did u do that.. i wanted to do it because it's fun, fun to do bad things, to drive into a car. i wanted to do hood rat stuff with my friend. why do u care?? who wants to know?" smoking weed is gangster and i think u should do it in ur house no matter wat ur parent says. what can they do, kick u out? they can't do that its against the law. so just chill out= | ||
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Impervious
Canada4216 Posts
On March 12 2011 00:38 emperorchampion wrote: Your biggest problem is the Bud Light, that stuff is seriously bad. Drink something decent yo! If he's in the US, what would you expect? | ||
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Mr. Wiggles
Canada5894 Posts
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iNz
Sweden119 Posts
On March 12 2011 00:05 Enervate wrote: Lol. Because children have fully developed mental capabilities while people at the age of 20 don't, right? Well what I think he is saying that if you start at a younger age its probably better, you learn to handle your drink and know your limits. Some people aren't allowed to touch a drink until they are legal, then when they do they get completely smashed and make a fool of themselves, over and over again... I started at a young age too, around 13 I started drinking, and even at that age I handled it quite well, and even if I did get "wild", I still learnt alot from early drinking, quite good experience... Anyway, I think you should kind of make your own choices, to an extent of course... but you are your own person, you didn't ask to be placed on this planet. Enjoy your youth, don't do too much stupid shit I guess... respect your parents, but enjoy life... personally i don't get this sex after marriage shit, thats experience in itself, just keep protected! Hopefully everything works out for you anyway buddy, peace | ||
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
On March 11 2011 21:23 arb wrote: Need to listen to your parents son This. Those aren't unreasonable demands they are making. | ||
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The KY
United Kingdom6252 Posts
On March 12 2011 00:53 Froadac wrote: This. Those aren't unreasonable demands they are making. I dunno. No sex, smokes or booze full stop sounds pretty restrictive to me. | ||
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emythrel
United Kingdom2599 Posts
I am a parent, probably unlike many here who have commented about "do as you are told" etc, so I actually have a better standing to talk about this stuff. Once you are a teenager there is very little your parents can do to stop you living your life, so long as you aren't out causing trouble or getting into trouble then do as you please. When you are in their house, you shouldn't smoke or drink if they don't like it, simply go out to a friends house where it is allowed or find somewhere out of the way where you and your friends can hang out without bothering people. When I was in my teens me and my friends used to go camping in nearby woods and would smoke/drink and generally have fun without anyone being any the wiser. A Parents job is to keep you as safe as they can, to help you make decisions in an informed way and to give you a good start in life, thats all they are trying to do.... often tho parents forget that being young is about making mistakes, the more freedom you give a chile the more independent they become and if you let them make mistakes then they learn at a young age. Nearly everyone I know who started drinking/smoking young grew out of it by the age of 20, yeah they still go out but they don't go out and get stupid, conversely those who didnt start until they were legally allowed tend to still be going out and getting paraletic and getting in trouble. I got stupidly drunk once at the age of 15, didn't know where i was, where i had been or what time it was, I was so scared that I never got that drunk again, by the age of 21 I gave up drinking all together because i prefer smoking and more over I get stoned with friends in a safe environment where if I can't remember where I am it doesn't matter because I'm already at home! Anywho, don't drink or smoke in your parents house, its simply disrespectful, if they had any sense they would allow you to (because then they know where you are, who you are with etc) but thats besides the point. Its their house, and when inside it you have to play nice even if its just for an easy life. What you do outside the house is your business, what they don't know about won't hurt them, but make sure you find a safe place where you aren't gonna bother anyone (to repeat myself, its an important point) | ||
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Turgid
United States1623 Posts
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Husnan
France298 Posts
My advice to you is : try it. You'll probably enjoy it, then do something really stupid while high/drunk and figure out the amount you shouldn't go above. But. BUT... It all comes down to frequency. Smoking/drinking too often will lead to trouble. There's no way it won't. Brain damage is a very real thing. So experiment. You only live once. Drugs are good. If they weren't, nobody would use them ever. Do it wisely though. In my opinion, getting drunk/high more than once a week is stupid, and dangerous. Edit : Forgot to say : don't smoke cigarettes. Tobacco is a crappy drug. It has no beneficial/pleasurable effect whatsoever. Don't start, it's damn fucking hard to quit. The only thing tobacco does for you is relieve you from a pain it created in the first place. | ||
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King K. Rool
Canada4408 Posts
Then you can do w/e the fuck you want. | ||
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Catch]22
Sweden2683 Posts
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Zealotdriver
United States1557 Posts
However, ditch the alcohol. That stuff is poison. | ||
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Trap
United States395 Posts
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mordek
United States12705 Posts
Do the wise thing and make good choices. Why six pool when you could play the macro game? | ||
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fush
Canada563 Posts
On March 11 2011 21:16 Amnesia wrote: I also have Asian parents but luckily they don't know anything I've done. Also, talking to parents while high/drunk/etc is such a bad position to be in, hahaha. I remember I was so wasted a few months ago after drinking and smoking so much in the city, I hadn't slept that night and called my dad to pick me up at like 10 AM, and it was HELL. He kept asking me what I did and all the stupid question Asian parents ask you and here I am sitting cracked out, I never want to experience that again. I've had a few where I've talked to parents baked but that it wasn't as bad as this. :D I say as long as you get your shit done your parents shouldn't have anything to say for you. It's your life and you live it once! really man? stupid questions asian parents ask? because a good parent would just pick up their kid after they didn't come home one night, and not worry when they end up smelling like alcohol and smoke.. ok. your last piece of advice is terrible, absolutely terrible. it's as if you achieve only because you feel "obligated" to because of your parents. seems to me that's how you raise a slacker, doing only the bare minimum and no more. | ||
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