EPTStop being delusional. Those women do NOT want to sleep with you.
Cheers,
Suff
How to be friends with girls when you have a gf? - Page 3
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Sufficiency
Canada23833 Posts
Stop being delusional. Those women do NOT want to sleep with you. Cheers, Suff | ||
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Glaceau
Wales333 Posts
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Angel_
United States1617 Posts
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pestilenz
Denmark379 Posts
You could also just pull yourself together, but since other people already suggested that I will not be talking about that. | ||
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Xiron
Germany1233 Posts
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Kukaracha
France1954 Posts
On February 15 2012 22:45 Sufficiency wrote: To OP: Stop being delusional. Those women do NOT want to sleep with you. Cheers, Suff True, men tend to sexualize their environment and interaction. I personally gradually got rid of girls I used to talk with, after sealing the deal with my girlfriend. I love her, and the easiest way to avoid being a hypocrite to her is to not put me into such situations. I still talk with a few, but I dropped all the 1 on 1 relationships I could've had before. | ||
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Xiron
Germany1233 Posts
On February 16 2012 04:28 Kukaracha wrote: True, men tend to sexualize their environment and interaction. Women don't? | ||
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Kukaracha
France1954 Posts
I believe that women actually do the reverse, which is why they can have "best friends" who want to have sex with them. They're able to overlook the sexual desires of their friend and cuddle without second thoughts. Men, on the other hand, will interpretate a look in the eye as "she wants the cock" even though it simply was a look in the eye. | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
LDR's are hard, man. You gotta figure out a way to consistently use up all that energy or it will tear you apart | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
for me, I just needed/need to meet more girls & keep not fapping. I'd stop objectifying, see shit for what it is, and once you've gotten in control of your sexuality the energy can be diverted anywhere you choose. I think your mind is weak at saying no because you don't do it many other places in your life and that's what is really scaring you. You wonder if when you come up to the cliff, you'll take the wrong plunge. Just gotta find other cliffs to walk up to, look over, and even if you like what you see walk away so you know you can. then you're good to go | ||
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junemermaid
United States981 Posts
On February 15 2012 10:58 Liquid`Drone wrote: I disagree with the notion that you should avoid letting feelings develop. Imo, a crush without a possible outlet, is an awesome foundation for a friendship. Crushes don't last forever, but you end up looking at the person from the nicest possible angle. Sure, sometimes you'll be a little torn, but imo, the best way to live life isn't trying to find the path of least resistance. Don't be afraid to love because you're afraid to be hurt. This is kind of dangerous (from experience). I got really close to a girl during last year and she had a boyfriend. I knew I should have kept my distance, but we had this ridiculously strong bond that I thought would develop into something more. Long story short, we end up sleeping together, I wanted to pursue a relationship, she said we were just friends, and I ended up being completely torn asunder as I had invested so much into that relationship. I mean, it was worth it from her point of view - she got what she wanted and had a relationship to fall back on. From my position, it really really sucked. I would be wary of doing what has been done to me, so it's probably best to keep your distance. | ||
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forgottendreams
United States1771 Posts
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On February 15 2012 22:45 Sufficiency wrote: To OP: Stop being delusional. Those women do NOT want to sleep with you. Cheers, Suff never said they "want to sleep with me." I said there's some mutual attraction there and I could easily make something of it if I wanted to. also, I think "don't be friends with girls" is a pretty silly solution. the more I think about this, the more I think that it stems from me not being entirely happy with my current relationship (just mostly happy). it's pretty complicated, but suffice to say, I feel like I could be happier with someone else. it's tough... I'm mostly happy now, and my girlfriend accepts my quirks and loves me for who I am, but those thoughts still creep up in the back of my head. | ||
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Yenticha
257 Posts
On February 15 2012 18:18 Corsica wrote: Dude where you live ? somewhere in Asia? Which mysticals creatures your friends date? Haha, although I don't live there at the moment, the friends I'm referring to live in France. They are not very mystical. Just practical I guess. Like each other but logistics work against them (distance separates them every now and then for various durations). Sex doesn't have to be so sacred. Or like an extremely precious thing girls hand out to handsome princes as some sort of reward. Going steady/faithful should be a real decision. Not something everyone does because Disney said so. | ||
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Zlasher
United States9129 Posts
On February 16 2012 14:45 iamahydralisk wrote: never said they "want to sleep with me." I said there's some mutual attraction there and I could easily make something of it if I wanted to. also, I think "don't be friends with girls" is a pretty silly solution. the more I think about this, the more I think that it stems from me not being entirely happy with my current relationship (just mostly happy). it's pretty complicated, but suffice to say, I feel like I could be happier with someone else. it's tough... I'm mostly happy now, and my girlfriend accepts my quirks and loves me for who I am, but those thoughts still creep up in the back of my head. Honestly if that is your thought process it'll never last so you might as well break up now and get with one of those girls that you're so sure you can get with. | ||
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phosphorylation
United States2935 Posts
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PHILtheTANK
United States1834 Posts
On February 15 2012 17:14 Yenticha wrote: You could also have an "open" relationship? Like, keep the relationship as it is, except you and your current gf agree that you can have sex with other partners. That works for some of my friends (wouldn't work for everybody though). I think this is probably the rarest thing in the world, and I'm pretty sure I would not want to date a girl who was cool with being in an open relationship. I also like that video haha. I also believe that it is impossible for guys and girls to be just friends(on the guys side at least) unless there is like zero chance you'd ever be attracted to that person. | ||
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pestilenz
Denmark379 Posts
On February 16 2012 17:04 phosphorylation wrote: precisely. personally i just think he's a teenager (or an immature adult) involved in one of those glib "relationships" Agree so much | ||
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iamahydralisk
United States813 Posts
On February 16 2012 17:04 phosphorylation wrote: precisely. personally i just think he's a teenager (or an immature adult) involved in one of those glib "relationships" lol. you know the old saying about when you assume... just saying. you know nothing about me or my relationship, so it makes you look silly when you make giant leaping assumptions like that. I could go really indepth and explain everything, but I'm less inclined to do so when I'm dealing with someone who'll just jump to conclusions. | ||
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Kukaracha
France1954 Posts
On February 16 2012 22:40 iamahydralisk wrote: lol. you know the old saying about when you assume... just saying. you know nothing about me or my relationship, so it makes you look silly when you make giant leaping assumptions like that. I could go really indepth and explain everything, but I'm less inclined to do so when I'm dealing with someone who'll just jump to conclusions. You could simply say how old you are. | ||
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