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On March 07 2012 16:02 eu.exodus wrote: with girls like that there are 5 simple steps to follow that make things a lot easier. cheaters are bad news.
1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever
This is terrible advice, just follow #4 and #5.
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Yeh you really need to stop sleeping with her or anything... if she cheated on you and is now cheating on her new boyfriend with you... well you can already see where this is going. You need to forget her and move on she wants the best of both worlds.
Delete her number and also her on any social sites and just try get over her! Last thing you want to do is to keep checking her facebook and see pictures of her etc.
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On March 07 2012 16:02 eu.exodus wrote: with girls like that there are 5 simple steps to follow that make things a lot easier. cheaters are bad news.
1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever
A little bit shorter version of this, remember the 3 F's. Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em.
You're 18. There's plenty of time to find the "one" or whatever. Have fun and learn some things so when you do find the one you are able to knock her pants off and keep them off. Just be safe. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
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it's not unusual to miss an ex, especially if you kept talking after the relationship ended
basically, though, it's just like a drug habit you have to kick, especially if the relationship was bad for you
otherwise you might start acting like a dumbass looking for your next fix
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On March 07 2012 14:58 gurglamesh wrote: So this a more personal blog than my other ones.Me and my girlfriend of about 9 months broke up probably like 3 months ago. I have seen other girls since but it just feels weird and wrong. Me and this girl talk still. We even hook up sometimes, but she has a boyfriend now and theres no way shes breaking up with him for us to get back together. I know i hated most of the shit about our relationship, but is it weird that i still miss her as much as i do? Is it because i still talk to her and occasionally have sex with her? just thought id look for some advice. It's been 3 months, it's about the time in which you start forgetting the rage and start reminiscing and missing all the good things about your broken relationship. It's a mirage.
You miss her because it's normal for you to miss her. Because she gave you something that you don't have anymore. But that doesn't mean you can't feel well with someone else.
My advice: Stop doing this, it's not good for you and it could be troublesome in the future. Gather yourself up, think about stuff, alone, and then do something about it. If you still want her, that's fine, but you should set a line, because it's not acceptable for you to be with her when she has a BF, that just means she doesn't really want to commit to a relationship with you, when that's actually what you want.
Think about yourself, and only yourself. That's probably what she's doing anyways.
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On March 07 2012 23:33 MaximusT wrote:Show nested quote +On March 07 2012 16:02 eu.exodus wrote: with girls like that there are 5 simple steps to follow that make things a lot easier. cheaters are bad news.
1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever
A little bit shorter version of this, remember the 3 F's. Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em. You're 18. There's plenty of time to find the "one" or whatever. Have fun and learn some things so when you do find the one you are able to knock her pants off and keep them off. Just be safe. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
there's also the DENNIS system
Demonstrate value Engage physically Nurture dependence Neglect emotionally] Inspire hope Separate entirely
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Dude, if she's stopping you from moving on then you gotta get her out of your life. If I were in your position I'd just drop all communication with her completely. You have to be the one in charge, even after you two break up. Don't make your decisions based off of her actions, girls love that. Make your own decisions and watch the way she reacts.
Plus, as far as my experience goes, girls really hate to be ignored.
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