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gurglamesh
United States30 Posts
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CatioN
United States136 Posts
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gurglamesh
United States30 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States44441 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:04 CatioN wrote: Whats rather distrubing is that she is cheating on her boyfriend with you, so what makes you think she wasnt cheating on you when you two were together? They do it once they are bound to do it again. TIME this shit takes time.... This is an important thing to think about. Also, even if you're not really her boyfriend anymore, you're still sexually/ emotionally attached to her via sex. If you actually want to get over her, you need to stop being intimate with her. Honestly, even being friends probably won't work out, although you can still be naive and pretend like it will and still tell her *you can still be friends*. But you're not going to get over someone who you committed a lot of time and effort and are still seeing on the side. If there's no chance of you guys getting back together, you honestly need to try and cut off the ties with her (for now, at least) and move on, completely. Maybe later on down the road, you can attempt to be platonic. But what you're doing right now is not going to allow the healing process to ever occur. | ||
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Clazziquai10
Singapore1949 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:04 CatioN wrote: Whats rather distrubing is that she is cheating on her boyfriend with you, so what makes you think she wasnt cheating on you when you two were together? They do it once they are bound to do it again. TIME this shit takes time.... Your heart doesnt rule your dick.....same way with girls i suppose  | ||
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EatsDirt
Canada26 Posts
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goiflin
Canada1218 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:10 gurglamesh wrote: Whats really disturbing is i know she cheated on me... i just assume only physically. Im only 18 still in high school and travel with a pretty, i guess not morally respectable group of kids. Not saying that im a bad kid, im an sc2 nerd and dont try to cause trouble, but what im saying is that ive yet to have a relationship with a girl i find apealing to me that hasnt been a cheater. Im not sure how much that really bothers me :/ I wouldn't worry too much about that. It'll come eventually. You can fish for a while and test kind of what you want or don't want in a relationship until later. | ||
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GiggleFairy
Australia331 Posts
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NukeTheStars
United States277 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:12 EatsDirt wrote: shes bad news Truer words were never spoken. Get the hell away, dude. | ||
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theBALLS
Singapore2935 Posts
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`Zapdos
United States935 Posts
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
She cheated on you She's cheating on him now Lasted 9 months Was 3 months ago BAD NEWS BEARS MAN + Show Spoiler + She's quite the slut if you didn't get that already. Don't worry about finding a new gf anytime soon. It should come naturally and if it doesn't then you're trying to put a cube in a circular hole. And not in any kind of sexual way, because that wouldn't feel very nice. | ||
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n3gative
Canada369 Posts
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eu.exodus
South Africa1186 Posts
1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever | ||
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Fishgle
United States2174 Posts
On March 07 2012 15:51 n3gative wrote: get back together with her, you sound perfect for each other. sick burn rofl no. jk. bad news. get away. spend 9 months with someone else and you'll forget about this one. gl hf | ||
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DemonDeacon
United States158 Posts
you guys dated, you are broken up, move on. it didn't work out for a reason, whatever it was. stop wasting your time on this girl when you could be spending it elsewhere (developing new relationships, not just with girls but in making new friends in general). this is especially true given the fact that she a. cheated on you and b. is cheating on her bf. this girl is a (pardon my french) b**ch and clearly doesn't give a s**t about anyone but herself. I know a lot of girls who "get around" and you know what, it's not a big deal. it's not attractive but if that's what they want to do that's fine because there's a difference between getting around when you're single and committing to a relationship, and then completely ignoring your responsibilities in the relationship. if you want to be happy you'll force yourself to get over this girl. Finally: Sex never helps getting over someone. i had an ex who i hooked up with for 2 years after we broke up and it was terrible. i would get over her for a while and then come home for spring break, have sex with her, and then be obsessed with her again and not stop thinking about her for months. it was terrible. some people can have sex with their ex's and not think about it again but if you're so attached to this girl i think the best thing to do (to get over her) would be to stop seeing her altogether. | ||
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English
United States475 Posts
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eohs
United States677 Posts
My point forget her... move on to another girl... repeat till you find the real one you want to love. | ||
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hyperknight
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cmen15
United States1519 Posts
Also damm darkplasma your icon changed Oo | ||
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Quesadilla
United States1814 Posts
On March 07 2012 16:02 eu.exodus wrote: with girls like that there are 5 simple steps to follow that make things a lot easier. cheaters are bad news. 1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever This is terrible advice, just follow #4 and #5. | ||
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Tommylew
Wales2717 Posts
Delete her number and also her on any social sites and just try get over her! Last thing you want to do is to keep checking her facebook and see pictures of her etc. | ||
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MaximusT
United States126 Posts
On March 07 2012 16:02 eu.exodus wrote: with girls like that there are 5 simple steps to follow that make things a lot easier. cheaters are bad news. 1. find her 2. fingher 3. fuck her 4. forget her 5. forever A little bit shorter version of this, remember the 3 F's. Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em. You're 18. There's plenty of time to find the "one" or whatever. Have fun and learn some things so when you do find the one you are able to knock her pants off and keep them off. Just be safe. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. | ||
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d3_crescentia
United States4054 Posts
basically, though, it's just like a drug habit you have to kick, especially if the relationship was bad for you otherwise you might start acting like a dumbass looking for your next fix | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On March 07 2012 14:58 gurglamesh wrote: So this a more personal blog than my other ones.Me and my girlfriend of about 9 months broke up probably like 3 months ago. I have seen other girls since but it just feels weird and wrong. Me and this girl talk still. We even hook up sometimes, but she has a boyfriend now and theres no way shes breaking up with him for us to get back together. I know i hated most of the shit about our relationship, but is it weird that i still miss her as much as i do? Is it because i still talk to her and occasionally have sex with her? just thought id look for some advice. It's been 3 months, it's about the time in which you start forgetting the rage and start reminiscing and missing all the good things about your broken relationship. It's a mirage. You miss her because it's normal for you to miss her. Because she gave you something that you don't have anymore. But that doesn't mean you can't feel well with someone else. My advice: Stop doing this, it's not good for you and it could be troublesome in the future. Gather yourself up, think about stuff, alone, and then do something about it. If you still want her, that's fine, but you should set a line, because it's not acceptable for you to be with her when she has a BF, that just means she doesn't really want to commit to a relationship with you, when that's actually what you want. Think about yourself, and only yourself. That's probably what she's doing anyways. | ||
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DemonDeacon
United States158 Posts
On March 07 2012 23:33 MaximusT wrote: A little bit shorter version of this, remember the 3 F's. Find 'em, fuck 'em, forget 'em. You're 18. There's plenty of time to find the "one" or whatever. Have fun and learn some things so when you do find the one you are able to knock her pants off and keep them off. Just be safe. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. there's also the DENNIS system Demonstrate value Engage physically Nurture dependence Neglect emotionally] Inspire hope Separate entirely + Show Spoiler + | ||
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PaqMan
United States1475 Posts
You have to be the one in charge, even after you two break up. Don't make your decisions based off of her actions, girls love that. Make your own decisions and watch the way she reacts. Plus, as far as my experience goes, girls really hate to be ignored. | ||
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