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On November 22 2011 07:12 Mora wrote:Show nested quote +On November 21 2011 10:50 Bortlett wrote:Has anybody else used Grindr (or similar app)? I'm trying to find guys to date, but it's incredibly frustrating. Most of the texts I get are from much older men, and when I text other guys my age, they either don't reply or start a conversation then stop after one or two replys (wtf?). So demoralizing  . Gotta keep trying though I guess  . I'm the type of Grindr user that you've described. I'm horrible with regular texting (often won't respond to friend's text messages until a day afterward) so when it comes to Grindr I care even less. Grindr for me is just a sex app. If I want to talk to strangers I go to the bar and find a stranger to talk to. The only times I've used Grindr is when I'm drunk, super horny, and don't want to have sex with a repeat. I've met up with 3 guys. The first was a 3some with a friend of mine; doesn't really count as a Grindr experience from my point of view because I didn't do any of the contacting/grindr-ing. The second was some of the best sex I've ever had (and he had a mirror beside the bed! It was fantastic!). The third was a HUGE waste of time and I now call him 3-Pump-Ray. If you want to meet guys to date, you need to do something more engaging. I joined a gay soccer league and my entire gay life changed. I now acquaint with ~150 gay guys on a weekly basis, and as a plus I'm in the best shape of my life! edit - Oh, there's another app called Scruff that's similar to Grindr, but intended for scruffy guys and/or for guys who like scruffy guys. I find that people on this app are MUCH more inclined to be friendly/chat. You have a more expansive profile and you can browse globally or nearby users. I recommend it!
Hey! Be nice to the quick pump guys! Especially if they're young. Sometimes I get so ramped up that a slight breeze will set me off. It just happens when you still have a ton of hormones.
That said, on days like that it also means I'm ready to go again in a VERY short time.
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On November 22 2011 02:06 AnYvia wrote:
Retarded question - is Mora still around?
I come to this site probably every day, but post very seldom. I don't have time to keep track of threads because of the volume of posts, and for this reason I am discouraged from participating.
If you want to get my attention, PM me. Though be warned: it often takes me a long time to get back to people. lol (infact, I should be doing that right now instead of browsing threads.)
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The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all.
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On November 22 2011 07:25 Mora wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:22 Klondikebar wrote:On November 22 2011 01:56 marvellosity wrote:On November 22 2011 01:48 Klondikebar wrote:On November 21 2011 22:22 marvellosity wrote:On November 21 2011 08:55 Silverfoxx wrote:+ Show Spoiler +In regards to the entire fact that, well, gay sex tends to be more towards the who is doing the entering and who is being entered part >w> Assuming you go to, say, a gay bar or you meet someone, how would you tell which guy you see is top and which is a bottom? I use myself for an example, being a top really doesn't do anything for me... and I'm a 190 pound, ex-wrestler... That does not bode well for the stereotypically top/bottom stuff. >.> + Show Spoiler +Generally I just think you get the impression of who wants what. Anyway, somehow I've never had role problems with a guy I've gone home with. Like if someone's checking out your ass and you're checking out their dick, I think it's clear what's gonna go on in the bedroom  + Show Spoiler +Really? Cause I check out both regardless of what I'm in the mood for...maybe I'm just a slut. Completely spoiler-ed convo ftw? + Show Spoiler +You ruined it Also if you're versatile it's obviously not a problem In my long illustrious career as a homosexual I have met very very few guys who weren't even a little bit versatile. The vast majority can adopt whatever role makes sex work and will enjoy it. That's interesting! I'd say of the people I know, probably about half are vers, the other half very specific. I could be absolutely in love with a guy, but if he's not a top, the sex would not work. Topping just doesn't turn me on (I haven't done it in a while, but I'm pretty sure I wouldn't even stay hard unless I had some prescription assistance)
Hmm...I'd definitely say most guys prefer one role over another. But it's just so rare for me to see/meet someone who absolutely cannot and will not do both.
Although I am 100% vers so it's never been an issue I've had to press before. Maybe that's why we've had different experiences haha.
I should probably mention I've had very little actual gay sex. Although a lot of my flirting has gotten to the point of hammering out logistics. Maybe it's just that when the flirting gets to that point the guy is so ramped up he'll say pretty much anything to get things moving along.
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On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all.
Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex.
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On November 22 2011 07:26 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:12 Mora wrote:On November 21 2011 10:50 Bortlett wrote:Has anybody else used Grindr (or similar app)? I'm trying to find guys to date, but it's incredibly frustrating. Most of the texts I get are from much older men, and when I text other guys my age, they either don't reply or start a conversation then stop after one or two replys (wtf?). So demoralizing . Gotta keep trying though I guess . I'm the type of Grindr user that you've described. I'm horrible with regular texting (often won't respond to friend's text messages until a day afterward) so when it comes to Grindr I care even less. Grindr for me is just a sex app. If I want to talk to strangers I go to the bar and find a stranger to talk to. The only times I've used Grindr is when I'm drunk, super horny, and don't want to have sex with a repeat. I've met up with 3 guys. The first was a 3some with a friend of mine; doesn't really count as a Grindr experience from my point of view because I didn't do any of the contacting/grindr-ing. The second was some of the best sex I've ever had (and he had a mirror beside the bed! It was fantastic!). The third was a HUGE waste of time and I now call him 3-Pump-Ray. If you want to meet guys to date, you need to do something more engaging. I joined a gay soccer league and my entire gay life changed. I now acquaint with ~150 gay guys on a weekly basis, and as a plus I'm in the best shape of my life! edit - Oh, there's another app called Scruff that's similar to Grindr, but intended for scruffy guys and/or for guys who like scruffy guys. I find that people on this app are MUCH more inclined to be friendly/chat. You have a more expansive profile and you can browse globally or nearby users. I recommend it! Hey! Be nice to the quick pump guys! Especially if they're young. Sometimes I get so ramped up that a slight breeze will set me off. It just happens when you still have a ton of hormones. That said, on days like that it also means I'm ready to go again in a VERY short time.
Oh - don't get me wrong, I wasn't mean to the guy. I was annoyed but he was clearly young and excited. I was very reassuring and all that important stuff when you're young, fresh out of the closet, and new to the gay world. Ego is fragile!
That being said I had spent $30 on cab fare, spent time having a shower/enema, wasted the time going and returning home (at 2am!) and had to work the next day. All just to go home and finish myself off with the Dildo that was sitting next to my bed to begin with.
Hence I won't shatter the poor boy's ego, but I'm also going to give him a nickname and do nothing more than smile at him when we cross paths again.
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On November 22 2011 07:32 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all. Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex.
Lol. This thread is really long, but I think way back on like page 15 I described how before I purchased a dildo, I got by by using a hammer.
Asking about top/bottom is nothing to be ashamed about (and I was annoyed at having to click the spoilers every time. I'm using a friend's computer and his mouse is shit)
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On November 22 2011 07:32 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all. Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex.
twice as hard, you might say
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On November 22 2011 07:37 RoMGraViTy wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:32 Klondikebar wrote:On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all. Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex. twice as hard, you might say
It was thrice as hard last night! I love San Francisco vacations!
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On November 22 2011 07:39 Mora wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:37 RoMGraViTy wrote:On November 22 2011 07:32 Klondikebar wrote:On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all. Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex. twice as hard, you might say It was thrice as hard last night! I love San Francisco vacations!
How on earth are threesomes fun? I tried one and it ended up being ridiculously awkward. There was no sex. I just called it quits and went home.
So far all of my experimenting with "fun stuff" has been a huge letdown actually.
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Not to derail this wonderful conversation, but I just got back from MLG! First time ever going to one and I have to say it was quite fun. I didn't realize we had so many cute nerds in our community.  Got to see some awesome games (and Jinro /swoon) and met some pretty cool people.
Did anyone else make it out to Providence?
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On November 22 2011 07:42 Tipsyer wrote:Not to derail this wonderful conversation, but I just got back from MLG! First time ever going to one and I have to say it was quite fun. I didn't realize we had so many cute nerds in our community. Got to see some awesome games (and Jinro /swoon) and met some pretty cool people. Did anyone else make it out to Providence?
No, but I went to a Barcraft. Definitely a lot of cute guys, a number of hideous ones too, unfortunately everyone looks so young. I don't really want to date someone who looks 16, there is nothing wrong with it, but I'd prefer a slightly older guy. :p
I hope you had a great time! If it comes to Canada I might go, but no plans for the states.
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On November 22 2011 07:41 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On November 22 2011 07:39 Mora wrote:On November 22 2011 07:37 RoMGraViTy wrote:On November 22 2011 07:32 Klondikebar wrote:On November 22 2011 07:30 GDR wrote:
The best part of this is watching everyone spoiler tag everything, and then see Mora come in and un-spoiler it all. Apparently we're not supposed to be ashamed of our erotica posts. Although it makes sense that we'd have to ask for advice since gay sex is a hell of a lot harder than straight sex. twice as hard, you might say It was thrice as hard last night! I love San Francisco vacations! How on earth are threesomes fun? I tried one and it ended up being ridiculously awkward. There was no sex. I just called it quits and went home. So far all of my experimenting with "fun stuff" has been a huge letdown actually.
Threesomes have to be with the right people, and they aren't for everybody.
I usually don't feel all that comfortable/into it unless I'm pretty drunk. However, at that point, they're amazing.
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So... I do have to ask, and to not upset people again I'll do it in spoilers (sorry mora, know you hate clicking on them, but i'm a prude and I have to gather other people browsing this thread are too. <3)
+ Show Spoiler +I am looking towards getting a *cough* Personal toy in the future and have no idea where to start... Any help? Also, is there any nature of doing things? I mean, I'm used to the entire going in and buying condoms thing, done that with friends. but buying my own toy as a guy is something that I don't want to go into the store and just be like uhm... yeah.... can I get that... and... lots of lube please. >///> <3
Thankies. Also, yay Mora! <3 I will say that everytime I see you posting in the forums. ^-^
And in terms of preference... I CAN be a top. in fact, once in a long while I will feel the desire to be one. But...99% of the time, I'd rather not be, and I am DEFINETLY more excited by the prospect of being a bottom.
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Hello fellow Gaymers!
If anyone is interested in playing some games or chatting in ventrilo about starcraft tournaments / players add me.
Bibit - 330 Platinum Zerg
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On November 22 2011 09:44 Silverfoxx wrote:+ Show Spoiler +I am looking towards getting a *cough* Personal toy in the future and have no idea where to start... Any help? Also, is there any nature of doing things? I mean, I'm used to the entire going in and buying condoms thing, done that with friends. but buying my own toy as a guy is something that I don't want to go into the store and just be like uhm... yeah.... can I get that... and... lots of lube please. >///> <3
+ Show Spoiler +Just buy from Amazon (or some other online retailer). Better selection, user reviews, and when it's shipped, it will be with a fake return label in a plain cardboard box. Ezpz
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RE the figuring out what role who is going to take of the last two pages:
Don't concern yourself with that until you actually get to the bedroom. Put two people who are attracted to each other in a room together and I'm sure they'll find SOMETHING to do.
P.S. Did anyone notice that the same voice actor that did Fenris from Dragon Age also does some people in Skyrim. I recognized it immediately and I am so proud of myself.
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So I was planning on going to MLG Dallas next year but apparently BO is legitimately a problem at these things?! Everyone I know who's been to a gaming convention says they smell terrible and the outcry on Reddit isn't encouraging.
I think I'll just stick to my streaming where I won't be subject to other people's poor hygiene.
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I do want to go to an MLG at some point, but they're all so far away! I'm in new york for school and back home with the parents in DC during the breaks. It has so far seemed that if there was an MLG near enough to new york, I've been in DC and vice versa... or I'm letting the one time it was nearby influence both decisions.
~<3
Good to know about the stink though... If I do go I'll bring a can of febreze and just start spraying people.
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I have been to many LANs, cons, events etc. The stink is awful, worse in some places than others, but dear god.
I don't understand why people don't have at least a baseline level of appropriate hygiene... I shower 2-3 times a day for christsake.
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