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About a year ago I was playing SC2 the usual 4v4 random matches which I like to play and among the usual chatter at the beginning there's this guy, Greg, who's like: "Hey, mate ?". [Typical british thing to say lol]
Back then I had yet to meet a British player on the servers most of them were French or German. So I was happy and the chat lead to adding each other and we became "best SC2 buddies" lol in no time. Only problem is that I was worried if he knew that I like men he might start to keep away from me but I did tell him and it had the opposite effect. Since I came out to him, we've had great conversations, sometime really gross ones too - the kind i don't talk about even to my gay friends...
Today we still have a great friendship and I even went to visit him. Minus the occasional debate about "Terran is OP..." *sigh* lol
Looking back I didn't think one conversation would lead to all this but I'm glad it did 
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On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ? 
I would just suggest going out drinking, or any activity that is enjoyed by strait and gays alike.
I can tell you this with out a doubt because I am like the ONLY strait man (working or member) in my Spa/Gym here in DC. And I have been asked out more then once. It all about making connections and having a good ol time ^_^
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On November 18 2011 01:41 EndOfLine wrote:Show nested quote +On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ? I would just suggest going out drinking, or any activity that is enjoyed by strait and gays alike. I can tell you this with out a doubt because I am like the ONLY strait man (working or member) in my Spa/Gym here in DC. And I have been asked out more then once. It all about making connections and having a good ol time ^_^
How on earth are you the only straight guy working at a gay gym? Is it a small enough gym that you actually happen to be the only straight guy there?
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On November 18 2011 02:24 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 18 2011 01:41 EndOfLine wrote:On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ? I would just suggest going out drinking, or any activity that is enjoyed by strait and gays alike. I can tell you this with out a doubt because I am like the ONLY strait man (working or member) in my Spa/Gym here in DC. And I have been asked out more then once. It all about making connections and having a good ol time ^_^ How on earth are you the only straight guy working at a gay gym? Is it a small enough gym that you actually happen to be the only straight guy there?
I am exaggerating a bit ^_^
Its a large nice gym: Vida Fitness
90% of all my co workers are gay.
99% of all the men in the gym are gay. 99% of all my clients are gay, lol
This gym is known to be the "gay gym" in DC. Probably due to its close proximity to Dupont Circle (The gay "ghetto" I have heard people call this place, lmao) with in DC, How extravagant/awesome the equipment/environment/cleanness/ are,
Very different place to work in from all the other gyms I have worked at.
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On November 18 2011 02:33 EndOfLine wrote:Show nested quote +On November 18 2011 02:24 Klondikebar wrote:On November 18 2011 01:41 EndOfLine wrote:On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ? I would just suggest going out drinking, or any activity that is enjoyed by strait and gays alike. I can tell you this with out a doubt because I am like the ONLY strait man (working or member) in my Spa/Gym here in DC. And I have been asked out more then once. It all about making connections and having a good ol time ^_^ How on earth are you the only straight guy working at a gay gym? Is it a small enough gym that you actually happen to be the only straight guy there? I am exaggerating a bit ^_^ Its a large nice gym: Vida Fitness 90% of all my co workers are gay. 99% of all the men in the gym are gay. 99% of all my clients are gay, lol This gym is known to be the "gay gym" in DC. Probably due to its close proximity to Dupont Circle (The gay "ghetto" I have heard people call this place, lmao) with in DC, How extravagant/awesome the equipment/environment/cleanness/ are, Very different place to work in from all the other gyms I have worked at.
*sigh* It must be awesome to be gay on the east coast.
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I am the only gay guy in the sc2
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On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ?
Ask for a drink. At about two drinks, your gaydar should be able to pick-up whether he's in our team or not. Had an experience once in an Irish pub of all places. I was with my buddies and saw this guy eyeing me, so I eye back. At that point, I was like "he might be gay."
As soon as he stepped out of the pub to get a smoke, I follow. So we casually chatted a bit, can't remember what we talked about. Soon, we were around the corner, away from privy eyes and started to mack out.
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On November 18 2011 02:46 Mabbaoo wrote:I am the only gay guy in the sc2
This. XD Bravo, good sir.
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On November 17 2011 23:16 jarrydesque wrote:
Finished with exams! I will now dedicate the next 3 months of my lazy ass life to Skyrim! And maybe a bit of APB xD
And of course a bit of SC too!!
Oh, lets play together! Me and my friend use to be max threat in that game! I wonder if I still am. ^^
Edit: You're on European server though right? I guess I could play with lag. T.T
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On November 18 2011 06:39 GDR wrote:Show nested quote +On November 17 2011 23:16 jarrydesque wrote:
Finished with exams! I will now dedicate the next 3 months of my lazy ass life to Skyrim! And maybe a bit of APB xD
And of course a bit of SC too!! Oh, lets play together! Me and my friend use to be max threat in that game! I wonder if I still am. ^^
hrumph
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On November 17 2011 09:36 drshdwpuppet wrote:Show nested quote +On November 17 2011 09:17 neoghaleon55 wrote:
Is TLO gay?
He seems to touch and kiss a lot of boys in public...
That'd be hot if he is
;D If he isnt, its still hot  Straight boys acting gay is attractive for some reason.
No, those are called teases
I hate them.
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On November 18 2011 07:02 neoghaleon55 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 17 2011 09:36 drshdwpuppet wrote:On November 17 2011 09:17 neoghaleon55 wrote:
Is TLO gay?
He seems to touch and kiss a lot of boys in public...
That'd be hot if he is
;D If he isnt, its still hot Straight boys acting gay is attractive for some reason. No, those are called teases I hate them.
Even when they don't tease and actually go for it, it's super weird. An old high school buddy of mine decided to try experimenting with me and it was SO WEIRD.
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On November 18 2011 07:07 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 18 2011 07:02 neoghaleon55 wrote:On November 17 2011 09:36 drshdwpuppet wrote:On November 17 2011 09:17 neoghaleon55 wrote:
Is TLO gay?
He seems to touch and kiss a lot of boys in public...
That'd be hot if he is
;D If he isnt, its still hot Straight boys acting gay is attractive for some reason. No, those are called teases I hate them. Even when they don't tease and actually go for it, it's super weird. An old high school buddy of mine decided to try experimenting with me and it was SO WEIRD.
*wipes drool off face*
Well comon!
You can't just stop there!
out with it!!
I want story time!
:D
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On November 18 2011 07:08 neoghaleon55 wrote:Show nested quote +On November 18 2011 07:07 Klondikebar wrote:On November 18 2011 07:02 neoghaleon55 wrote:On November 17 2011 09:36 drshdwpuppet wrote:On November 17 2011 09:17 neoghaleon55 wrote:
Is TLO gay?
He seems to touch and kiss a lot of boys in public...
That'd be hot if he is
;D If he isnt, its still hot Straight boys acting gay is attractive for some reason. No, those are called teases I hate them. Even when they don't tease and actually go for it, it's super weird. An old high school buddy of mine decided to try experimenting with me and it was SO WEIRD. *wipes drool off face* Well comon! You can't just stop there! out with it!! I want story time! :D
It's not that dirty. An old highschool buddy of mine and I had kept in touch because we both played WoW. When we were both in town we would always go out drinking together.
One time we were out drinking and he kept telling me his dirty sex secrets (the dude was a MASSIVE womanizer in highschool and apparently he didn't change much). He kept dropping hints about he just liked "sex" and didn't really care with whom.
At the end of the nigh we were both super drunk and he asked me if I wanted to come back to his place.
It's supposed to be like some fantasy come true for this stuff to happen so I sure as hell wasn't about to say no but it ended up being weird, really weird. Like, I would never do it again kinda weird.
Shame too, he was a marine and everything. He was hot.
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On November 18 2011 07:23 Klondikebar wrote:+ Show Spoiler +
It's not that dirty. An old highschool buddy of mine and I had kept in touch because we both played WoW. When we were both in town we would always go out drinking together.
One time we were out drinking and he kept telling me his dirty sex secrets (the dude was a MASSIVE womanizer in highschool and apparently he didn't change much). He kept dropping hints about he just liked "sex" and didn't really care with whom.
At the end of the nigh we were both super drunk and he asked me if I wanted to come back to his place.
It's supposed to be like some fantasy come true for this stuff to happen so I sure as hell wasn't about to say no but it ended up being weird, really weird. Like, I would never do it again kinda weird.
Shame too, he was a marine and everything. He was hot.
I guess it's different if you've known the guy for so long.
I sure as hell wouldn't screw my best friend...too much like a brother.
Actually would rather screw my brother than best friend..
...but that's getting into something different
^_^;;
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The store I work at has to be the gayest in existence; I swear about 40% of people who work there are gay. The boss is a (pushy, aggressive, WOT U SAYIN BLUD INNIT style) lesbian, three of the managers are gay, three of the trainee managers are gay, two are lesbians, there's about 15 crew I can think of that are gay or lesbian, and there are more than a couple that I'm preeeetty sure are closeted. Basically, it's pretty gay. There's just a lot of gayness floating around. Gay activities abound.
One of said managers has taken a shine to me. And by taken a shine, I mean he is properly trying really hard to get in my pants. I personally am bisexual - sort of. It's not something I exactly define myself by, it's more something that every so often I will do. As far as I'm concerned I'm a straight guy who loves nothing more in the whole world than attractive women, who occasionally indulges in a little...experimentation with members of his own gender.
At first I considered his advances in a detached, curious sort of way. I mean, guaranteed sex, right? How not-gay do you have to be to turn down definite sex? But man...I'm just not attracted to him. It'd just be awkward. And the amount of shit I would get from the some of the, shall we say, not so open minded crew would be ridiculous. It's not that I care what a bunch of prejudiced bellends think, I'd just really rather not deal with the hassle. It's boring. I already get enough shit because of my somewhat metrosexual fashion sense (cardigans yo, cardigans are where it's at this time of year).
But anyway, I try and deflect his attentions as much as possible but I think he reckons I'm just playing hard to get. I'm not man. I'm playing hard to get because I don't want you to get me. I may, however, have accidentally a little bit maybe snogged him on a work night out. Three times. I feel bad because I was just having fun but afterwards people were telling me he was really happy about it and he actually really liked me - and I'm like, fuck. I realise I was totally leading him on and that's a dick move. In my paltry defense I was drunk and I kissed other people as well, and it's hard not to respond to that kind of flattery and attention whoever it's from.
Ever since he's been doing stuff like whispering 'I want to kiss you' in my ear when he walks past, and touching me and shit. More than before, I mean. So now I have to take him aside at some point and tell him that I am definitely not going to fuck him. I am NOT looking forward to that conversation.
Feels bad, guys. Feels bad.
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hmm, I wish I had the problem where I had to turn down sex...
just kidding mate
best of luck with that ><, in my experience, just being straight up and honest is the best pathway.
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On November 17 2011 23:25 NanaCry wrote:Waoh i just found this topic :D As i was walking out the other day and i saw a really nice looking guy, i looked at him and he looked back. When i was behind him, i turned my head to see if he would turn too and he did. But this was only to ask me a cigarette. I gave him it and he asked me for my appartment number so he could give a cigarette back to me later. (Who does that ? Does it mean anything or am i just so depressed i want to see things happening when they're not ?) He didn't show up unfortunately but i wonder what could i have done if he did ? Would you ask him if he's gay ? Say something funny or ask him if he wants to drink something ? How do you do it ?
Ask a guy who mooches cigarettes from people on the street in for a drink and you will either A) have a new friend, or B) be found in several pieces in your freezer. But it would probably be A.
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That's disturbing, Mani.
KY - It's not going to be a pleasant conversation that's for sure but at least the situation will come to a head.
SKYRIM UPDATE: So I gave up on my thief assassin and started a mage. Thief is like level 30 and mage is 40 something. Neither has completed any further than the 3rd or 4th main quest line.
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On November 18 2011 10:14 jarrydesque wrote:
That's disturbing, Mani.
KY - It's not going to be a pleasant conversation that's for sure but at least the situation will come to a head.
SKYRIM UPDATE: So I gave up on my thief assassin and started a mage. Thief is like level 30 and mage is 40 something. Neither has completed any further than the 3rd or 4th main quest line.
I don't think I've even completed the second main quest. But:
+ Show Spoiler +I was promoted to the Arch-Mage of Winterhold College
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