EPTand most of them want mah dick
oh and all the guys around me (except for one maybe) are losers and cannot ever hope to bang these chicks who want mah dick. suckass
is essentially what you are saying
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phosphorylation
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and most of them want mah dick oh and all the guys around me (except for one maybe) are losers and cannot ever hope to bang these chicks who want mah dick. suckass is essentially what you are saying | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:23 phosphorylation wrote: hey tl, i am a pimp with a girlfriend but i also have bunch of other female friends and most of them want mah dick is essentially your OP I'm legit not trying to brag. It's hard to deal with because I'm constantly having mental battles when I'm hanging out with my friend girls. | ||
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phosphorylation
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i thought it was an interesting observation | ||
Liquid`Drone
Norway28495 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:17 mordk wrote: I... half agree with you. I'd completely agree with you if we were talking about someone who isn't in a relationship, but since the OP has a girlfriend, letting feelings develop shows how little respect you have for your current relationship. If you're single, sure, you might as well let it happen, but know that it is a risk, and it could potentially destroy your friendship. how do you avoid letting feelings develop? how can I interact with a person while fully expressing myself emotionally (imo - important to develop a valuable friendship)? I mean, it's not like you meet someone and then you think "okay, I will only like this person to 60% of the extent I can like this person to avoid possibly being hurt or hurting someone in the future." Or, if you do, then you've just.. limited the scope of a future friendship from the get-go. what rather happens is that like, you interact normally with someone, and sometimes feelings develop. Then, if you're in a relationship, you don't act on them (which can feel "tough"), and if you're not, maybe you do. If being in a relationship means that you just can't make friends from the opposite sex, that's a terrible deal imo. | ||
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phosphorylation
United States2935 Posts
How old are you btw? | ||
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rel
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Liquid`Drone
Norway28495 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:58 rel wrote: I love you eri. r u a girl cuz I can't reciprocate your feeling if u r | ||
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mordk
Chile8385 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:30 Liquid`Drone wrote: how do you avoid letting feelings develop? how can I interact with a person while fully expressing myself emotionally (imo - important to develop a valuable friendship)? I mean, it's not like you meet someone and then you think "okay, I will only like this person to 60% of the extent I can like this person to avoid possibly being hurt or hurting someone in the future." Or, if you do, then you've just.. limited the scope of a future friendship from the get-go. what rather happens is that like, you interact normally with someone, and sometimes feelings develop. Then, if you're in a relationship, you don't act on them (which can feel "tough"), and if you're not, maybe you do. If being in a relationship means that you just can't make friends from the opposite sex, that's a terrible deal imo. Of course you can make a friend from a different gender while you're in a relationship, but letting "serious" feelings develop when you know it's happening is already acting on it to some extent. When you notice you're having feelings for a different person you should back off a bit, let it cool down, then go on with your friendship as normal. Unless you blindly and suddenly fall in love with another person, you can always manage your feelings for someone, you need to remember that when you're in a relationship it isn't just about you anymore, it's about the partnership that you form with your couple, and that is something you must protect. You can't let yourself go and just let yourself feel stuff and say "oh but I won't stop this for fear of pain", because it's not only about you, there's someone else involved. I agree you shouldn't stop yourself if you're single, and no one besides you and your friend can suffer the consequences. When you have a significant other you supposedly care for, and a relationship you're supposedly trying to nurture and support, it's wrong and disrespectful to expose it to this type of damage. If you can't be "just friends" with your friend, and you're risking your relationship, you either need to break up, or not be friends at all with this person, since you can't, at the very least you should make and respect clear boundaries with that person. This is completely different from being flirtatious by nature, being flirtatious is completely unrelated to actually having feelings for someone. | ||
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Liquid`Drone
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:26 phosphorylation wrote: well, maybe you aren't. but minus the thing about the pimp and suckass, what i wrote is essentially what you wrote, just worded differently. i thought it was an interesting observation never said anything bad about my friends dude. I said most of them are either taken or happy being single. only a few are the forever alone type. | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On February 15 2012 11:38 phosphorylation wrote: On the subject itself, I think it doesn't speak too well of your relationship when you are having these doubts. If you genuinely cared about your relationship with your gf, you would try hard to avoid getting so easily tempted by other girls in the first place. Being so liberal with opposite-sex friendships when you are already involved in a relationship is a slippery slope, I tell ya. How old are you btw? also, I never said I was doubting my current relationship. I'm happy with it, but I don't think there's any way to avoid developing slight feelings for other people. | ||
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Corsica
Ukraine1854 Posts
On February 15 2012 17:14 Yenticha wrote: You could also have an "open" relationship? Like, keep the relationship as it is, except you and your current gf agree that you can have sex with other partners. That works for some of my friends (wouldn't work for everybody though). Dude where you live ? somewhere in Asia? Which mysticals creatures your friends date? | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
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Lemonayd
United States745 Posts
On February 15 2012 10:54 Dante08 wrote: This blog reminds me of this video Imo its possible to be just friends but you got to have self control and know when to draw the line. Most importantly, don't let feelings develop. that video was entertaining xD | ||
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