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PanicisaDJ
New Zealand2 Posts
Could I be the only one? D= | ||
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Masamune
Canada3401 Posts
If I were you I would post on a female gaming site or something and ask if any are gay and I'm sure you'll bump into a few lesbians ^^ | ||
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Homework
United States283 Posts
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FFGenerations
7088 Posts
On November 20 2011 16:01 GDR wrote: The question wasn't do you act 'stereotypically gay' sometimes, but rather do you sometimes feel like acting like such. Sometimes I feel like acting more effeminate, its generally something I'm so used to oppressing, but occasionally it slips out a bit around work with all the woman I work with. It is surprising how much of a nicer person I really end up being -- it is like a burden lifted off my shoulders, and I want to feel like that all the time. Yet, I simply don't feel comfortable with it, I can't knowingly let myself sink into it but rather I just sort of fall into it in moments when my mind is preoccupied. If I'm collected I reprimand myself before I fall into the effeminate motions, or I quickly pull myself back. That might be confusing.  when my friend finally realised (/decided/whatever) hes gay , at age 23+, he just immediately chucked out all personal inhibitions . he didnt become "super feminine" or whatever (maybe a bit, whatever) but he became super super confident and said whatever he felt like and really opened up and became charming and natural and uninhibited and everyone lovvvved the shit out of him i guess its like allowing you to sink totally into a style of personality with utmost confidence and celebration it happened to me (via alcohol), except "my" direction/state was kind of a copy of kenneth william's style (actually he was gay lol (im not)) this fear about people knowing or realising you're gay, its fucking awful and i guess you just gotta , one day, throw yourself off the cliff of fear , the wind rushing through your hair, then you'll realise like other people tell you that there is no spikey ground to fall on below and youll see that you can fly (not a direcct response to your post personally) here is a video of an owl you will like http://smotri.com/video/view/?id=v19158682ef6 | ||
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SnowK
United States245 Posts
but rather do you sometimes feel like acting like such. Yeah, I feel like it because I feel like getting noticed sometimes. :| | ||
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Silverfoxx
United States184 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + In regards to the entire fact that, well, gay sex tends to be more towards the who is doing the entering and who is being entered part >w> Assuming you go to, say, a gay bar or you meet someone, how would you tell which guy you see is top and which is a bottom? I use myself for an example, being a top really doesn't do anything for me... and I'm a 190 pound, ex-wrestler... That does not bode well for the stereotypically top/bottom stuff. >.> And yes, Still a request for a PM on a more personal issue. ^-^;; | ||
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jarrydesque
584 Posts
On November 20 2011 16:01 GDR wrote: The question wasn't do you act 'stereotypically gay' sometimes, but rather do you sometimes feel like acting like such. Sometimes I feel like acting more effeminate, its generally something I'm so used to oppressing, but occasionally it slips out a bit around work with all the woman I work with. It is surprising how much of a nicer person I really end up being -- it is like a burden lifted off my shoulders, and I want to feel like that all the time. Yet, I simply don't feel comfortable with it, I can't knowingly let myself sink into it but rather I just sort of fall into it in moments when my mind is preoccupied. If I'm collected I reprimand myself before I fall into the effeminate motions, or I quickly pull myself back. That might be confusing. I often feel the same way. It's fun to be frivolous but I also feel the need to reign myself in sometimes, especially in more public places or around people I don't know very well. I assume it is still some small part of myself that is fighting with the homo, be it shamefulness or trying to fit in (or whatever else). I know it's wrong and I can act however I want to act but as a frail human, I suppose it is natural to sometimes give into our fears and weaknesses. I know I'm a good person and that people like who I am (naturally) - I guess we just have to keep trying to drill this into our heads. FFGenerations has good insight and is 100% correct. Plus he linked an awesome video. ^5. | ||
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Silverfoxx
United States184 Posts
Also. <3 | ||
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Bortlett
United States302 Posts
 . Gotta keep trying though I guess  . | ||
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SnorLaxSC
United States6 Posts
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Klondikebar
United States2227 Posts
On November 21 2011 10:50 Bortlett wrote: Has anybody else used Grindr (or similar app)? I'm trying to find guys to date, but it's incredibly frustrating. Most of the texts I get are from much older men, and when I text other guys my age, they either don't reply or start a conversation then stop after one or two replys (wtf?). So demoralizing . Gotta keep trying though I guess .Yeah, I kill some time with that app. I don't really get it either. It's like people don't know how to use it. Any social social skills seem to fly out the window with that app. A lot of the people on their suffer from the delusion that they're a 10 when they're barely breaking a 5...and they're mean about it too. | ||
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marvellosity
United Kingdom36161 Posts
On November 21 2011 08:55 Silverfoxx wrote: + Show Spoiler + In regards to the entire fact that, well, gay sex tends to be more towards the who is doing the entering and who is being entered part >w> Assuming you go to, say, a gay bar or you meet someone, how would you tell which guy you see is top and which is a bottom? I use myself for an example, being a top really doesn't do anything for me... and I'm a 190 pound, ex-wrestler... That does not bode well for the stereotypically top/bottom stuff. >.> + Show Spoiler + Generally I just think you get the impression of who wants what. Anyway, somehow I've never had role problems with a guy I've gone home with. Like if someone's checking out your ass and you're checking out their dick, I think it's clear what's gonna go on in the bedroom | ||
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Klondikebar
United States2227 Posts
On November 21 2011 22:22 marvellosity wrote: + Show Spoiler + Generally I just think you get the impression of who wants what. Anyway, somehow I've never had role problems with a guy I've gone home with. Like if someone's checking out your ass and you're checking out their dick, I think it's clear what's gonna go on in the bedroom + Show Spoiler + Really? Cause I check out both regardless of what I'm in the mood for...maybe I'm just a slut. Completely spoiler-ed convo ftw? | ||
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marvellosity
United Kingdom36161 Posts
On November 22 2011 01:48 Klondikebar wrote: + Show Spoiler + Really? Cause I check out both regardless of what I'm in the mood for...maybe I'm just a slut. Completely spoiler-ed convo ftw? + Show Spoiler + You ruined it Also if you're versatile it's obviously not a problem | ||
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AnYvia
Bulgaria474 Posts
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Klondikebar
United States2227 Posts
On November 22 2011 02:06 AnYvia wrote: Retarded question - is Mora still around? His last post on the TL forums was the 17th and he's posted in this thread at least this month. He definitely still comes to TL. I'd PM him if you need to get ahold of him. | ||
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Mora
Canada5235 Posts
On November 21 2011 10:50 Bortlett wrote: Has anybody else used Grindr (or similar app)? I'm trying to find guys to date, but it's incredibly frustrating. Most of the texts I get are from much older men, and when I text other guys my age, they either don't reply or start a conversation then stop after one or two replys (wtf?). So demoralizing . Gotta keep trying though I guess .I'm the type of Grindr user that you've described. I'm horrible with regular texting (often won't respond to friend's text messages until a day afterward) so when it comes to Grindr I care even less. Grindr for me is just a sex app. If I want to talk to strangers I go to the bar and find a stranger to talk to. The only times I've used Grindr is when I'm drunk, super horny, and don't want to have sex with a repeat. I've met up with 3 guys. The first was a 3some with a friend of mine; doesn't really count as a Grindr experience from my point of view because I didn't do any of the contacting/grindr-ing. The second was some of the best sex I've ever had (and he had a mirror beside the bed! It was fantastic!). The third was a HUGE waste of time and I now call him 3-Pump-Ray. If you want to meet guys to date, you need to do something more engaging. I joined a gay soccer league and my entire gay life changed. I now acquaint with ~150 gay guys on a weekly basis, and as a plus I'm in the best shape of my life! edit - Oh, there's another app called Scruff that's similar to Grindr, but intended for scruffy guys and/or for guys who like scruffy guys. I find that people on this app are MUCH more inclined to be friendly/chat. You have a more expansive profile and you can browse globally or nearby users. I recommend it! | ||
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Mora
Canada5235 Posts
On November 21 2011 08:55 Silverfoxx wrote: So. I feel the need to request a PM from someone in regards to more personal details? Also, for all those of you who come into this thread and see bad things, the spoiler is not worth your time for reading, it is simply a question I'm very curious about. X3 In regards to the entire fact that, well, gay sex tends to be more towards the who is doing the entering and who is being entered part >w> Assuming you go to, say, a gay bar or you meet someone, how would you tell which guy you see is top and which is a bottom? I use myself for an example, being a top really doesn't do anything for me... and I'm a 190 pound, ex-wrestler... That does not bode well for the stereotypically top/bottom stuff. >.> And yes, Still a request for a PM on a more personal issue. ^-^;; Certain people you can tell right away, it comes with gaydar. Other people are hard to pick up on. I'm a fit/hairy/bearded/190lb guy, which is enough for some [a lot] of people to think that I'm a top! Truth is I'm a bottom who loves huge penises and being thrown around. | ||
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Klondikebar
United States2227 Posts
On November 22 2011 01:56 marvellosity wrote: + Show Spoiler + You ruined it Also if you're versatile it's obviously not a problem + Show Spoiler + In my long illustrious career as a homosexual I have met very very few guys who weren't even a little bit versatile. The vast majority can adopt whatever role makes sex work and will enjoy it. | ||
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Mora
Canada5235 Posts
On November 22 2011 07:22 Klondikebar wrote: In my long illustrious career as a homosexual I have met very very few guys who weren't even a little bit versatile. The vast majority can adopt whatever role makes sex work and will enjoy it. That's interesting! I'd say of the people I know, probably about half are vers, the other half very specific. I could be absolutely in love with a guy, but if he's not a top, the sex would not work. Topping just doesn't turn me on (I haven't done it in a while, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't even stay hard unless I had some prescription assistance) | ||
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