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On March 08 2008 05:25 Bub wrote: Aw how sweet... go for it but hey! no rush. Oh and BE COOL..
also, how about some pics :D
My friend browses TeamLiquid now and knows my name on here, so I don't want to post a pic this time. I'll keep him guessing at who this "person" is.
I'll post a pick once my friend finds out who it is =P
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Okay, I found out she's in love with me.
=X
Friend of mine who is also friend of hers noticed she would text A LOT now.She found out who she was texting and was surprised to find that it was me.
So, she says she's pretty much obsessed with me.
So...
I'll see what goes on from here. I'm going out of city so I won't be able to post until Sunday methinks. Laterz~
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holy shit did your story bring up bad memories stay the fuck away from underage women
Really think this through. She may be cool, but you're going to be 18 in a year and she'll be just starting high school. I don't care what your real age difference is, the perception is what matters. Is this relationship going to be ok with her folks? With yours? Are they going to let you spend the time you need to really make it work?
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On March 08 2008 17:02 ahrara_ wrote: holy shit did your story bring up bad memories stay the fuck away from underage women
Really think this through. She may be cool, but you're going to be 18 in a year and she'll be just starting high school. I don't care what your real age difference is, the perception is what matters. Is this relationship going to be ok with her folks? With yours? Are they going to let you spend the time you need to really make it work?
This is why I titled my blog as so.
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Hey I got nothing against underage relationships. If you really like each other, kudos. But there's so many stumbling blocks, and there's bound to be a considerable difference in maturity. I'm just saying, watch yourself.
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That's pretty old for an eighth grader... I was only 12-13 in 8th grade =/. But a five year grade gap won't work out too well... stick with the other chick who was interested in you. Are you going to bring this kid to prom or something? Its pretty obvious that this relationship will go nowhere.
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On March 07 2008 21:17 Scorpion wrote: Ok, she's going to be 15
=DDDDDDD
No shit, rofl.
Bleh, wanted to not make the age difference so big. XD 14 to 17.
Sorry for lying ='[ Dont do it, dont do it, dont do it. Grade 8s don't no what love is, period, no discussion about it, no maybes, no might happens, they don't understand what it is. That being said she has infactuation with you because your older, which means when she talks about you to her friends she tlaks about as "that older guy". By the time that makes it though the grapevine it turns into "that creepy older guy thats trying to fuck a girl in elementary school". Thats not a good look.
If your not gonna take my advice, atleast shout out TLnet when your on Dateline.
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If your not gonna take my advice, atleast shout out TLnet when your on Dateline. HAHA
that had me rolling.
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Well, pretty much everyone is like "omg don't do it wtf she's young, youngins don't know what love is."
I'm not stupid. I've thought about it, read my other posts, that's why I titled my blog as so. I know what I've done, she's really mature and cool(for her age), I've had a considerable influence on her(she realized, after I've told her that at one point, you'll realize you have nothing but transparent friends who don't really care and that nobody cares and etc. She realized that she has only 2 best friends, a girl and a guy, and that guy is me).
I already know who she is, I've had like 5 hour phone talks with her and met her in real life and hung out with her at the view, she wouldn't lie to me, but I just want to know if it's wrong to go along with it. I mean, my mom was 14 when she went out with her first husband(and he was 19) and they ended up being together for like 10 years or so before he died of a brain tumor.
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On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: I already know who she is, I've had like 5 hour phone talks with her and met her in real life and hung out with her at the view, she wouldn't lie to me, but I just want to know if it's wrong to go along with it. I mean, my mom was 14 when she went out with her first husband(and he was 19) and they ended up being together for like 10 years or so before he died of a brain tumor. There is nothing wrong with it, however, unless you are mature enough and have the means, you are basically a bad thing for her overall, no matter how good your intentions.
So it all depends on you I would say.
edit: btw, from your posts, I would so no (unless you change)...
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On March 09 2008 12:53 fight_or_flight wrote:Show nested quote +On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: I already know who she is, I've had like 5 hour phone talks with her and met her in real life and hung out with her at the view, she wouldn't lie to me, but I just want to know if it's wrong to go along with it. I mean, my mom was 14 when she went out with her first husband(and he was 19) and they ended up being together for like 10 years or so before he died of a brain tumor. There is nothing wrong with it, however, unless you are mature enough and have the means, you are basically a bad thing for her overall, no matter how good your intentions. So it all depends on you I would say. edit: btw, from your posts, I would so no (unless you change)...
If this doesn't work out(which I kind of want to work out... ) I still have that other chick to fall back on(that would make me somewhat of an asshole though).
Thing is, I've never really had anyone close to me before, and this is the closest I've ever gotten to someone that isn't my parents, family, or a best friend. I want someone who will care for me caring, in other words. This 8th grader seems to stand out of the crowd.
You might be like "Well, that's what you think, but she's probably [insert pessimistic statement here]" and I am also aware of those possibilities, but the challenge itself of going out with an 8th grader excites me =OO!
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On March 10 2008 11:33 Scorpion wrote: but the challenge itself of going out with an 8th grader excites me =OO! Taken out of context that sounds soooooo wrong. Anyways, in terms of serious advice, go for it. Highschool relationships rarely work out anyways so don't worry if she really is in love or is just infatuated, just have fun with it...just try not to go to jail.
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Korea (South)11568 Posts
On March 10 2008 11:33 Scorpion wrote:Show nested quote +On March 09 2008 12:53 fight_or_flight wrote:On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: I already know who she is, I've had like 5 hour phone talks with her and met her in real life and hung out with her at the view, she wouldn't lie to me, but I just want to know if it's wrong to go along with it. I mean, my mom was 14 when she went out with her first husband(and he was 19) and they ended up being together for like 10 years or so before he died of a brain tumor. There is nothing wrong with it, however, unless you are mature enough and have the means, you are basically a bad thing for her overall, no matter how good your intentions. So it all depends on you I would say. edit: btw, from your posts, I would so no (unless you change)... If this doesn't work out(which I kind of want to work out... ) I still have that other chick to fall back on(that would make me somewhat of an asshole though).
i thought you said you and the older one stopped talking. how can u fall back on her? she prob. moved on and saw u hitting on a girl 4 years younger than her
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On March 10 2008 11:53 CaucasianAsian wrote:Show nested quote +On March 10 2008 11:33 Scorpion wrote:On March 09 2008 12:53 fight_or_flight wrote:On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: I already know who she is, I've had like 5 hour phone talks with her and met her in real life and hung out with her at the view, she wouldn't lie to me, but I just want to know if it's wrong to go along with it. I mean, my mom was 14 when she went out with her first husband(and he was 19) and they ended up being together for like 10 years or so before he died of a brain tumor. There is nothing wrong with it, however, unless you are mature enough and have the means, you are basically a bad thing for her overall, no matter how good your intentions. So it all depends on you I would say. edit: btw, from your posts, I would so no (unless you change)... If this doesn't work out(which I kind of want to work out... ) I still have that other chick to fall back on(that would make me somewhat of an asshole though). i thought you said you and the older one stopped talking. how can u fall back on her? she prob. moved on and saw u hitting on a girl 4 years younger than her
She doesn't know, and the attraction is still there, I just kind of lost interest a bit. In other words, I've got the foundations for a bridge but I've went and constructed me a boat instead, and if the boat sinks, I've still got the bridge foundation.
=3!
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Korea (South)11568 Posts
I say go for the chick whose your age, don't mess around with a 14 yr old, it's only bad news.
Hell, I thought messing with a 16 yr old wasn't for me. But someone whose 14? Jesus at least wait until she grows out her body to get some curves. I'd totally feel like Chibi if I went for someone that young.
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She doesn't love you.
There is a big difference between infatuation and love, and it sounds like the former.
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On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: Well, pretty much everyone is like "omg don't do it wtf she's young, youngins don't know what love is."
I'm not stupid yea right
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On March 09 2008 09:38 bustaBust wrote: Grade 8s don't no what love is, period, no discussion about it, no maybes, no might happens, they don't understand what it is.
And people in high school do? They may think they do, but no, most of them don't.
@ Scorpion:
You want it to happen. She wants it to happen. Go for it.
If it doesn't work out, you gave it a try and you won't be left wondering what might have been. You don't need to be hung up on the age difference just because other people are. And for all those saying it isn't love and that nonsense, I don't think that is something to be concerned about at this point in your lives anyway. Unless you're ready or have some desire to settle down for some reason, just go for a relationship the both of you can enjoy together. Take it in for the experience. If the two of you are as close as you make it out to be then taking it to the next step seems more than fine.
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On March 11 2008 02:18 FieryBalrog wrote:Show nested quote +On March 09 2008 12:25 Scorpion wrote: Well, pretty much everyone is like "omg don't do it wtf she's young, youngins don't know what love is."
I'm not stupid yea right
Get the fuck out of my blog you stupid faggot.
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On March 11 2008 03:30 semioldguy wrote:Show nested quote +On March 09 2008 09:38 bustaBust wrote: Grade 8s don't no what love is, period, no discussion about it, no maybes, no might happens, they don't understand what it is. And people in high school do? They may think they do, but no, most of them don't. @ Scorpion: You want it to happen. She wants it to happen. Go for it. If it doesn't work out, you gave it a try and you won't be left wondering what might have been. You don't need to be hung up on the age difference just because other people are. And for all those saying it isn't love and that nonsense, I don't think that is something to be concerned about at this point in your lives anyway. Unless you're ready or have some desire to settle down for some reason, just go for a relationship the both of you can enjoy together. Take it in for the experience. If the two of you are as close as you make it out to be then taking it to the next step seems more than fine.
Thank you for your advice. I'm already setting up a "time" and "place" (the water tower, XD) so I can ask her, might happen in a few days.
=3!!
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