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gurglamesh
United States30 Posts
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CatioN
United States136 Posts
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gurglamesh
United States30 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States43477 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:04 CatioN wrote: Whats rather distrubing is that she is cheating on her boyfriend with you, so what makes you think she wasnt cheating on you when you two were together? They do it once they are bound to do it again. TIME this shit takes time.... This is an important thing to think about. Also, even if you're not really her boyfriend anymore, you're still sexually/ emotionally attached to her via sex. If you actually want to get over her, you need to stop being intimate with her. Honestly, even being friends probably won't work out, although you can still be naive and pretend like it will and still tell her *you can still be friends*. But you're not going to get over someone who you committed a lot of time and effort and are still seeing on the side. If there's no chance of you guys getting back together, you honestly need to try and cut off the ties with her (for now, at least) and move on, completely. Maybe later on down the road, you can attempt to be platonic. But what you're doing right now is not going to allow the healing process to ever occur. | ||
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Clazziquai10
Singapore1949 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:04 CatioN wrote: Whats rather distrubing is that she is cheating on her boyfriend with you, so what makes you think she wasnt cheating on you when you two were together? They do it once they are bound to do it again. TIME this shit takes time.... Your heart doesnt rule your dick.....same way with girls i suppose  | ||
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EatsDirt
Canada26 Posts
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goiflin
Canada1218 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:10 gurglamesh wrote: Whats really disturbing is i know she cheated on me... i just assume only physically. Im only 18 still in high school and travel with a pretty, i guess not morally respectable group of kids. Not saying that im a bad kid, im an sc2 nerd and dont try to cause trouble, but what im saying is that ive yet to have a relationship with a girl i find apealing to me that hasnt been a cheater. Im not sure how much that really bothers me :/ I wouldn't worry too much about that. It'll come eventually. You can fish for a while and test kind of what you want or don't want in a relationship until later. | ||
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GiggleFairy
Australia331 Posts
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NukeTheStars
United States275 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:12 EatsDirt wrote: shes bad news Truer words were never spoken. Get the hell away, dude. | ||
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theBALLS
Singapore2935 Posts
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`Zapdos
United States935 Posts
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
She cheated on you She's cheating on him now Lasted 9 months Was 3 months ago BAD NEWS BEARS MAN + Show Spoiler + She's quite the slut if you didn't get that already. Don't worry about finding a new gf anytime soon. It should come naturally and if it doesn't then you're trying to put a cube in a circular hole. And not in any kind of sexual way, because that wouldn't feel very nice. | ||
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n3gative
Canada369 Posts
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eu.exodus
South Africa1186 Posts
1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever | ||
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Fishgle
United States2174 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:51 n3gative wrote: get back together with her, you sound perfect for each other. sick burn rofl no. jk. bad news. get away. spend 9 months with someone else and you'll forget about this one. gl hf | ||
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DemonDeacon
United States158 Posts
you guys dated, you are broken up, move on. it didn't work out for a reason, whatever it was. stop wasting your time on this girl when you could be spending it elsewhere (developing new relationships, not just with girls but in making new friends in general). this is especially true given the fact that she a. cheated on you and b. is cheating on her bf. this girl is a (pardon my french) b**ch and clearly doesn't give a s**t about anyone but herself. I know a lot of girls who "get around" and you know what, it's not a big deal. it's not attractive but if that's what they want to do that's fine because there's a difference between getting around when you're single and committing to a relationship, and then completely ignoring your responsibilities in the relationship. if you want to be happy you'll force yourself to get over this girl. Finally: Sex never helps getting over someone. i had an ex who i hooked up with for 2 years after we broke up and it was terrible. i would get over her for a while and then come home for spring break, have sex with her, and then be obsessed with her again and not stop thinking about her for months. it was terrible. some people can have sex with their ex's and not think about it again but if you're so attached to this girl i think the best thing to do (to get over her) would be to stop seeing her altogether. | ||
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English
United States475 Posts
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eohs
United States677 Posts
My point forget her... move on to another girl... repeat till you find the real one you want to love. | ||
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hyperknight
294 Posts
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cmen15
United States1519 Posts
Also damm darkplasma your icon changed Oo | ||
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