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Ok im gping to lay out this whole TERRIble situation it might take alot of writing. Its a Tru story about this girl i kno.
It all started in grade 3, i used to be sorta bad with the ladiessss who were also in grade 3 so i didnt get any points for being "cute". This new girl moved to my school, her name is jen and im not sure why but i LOVED her atleast i thought i loved her since i didnt really know wat love was back then. But after a year of being "bad with the ladies" also known as constantly looking at her and looking like a stalker, she finaly moved away  . Never to see her again. Or so i thought. 6 years later in 1st year of highshcool shes in some of my classes, AKWARD????? Yea alot. I befriend a person named tyler who then also befriends her :O. She then started hanging out with me and him after school while we waited for the bus. Just to give everyone an idea of the akwardness, Me and her would get to the bus waiting spot and wait completed seperated from eachother space wise not talk at all, not make any sorta of eye contac, and then as soon as tyler came we would both gravitate towards him and start talking TO HIM not eachother. Slowly the akwardness started to go away. Then in grade 11 were friends, talk on msn and after school at bus stop everyday. Usualy tlyer isnt even there :DDDDD. I start to like her again, and maybe she is liking me too????? I start building up confidence here, i want to be sure before i ask her out because i dont want the AKWARDNESS again. Then one day after school she says, "i always see you and ur friends at lunch playing euchre, maybe u could teach me somtime??" Im like WOW SHE DOES LIKE MEEE!!! :DDDDDD. YAYAYAYAYAYAY. I decide that i am going to ask her out in a few days. Then on msn that night i get an urgent msg on msn from one of my friends Andrew, he's a complete racist bastard but hes cool somtimes, hes like that type of person who's ur friend but everyone hates. To give u an idea of his personality, one time at a LAN party when i was asleep i woke up to find him on me humping me (with clothes on NO KISsiNG OR ANYTHING but still rly gay) and some other friends were Laughing around me . WEll any way he msg's me on msn urgently and say's "OMFG DUDE GUESS WAT U KNO THAT JEN CHICK????? SHE LIKES DREW (hes a good friend of mine) ROFL ISNT THAT SO FUNNY" at this moment it all starts to click for me she onyl wanted me to teach her euchre so she could spend time with my friend..... WOW this blowsssss fuck fuck fuck. I havent told anyone that i like her, i even make fun of her some times for likeing my friend who doesnt like her back, because i guess im pissed off idk why but i make fun of her.
PS i kno my english skills are bad many gramatical errors, plz dont comment on how i dont use paragraphs.
 
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I didnt get the whole picture thing but just move on and go do other stuff, rofl. Teach her w/e game that was she wanted to learn and then you just got another person to play with.
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Yes, very akward. Terrible situation indeed. I give you my sympathy.
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Its not because she likes someone else only because you made fun of her ;p... Honestly i don't think making fun of a girl will make her really think negative of you unless you replace her name with slut or hore~~;;.
Just give it a rest, there are plenty of fish in the sea go find someone else, maybe in a few month or so she'll come back to you.
PS: Never chase a women, when you chase they run when you ignore them they might come to you and then you can take it to another step. Many guys who are constantly trying to find a way to win a girl, their actions are actually working against them. Just find someone else and accept whatever comes  .
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It can be a bummer to find out the girl you are interested in doesn't have the same feelings. Actually happened to me a few weeks back as well. Still, the important thing to keep in mind is that there are plenty of women out there who will like you and be happy with you and make you happy. So just focus on finding those. Anytime something doesn't work out with a particular woman, just tell yourself that the present disappointment/let down is just a stepping stone to future happiness with the right woman.
These things happen all the time... it's good for you to get used to it and get used to rejection, because it really does happen to everyone and it's not a big deal. It's all part of the process.
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Snet
United States3573 Posts
Paragraphs.
But anyway, that succccccccckkkks! My advice, take it or leave it, is to stay friends with her while looking for another girl. Give her time to try it with that other guy, and you'll still be there in friend status when shes done and you can try again. BTW, go ahead and teach her, it will do nothing but help you and her relationship.
But yea, that sucks. lol
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Man...I got 99 problems, but I sure as hell am glad a bitch ain't one of them.
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you type like an Iraqi...
but anyway, if you want advice you probably came to the wrong spot haha I bet most TL.net members are pretty hard up. Nevertheless, I think youre a funny guy, and often all it takes to seduce a girl is sharing a sense of humor. Your friend doesnt like her, and your story together goes back a long way. Though your relationship in the beginning might not have been helpful, Im sure it has helped bringing you two closer together.
Should have gone:
"I dont know about euchre, but Im A+ at starcraft! Ggnore, baby!"
"Oooooo Covyyyyyyyyy~~~! <3"
"Shall we Macro on my place, or yours?"
Seriously, the advice the other guy said is good. "Never chase a women, when you chase(...)"
Cuz you dont wanna look desperate, but dont be too distant neither lol. Ah, and dont put the pussy on the pedestal~! Be David Caruso in "Jade."!!!! :p
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On February 17 2008 11:03 Leath wrote:
you type like an Iraqi...
but anyway, if you want advice you probably came to the wrong spot haha I bet most TL.net members are pretty hard up. Nevertheless, I think youre a funny guy, and often all it takes to seduce a girl is sharing a sense of humor. Your friend doesnt like her, and your story together goes back a long way. Though your relationship in the beginning might not have been helpful, Im sure it has helped bringing you two closer together.
Should have gone:
"I dont know about euchre, but Im A+ at starcraft! Ggnore, baby!"
"Oooooo Covyyyyyyyyy~~~! <3"
"Shall we Macro on my place, or yours?"
Seriously, the advice the other guy said is good. "Never chase a women, when you chase(...)"
Cuz you dont wanna look desperate, but dont be too distant neither lol. Ah, and dont put the pussy on the pedestal~! Be David Caruso in "Jade."!!!! :p
"Shall we macro at my place, or yours?"
Then, late at night.
"Wow, your micro is bad."
OOOOOOoooo......
LOL
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maybe andrew is wrong
or maybe drew isn't interested
or maybe because drew is your friend, he'll be like "that ho is all yours"
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I dunno man, that's not as bad as it could be. At least she isn't breaking up with you to be with your friend!
Also, are you sure she likes Drew? Or is your friend being an ass?
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wow.
im so sorry man
i kinda kno how that feels
i bet u were devastated.
cheer up
i dont know about anyone else, but i would still ask anyways. or maybe wait till shes over with him(??)
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On February 17 2008 11:03 Leath wrote:
you type like an Iraqi...
I'm on the verge of breaking down in laughter.
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Your english is good, but to the topic, that blows. Keep working at it
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if we had cloning technology we could clone one for him and one for you.
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i know what exactly u r talking about. men r usually bad at intepreting girls actions. if they ask u to do something doesnt mean they like u. in psychology u would learn this. misintepreting womens actions as love and shit like that. u better stop before u make a fool out of urself
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Sigh.... I miss high school drama. I totally know how you feel. Don't worry, a few years from now, you'll think back and laugh.
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On February 17 2008 13:26 B1nary wrote:
Sigh.... I miss high school drama. I totally know how you feel. Don't worry, a few years from now, you'll think back and laugh.
So true! haha =D
i had situation like this... now it only seems stupid  and that 'theif friend' became one of my best friends =)
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PS i kno my english skills are bad many gramatical errors, plz dont comment on how i dont use paragraphs.
Dude, I know this is your blog, but grammar really isn't your biggest problem, stop capitalizing randomly and not trail the end letter 500 times?
Anyway, you are an interesting fellow: euchre, lan party, MSN convos (I guess I used to do MSN too).
On topic, don't worry about it. High school is a fucking joke, your life begins as it ends.
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United Arab Emirates5090 Posts
imo this is just a typical boy likes girl, girl likes boy's friend, boy's heart gets owned. you either get over her or you don't. I know I don't.
what worries me more is this guy friend who humps you. whaaat the fuck???
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