I have a new girl going on and I have never been this in love before. Two days ago we had vaginal sex for the first time and for the record it was great.
We did not use a condom since we wanted the first time to be romantic and stuff, or she wanted that maybe, I just straight out dont like condoms.
I have no problem putting it on, I know my size and how shit works, I just don't like how it feels. She don't want to get birth control pills and I respect that, but I don't want to make a new life right now so what are the options here anyway?
And really, how big risk is it to not use protection if you don't cum inside her?
Experience is this mather would be great.
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ya that pretty much covers the faq..
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sometimes it doesnt matter if you dont cum inside of her. the preseminal liquid is full of spermatozoides? too. so, there's a chance of she getting pregnant.
what about those extra-sensitive condoms ? have you tried whit those ones?
On October 25 2006 09:59 Unforgiven_ve wrote: sometimes it doesnt matter if you dont cum inside of her. the preseminal liquid is full of spermatozoides? too. so, there's a chance of she getting pregnant.
what about those extra-sensitive condoms ? have you tried whit those ones?
I am aware of that, thanks for pointing it out thought becouse I could not write it in english even if I wanted to.. But I wonder how great deal of risk that really is..Extra sensitive ey? Hrmm. I'll try it for sure, sounds better at least
It's not as big a risk if you do it once, but if she's your girlfriend, and you have sex like 2-3 times a week or more then there's a really big risk. It doesn't matter if you "pull out" since the preseminal liquid can leave her pregnant. (although, admitedly, it's a smaller chance... but since you do it quite frequently, you're pushing the anvelope )
It might seem worth it now, but it's not. If she'll get pregnant, you're done for. You need to get a special shot (not vaccine, but something like it) of some-kind which might or might not work. You might need for her to get an abortion, or worse. Trust me, you don't wanna see how she feels about you if you leave her pregnant because you don't like condoms. I cannot emphasise trust me enough.
Also, for some "technical facts" (that i got from my best friend who is a 3rd year med student): Your sea-men (lol) "lives" inside her for about 16 hrs (or 12, can't remember). And she's only truely fertile for a little while, but that can't be pin-pointed exactly. That's why the "chalendaristic" method gives you so little time where you can actually have sex safely.
After-sex birth control pills (2nd day pills, pills that you take if condom broke or something, and you want to be 100% safe) work if you take the first one in 72 hrs after doing it. It kills the egg.
Hmmm.. what else... try durex ultra-thin or elite (that's what they're called here). Spermicide is only like 70% safe. Maybe ask her to get a diafragm? It's like a condom for women, you use it with spermicide, but I don't know many details about it.
I seriously, seriously ask you to reconsider doing it with NO protection, especially if you say you love her. Take care.
Birth control pills are very safe (99,9% or somethg), but a few girls cant use them for med. reasons. Condoms are very safe too. loop/coil is usually pretty safe too, but depends on the girl if she likes it, if its worth it. etc I dont know any girl using a diaphragm and i dont know if its safe. i think it has some kind of sperm-killing liquid, but really not sure.
sometimes it doesnt matter if you dont cum inside of her = Russian roulette par excellence Never had Biology? The risk of getting pregnant when having sex without any protection is far above zero, you think its worth the risk? I dont think so Not talking about HIV and such stuff.
You really don't wan't to risk it. abortions can be rather messy. The spiral thingy that can be put in the uterus can be an alternative. Hmm can't think of the name. either one of you needs anticonception.
On October 25 2006 10:17 HiTexas wrote: Birth control pills are very safe (99,9% or somethg), but a few girls cant use them for med. reasons. Condoms are very safe too. loop/coil is usually pretty safe too, but depends on the girl if she likes it, if its worth it. etc I dont know any girl using a diaphragm and i dont know if its safe. i think it has some kind of sperm-killing liquid, but really not sure.
sometimes it doesnt matter if you dont cum inside of her = Russian roulette par excellence Never had Biology?
Diafragms have to be used with spermicide, it's like a disk made of silicone or such, and you put spermicide on the edge of it, all around. However this helps vs pregnancy only, not any VD. I don't know how safe it is either, but it's not much less safer than the condom.
Also, birth control pills have to be issued by a doctor, according do her metabolism and such, don't just let her take any. And as a fact, they contain hormones, which kinda makes them gain weight faster, so you (she) might want to be aware of that too.
yea, even if you dont fully cum in her, she can still get pregnant. just tell her to go on the pill man.
in addition... goin at it raw, even with the pill, you really dont know her past experiences. for example, a buddy of mine has been seein this girl for maybe 6-7 months. like all of us, he hates condoms and like you, he choses to fuck raw all the time. he recently found out that his girls ex had ghonnorea (sp) and they too used to fuck raw.
there's pills for men too. takes about a month or so for the effect to kick in, but from there it wont be a singe sperm inside of you until you quit eating them.
If she won't take the pill and you won't use a condom, your options are the morning after pill, vasectomy, and avoiding vaginal sex. The pull out method is not a good way to avoid pregnancy. One of my college pals had to get an abortion because of that strategy.
As far as I understand it, there's only a few days per ovulation cycle a woman can get pregnant, and spermatozoa doesn't live very long, so if you can predict when your girlfriend can get pregnant as well as how long your sperm will live, you can minimize risk of pregnancy. But, imo, worrying about whether there's an errant egg floating around in her fallopian tubes is probably a worse moment-killer than condoms. And going nuts everytime your girlfriend has a late period will not do a whole lot to fuel the romance.
Just wear a condom. It doesn't feel as good, but the lack of babies will be well worth it.
Also, forgot to mention that the "morning after" pills seriously screw up her metabolism. Doctors here advice not using it more than twice a year so that may not be the right solution.
On October 25 2006 10:23 Tadzio00 wrote: If she won't take the pill and you won't use a condom, your options are the morning after pill, vasectomy, and avoiding vaginal sex. The pull out method is not a good way to avoid pregnancy. One of my college pals had to get an abortion because of that strategy.
As far as I understand it, there's only a few days per ovulation cycle a woman can get pregnant, and spermatozoa doesn't live very long, so if you can predict when your girlfriend can get pregnant as well as how long your sperm will live, you can minimize risk of pregnancy. But, imo, worrying about whether there's an errant egg floating around in her fallopian tubes is probably a worse moment-killer than condoms. And going nuts everytime your girlfriend has a late period will not do a whole lot to fuel the romance.
Just wear a condom. It doesn't feel as good, but the lack of babies will be well worth it.
yea, you could try that whole menstrual cycle thing. theres a decent amount of people who do. its certainly not fool proof. and like he said, you def dont wanna have to think in the heat of the momemnt ....'shit, what day in your cycle are you hunny?' youre gonna end up in the bathroom with blueballs doin that shit.
also, guy mentioned about morning after. horrible for a girls body. im pretty sure its not more then like 2 or 3 times in a life time.
those pills for men don't work, latest results weren't that great so they are not on the market (yet?) My wife has tried a lot of things but all of those things involving hormones got her into emotional depressions. So she tried several pills, vaginal rings and a new line of spirals (dont know how there called in english, but its a thing thats placed inside of the womb) All of that didn't work out. So we got stuck on the condoms, wich means that sooner or later the self-control to put in on in time is going to lack, and new life can be expected (we've got a son and a daughter allready, so that isn't really a problem, lol) It's this factor that worries me the most, we use the ultra-thin thingies... nothing wrong with the gameplay as far as I'm concerned I'm thinking about sterillizing myself once number three appeares, condomfree sex for the rest of my life --> looking forward to it
I dunno. I find the thought of knocking-up the girl I'm currently inside to be more of a buzz-kill than a thin layer of latex on my willy.
I had a girlfriend once who has dead-set against condoms. She used birth control but still ended up getting pregnant in the long run. Don't be a moron =p
I would suggest asking her to start taking the pill. If she dosn't want to, then stick to the condoms. There are great ones out now adays that make it feel just like going without one. And i definatly know what your going through, my GF and I havn't used condoms for little over 7 months now. But we trust each other completely.
Trust me man, there is nothing worse then your first "OMG, I"M PREGNANT!" scare.
On October 25 2006 10:47 Lord)Lw( wrote: Trust me man, there is nothing worse then your first "OMG, I"M PREGNANT!" scare.
oh yea. i remember the one i had. god that sucked.
my friend had it worse. his condom just broke inside his gf at a party at his house. later that night when he told us, every time someone saw him, theyd ask him what hes going to name his son. we called him dad for the rest of the week til she got the pill and was over with it.
On October 25 2006 10:44 GoChannes wrote: those pills for men don't work, latest results weren't that great so they are not on the market (yet?) My wife has tried a lot of things but all of those things involving hormones got her into emotional depressions. So she tried several pills, vaginal rings and a new line of spirals (dont know how there called in english, but its a thing thats placed inside of the womb) All of that didn't work out. So we got stuck on the condoms, wich means that sooner or later the self-control to put in on in time is going to lack, and new life can be expected (we've got a son and a daughter allready, so that isn't really a problem, lol) It's this factor that worries me the most, we use the ultra-thin thingies... nothing wrong with the gameplay as far as I'm concerned I'm thinking about sterillizing myself once number three appeares, condomfree sex for the rest of my life --> looking forward to it
Im not sure if it's a pill or a recurring shot you have to get by a doctor, but it's available in sweden and totally eliminates your sperm production.
On October 25 2006 10:51 ))(())(( wrote: [removed quote within quote]
oh yea. i remember the one i had. god that sucked.
my friend had it worse. his condom just broke inside his gf at a party at his house. later that night when he told us, every time someone saw him, theyd ask him what hes going to name his son. we called him dad for the rest of the week til she got the pill and was over with it.
Ya i think most of tl.net remembers my first time with a women. I came on after with a topic of "OMG LOST MY VIRGINITY AND THE CONDOM BROKE" Or something like that. Gave everyone a couple of laughs.
Seriously man, use the condom, ask yourself it its worth ruining your life and be a father at the age of 20, just cause you enjoy sex without condom more.... ?
On October 25 2006 11:12 meRz wrote: Seriously man, use the condom, ask yourself it its worth ruining your life and be a father at the age of 20, just cause you enjoy sex without condom more.... ?
To be an asshole but be telling the truth.. I know some girls have a hard time getting pregnant. A married couple I knew had to try for months and couldn't get pregnant so it depends.
But yes, do use a condom cuz a baby is a far more of a turn off. I never listen to my own advice but that's why I am in the rut I am. Mmm Love.
On October 25 2006 11:08 TeCh)PsylO wrote: A few months ago I got clipped. It was well worth it
yea, but i assume youre older and married too =p. what if he does that and ends up not marrying this girl? or if does marry he and wants kids? then its extra $$ to extract sperm from you and.....just got visions of how thats done. dont wanna go on.
Afaik condoms have 0% chance of failure, not 15%. Unless they break, or are used improperly (though this is noticeable). That friend I was talking about said that they're 98% sure, and the 2% is because they sometimes break. :/
girls can get a pill injected in their arm that prevents them from becoming pregnant with over 99% effectiveness for periods of 1-3 years whatever they want
without condom is better for sure, but without birthcontrol would be wayy to risky for me.. there is something you can get (at a doctor) 1-2 days after you had unprotected sex and the girl wont get pregnant.
Fucking with a condom on is like wearing a shirt on your penis. I say just reason with her on the whole birth control pill thing, hell even if you fuck with a condom on it can break. I say pills>condom condom or pills > baby and then condom and pills > baby. Its more or less comfortability.
On October 25 2006 11:49 Rekrul wrote: girls can get a pill injected in their arm that prevents them from becoming pregnant with over 99% effectiveness for periods of 1-3 years whatever they want
] They get a pill injected or liquid injected, I don't follow. Never heard of it either. Don't they also make patches or something that look like nicotine patches.
ok seriously though, I hate using condoms as much as everyone else. I hate the nose of ripping them open and it just kills the moment, but think of it this way:
What's more of a mood killer? The drag of grabbing a condom of the sound of your girlfriend calling you to say she's pregnant?
On October 25 2006 12:06 to miss the mark wrote: put it in her butt.
ok seriously though, I hate using condoms as much as everyone else. I hate the nose of ripping them open and it just kills the moment, but think of it this way:
What's more of a mood killer? The drag of grabbing a condom of the sound of your girlfriend calling you to say she's pregnant?
the sound of my foot connecting with the back of her head as she falls down the stairs, booyah!
On October 25 2006 12:06 to miss the mark wrote: What's more of a mood killer? The drag of grabbing a condom of the sound of your girlfriend calling you to say she's pregnant?
Helpful information for use of condoms: (I didn't read the rest of the thread, because I assume it is filled with idiocy).
Before you put on the condom, lube up the head of your penis. Then put the condom on. It will stay because you haven't lubed the shaft. If it doesn't stay, you used too much lube.
This really increases the sensitivity of condom intercourse.
just think of the fun you could have with aids thought. spreading it around to the unsuspecting. running up to random girls, hit and then when youre done, 'GUESS WHAT?!!?!?!?'
On October 25 2006 11:49 Rekrul wrote: girls can get a pill injected in their arm that prevents them from becoming pregnant with over 99% effectiveness for periods of 1-3 years whatever they want
I know somebody who uses this and at least the one she uses works for half a year.
yup condoms sux kinda ~_~. I dont use condoms since my gf takes those pills, but without them i would be really scared because of that "new life". men speak with her about those pills, its not that hard to take 1 pill every day, or she can try injections, i think its 1 injection for 3 months and np .
On October 25 2006 12:28 DuSkie wrote: yup condoms sux kinda ~_~. I dont use condoms since my gf takes those pills, but without them i would be really scared because of that "new life". men speak with her about those pills, its not that hard to take 1 pill every day, or she can try injections, i think its 1 injection for 3 months and np .
Or you could get a vasectomy. Snip snip and you're set for life!
I haven't had sex using a condom for quite some time, but anyway, I don't mind using one that much, I mean, better than getting her pregnant. Yes, it does kill some of the fun, and extremely passionate sex is kinda impossible with a break in between.
And yes, condoms are pregnant, the pill is great, but I don't know how expensive those are.
I've heard about a decend amount of girl using spirals and all of them thought they were great, not only are they really safe, but they also improved their mentrual cycle (right words??). It made it more constant, so to speak. So basically I'm spirals FTW. And get over your condom problem.
On October 25 2006 12:36 Fedaykin wrote: I haven't had sex using a condom for quite some time, but anyway, I don't mind using one that much, I mean, better than getting her pregnant. Yes, it does kill some of the fun, and extremely passionate sex is kinda impossible with a break in between.
And yes, condoms are pregnant, the pill is great, but I don't know how expensive those are.
I've heard about a decend amount of girl using spirals and all of them thought they were great, not only are they really safe, but they also improved their mentrual cycle (right words??). It made it more constant, so to speak. So basically I'm spirals FTW. And get over your condom problem.
spirals arent that safe the ring is better in this case damn i cant promote it enough
when you are pissing, in midstream, stop your piss. The muscle responsible for doing this is can also be used to keep you from ejaculating. You can practicing this whenever you are pissing. Hold your piss 3 sets of 10 each time you piss. After a few weeks, your muscle will be pretty strong enough to hold in an ejaculation.
before doing this, u'll want to practice via masturbation to know when the zone is. Each time you hold an ejaculation, u still feel great like you really did c_m, it's just that no semen comes out so you can "ejaculate" as many times as you want. Each one gets better than the last too. u'll feal really good.
Also, i heard something about China company coming out with a liquid condom. It's like a bubbly cream thing that you put on your dick which prevents the sperm from doing what it should do. It saw an ad once but it was in Chinese and I couldn't read specifics.
Yes. before you ejaculate your main load, your dick will ejaculates like, a pre-main load that has sperm in it that can impregnate your chick, ESPECAILLY if she's hot, young, without money, and if her parents will kill you.
On October 25 2006 10:17 HiTexas wrote: Birth control pills are very safe (99,9% or somethg), but a few girls cant use them for med. reasons. Condoms are very safe too. loop/coil is usually pretty safe too, but depends on the girl if she likes it, if its worth it. etc I dont know any girl using a diaphragm and i dont know if its safe. i think it has some kind of sperm-killing liquid, but really not sure.
sometimes it doesnt matter if you dont cum inside of her = Russian roulette par excellence Never had Biology? The risk of getting pregnant when having sex without any protection is far above zero, you think its worth the risk? I dont think so Not talking about HIV and such stuff.
read all my post you fucking nothing. I dont like being teached stuff I already mentioned as a problem.
And Rekrul yeah, it's the same stuff as in pills but it's a probe in the arm instead. My ex had one, but then again she gained weight, got emo and had less intrest for sex =/
I am not going for some kind of threatment myself, then i'd rather stick with condoms. Thanks for all replys btw.
Also, I dont have sex 2-3 times a week with my girlfriends. Never heard of that low sex rate amoung 20 year olds
On October 25 2006 12:00 RightCoast wrote: Fucking with a condom on is like wearing a shirt on your penis. I say just reason with her on the whole birth control pill thing, hell even if you fuck with a condom on it can break. I say pills>condom condom or pills > baby and then condom and pills > baby. Its more or less comfortability.
ya, pill condom and baby is like T>Z>P>T. humans beat the aliens and aliens beat the cyborgs and cyborgs beat the humans, or rather: Pill>condom>baby>pill. IMBA
On October 25 2006 13:13 Eagleheart wrote: What I wonder is why she doesn't want to eat the pill? Are you guys really young or something?
I am 20 she is 21.
She's whitout doubt the most beutiful girl ever for me. She's very good looking actually and she don't want to gain a single pound. Also I have very bad experiences from it as I explained in posts above
My fiance is on BC thankfully, but I've been through the whole condom thing before. I hate them with a passion. The only upside of it (being that I'm in a stable/trusting relationship and don't really need to worry about STD's) for me was also part of what I hated. Sensitivity generally goes down with them on, so if you don't have super-penile control down, you last a bit longer. But, it just feels so much better without having that damned latex shield inbetween eachother.
However, if I weren't in a lasting relationship I would definitely use them. Don't be stupid and risk pregnancy/disease just for some inconviences. If it really bothers you that much, splurge a little and get some of the realllllly thin (but, durable!) type. They've got more than just the bulky/novelty condoms you see in your local department store. Look for those if you can afford it and care that much. But, definitely use condoms, no matter how much of a pain. Don't be retarded. Please.
On October 25 2006 13:03 IIICodeIIIIIII wrote: guys can have multiple organisms too.
when you are pissing, in midstream, stop your piss. The muscle responsible for doing this is can also be used to keep you from ejaculating. You can practicing this whenever you are pissing. Hold your piss 3 sets of 10 each time you piss. After a few weeks, your muscle will be pretty strong enough to hold in an ejaculation.
before doing this, u'll want to practice via masturbation to know when the zone is. Each time you hold an ejaculation, u still feel great like you really did c_m, it's just that no semen comes out so you can "ejaculate" as many times as you want. Each one gets better than the last too. u'll feal really good.
Also, i heard something about China company coming out with a liquid condom. It's like a bubbly cream thing that you put on your dick which prevents the sperm from doing what it should do. It saw an ad once but it was in Chinese and I couldn't read specifics.
Yes. before you ejaculate your main load, your dick will ejaculates like, a pre-main load that has sperm in it that can impregnate your chick, ESPECAILLY if she's hot, young, without money, and if her parents will kill you.
you can do this manually too by holding that spot at the bottom of your penis but it really makes sex unnatural
Disease is not risk at all I garantee that. I test myself after every new partner it cost no money and takes little time.
She's also tested, I know this for sure. Also, she was very hard to get, three weeks working together, sleeping in the same bed very often, kissing, fooling around etc and the last week oralsex etc aswell (she was so great I did not know i liked heads that much) but she waited until she trusted me
On October 25 2006 13:03 IIICodeIIIIIII wrote: guys can have multiple organisms too.
when you are pissing, in midstream, stop your piss. The muscle responsible for doing this is can also be used to keep you from ejaculating. You can practicing this whenever you are pissing. Hold your piss 3 sets of 10 each time you piss. After a few weeks, your muscle will be pretty strong enough to hold in an ejaculation.
before doing this, u'll want to practice via masturbation to know when the zone is. Each time you hold an ejaculation, u still feel great like you really did c_m, it's just that no semen comes out so you can "ejaculate" as many times as you want. Each one gets better than the last too. u'll feal really good.
Also, i heard something about China company coming out with a liquid condom. It's like a bubbly cream thing that you put on your dick which prevents the sperm from doing what it should do. It saw an ad once but it was in Chinese and I couldn't read specifics.
Yes. before you ejaculate your main load, your dick will ejaculates like, a pre-main load that has sperm in it that can impregnate your chick, ESPECAILLY if she's hot, young, without money, and if her parents will kill you.
whatch out for pre cum fuckin shit will have her shittin out a spittin image of you in 9 months but if you pull out every time you should be ok.. what about sarran wrap and a rubber band?
if you're not gonna be safe, dont do it. you're gonna ruin her life and you'd have to live with it. it can still be romantic even if yooh stop to put on a condom really. just have it close by. a lot of people use the method of taking it out just before yooh cum but pre-ejaculation still has some sperm in it (as others vaguely said) so its not exactly reliable either.
do what yooh think is right and remember: SEX CAN WAIT, MASTURBATE! It only takes one.
sex is like basketball, you dribble before you shoot
condoms suck but if she won't get pilled/patched/ringed/shot up then you are SOL nigga put on that condom unless you want the bitch pregnant, which she will be, sooner or later, and god knows we dont need more stupid people
On October 25 2006 11:49 Rekrul wrote: girls can get a pill injected in their arm that prevents them from becoming pregnant with over 99% effectiveness for periods of 1-3 years whatever they want
I usually do not have sex unless I have both a condom and my girlfriend is on the pill. Both at the same time for ultimate protection. Rarely I will not use a condom when she is on the pill, but still gotta pull out.
On October 25 2006 20:57 gLyo wrote: I usually do not have sex unless I have both a condom and my girlfriend is on the pill. Both at the same time for ultimate protection. Rarely I will not use a condom when she is on the pill, but still gotta pull out.
I am paranoid as fuck.
you ARE paranoid
you should try it without the condom man i swear you'll never go back
@ OP you should try out durex extra sensitive they are the best that ive tried so far (kimono microthins are too small & smell bad, trojans are like fucking a plastic bag)
On October 25 2006 21:00 lil.sis wrote: you should try it without the condom man i swear you'll never go back
this is nature's trick to get you to have babies when you do this rember you are being played by mother nature. much like scanning and seeing only 3 sunks, so you go all-in with mnm. then 3 groups of speedlings come from behind and down his ramp! GG. YOU GOT PLAYED.
On October 25 2006 21:18 mnm wrote: i wish birth control pills led to weight gain.. or any .. heck do they actually have weight gaining pills?
Well birth control pills have hormones, which kind of slowly fuck up your metabolism, thus the weight gain. It's a medical fact. However, if you want to gain weight, try it the natural way. Just go with higher calory foods (preferably healthy foods). Don't get pills, natural is hot!
Also, "morning after" pills are actually a form of really-concentrated birth control pills. One morning after dose contains about a month of hormones that regular b.c.pills dish out every day, for a month. The sudden overdose kills your egg quite fast, but needless to say, screws with your metabolism a lot harder than b.c.pills. So yeah, it has a hard effect on girls.
On October 25 2006 21:41 Silver wrote: [removed quote within quote]
this is nature's trick to get you to have babies when you do this rember you are being played by mother nature. much like scanning and seeing only 3 sunks, so you go all-in with mnm. then 3 groups of speedlings come from behind and down his ramp! GG. YOU GOT PLAYED.
On October 25 2006 13:34 oj- wrote: whatch out for pre cum fuckin shit will have her shittin out a spittin image of you in 9 months but if you pull out every time you should be ok.. what about sarran wrap and a rubber band?
That's gotta be the funniest thing i've ever read.
doing it without a dom and without birth control is just fucking stupid. you're fucking stupid for doing it, period. if u EVER happen to do that (drunk, in moment, whatever), i'd seriously advise you to make her take the morning after pill. fuck the side effects, it's not worth having to have the grief of abortion, etc. second option is to just convince her to go on birth control.
i dont know why you'd say you know the risks, yet you want to blatantly ignore them. you precum plenty, and it contains cum. even if the chance is 1%, it's still 1%.. you want 0% chance. don't try and rationalise this as being an ignorable risk. because she'll fall pregnant n u'll be all like "omg cant believe that happened! what was i thinking?"
On October 25 2006 13:26 Patriot.dlk wrote: Hehe we are not ghetto white trash. And abortions are free. However we have agreed to keep the child if we get one, simply to beutiful to perish
1) you fuck her with no birth control; want to continue doing so 2) you don't want a child 3) you will keep a child if she falls pregnant
all we can assume from this is that you're an idiot. but hey, at least you're romantic
On October 25 2006 13:26 Patriot.dlk wrote: Hehe we are not ghetto white trash. And abortions are free. However we have agreed to keep the child if we get one, simply to beutiful to perish
1) you fuck her with no birth control; want to continue doing so 2) you don't want a child 3) you will keep a child if she falls pregnant
all we can assume from this is that you're an idiot. but hey, at least you're romantic
lmao shaun - I actually havent used a condom for the past mm 3 months now and nothing happened perhaps the chances arent that high...
I am living proof that pulling out is an effective method of birth control. I had one gf for two years and i used like 2 condoms the whole time and she never got pregnant. Every time we did it i'd just pull out and bust all over the place or just in my hand for easy cleanup. Same thing with my gf now who i've been with for over a year now. maybe its just my luck...or im just pro. but ill go ahead and agree with most other people and suggest ultra-thin durex's.
On October 25 2006 23:52 hops wrote: I am living proof that pulling out is an effective method of birth control. I had one gf for two years and i used like 2 condoms the whole time and she never got pregnant. Every time we did it i'd just pull out and bust all over the place or just in my hand for easy cleanup. Same thing with my gf now who i've been with for over a year now. maybe its just my luck...or im just pro. but ill go ahead and agree with most other people and suggest ultra-thin durex's.
On October 25 2006 13:26 Patriot.dlk wrote: Hehe we are not ghetto white trash. And abortions are free. However we have agreed to keep the child if we get one, simply to beutiful to perish
OMG, you've been together for what... like 3 weeks, and you've already had 'the baby talk', you scare me dude
Altough with the whole non-condom thing it may have been more natural to come up so soon. However, you don't want a child when you're 21, seriously, live your own life first before you start to make a new one (the new one would be the kid)
On October 25 2006 13:26 Patriot.dlk wrote: Hehe we are not ghetto white trash. And abortions are free. However we have agreed to keep the child if we get one, simply to beutiful to perish
1) you fuck her with no birth control; want to continue doing so 2) you don't want a child 3) you will keep a child if she falls pregnant
all we can assume from this is that you're an idiot. but hey, at least you're romantic
lmao shaun - I actually havent used a condom for the past mm 3 months now and nothing happened perhaps the chances arent that high...
I think ppl should always use a condom the firste time... actually all the first times, for that matter.
Anyways, i'm not a fan of condoms neither, I don't think they feel very comfortable, even though alot of ppl says, they don't feel different, well they do imo...
btw, others than me who failed to put it on the first time they were with a girl? it sucked, and I didn't give any sex that day. So I started practiceing on my own
On October 25 2006 13:22 Patriot.dlk wrote:but she waited until she trusted me
im sure she's delighted that you posted your problem on this forum =].
anyway, i dont get how the fuck a topic like this can get so many replies.
bottom line is that there is ALWAYS a risk when fucking without condom (if shes not on the pill or other birth control (and even then, there is a tiny risk)). ALWAYS. no matter how the fuck you do it.
use a fucking condom. its hilarious that you already talked about if you guys got 'unlucky', youve known her for like 3 weeks? that is without doubt some of the dumbest shit ive heard in a while. think about it man. in 6 months you could lose all interest in her, or she could lose all interest in you. then she could be 6 months pregnant. nice. real nice.
my cousin knocked up his girlfriend (they hadnt been together very long, like a year), and when the baby comes, he finds out she has different mental issues. they just bought a house and car together. now they cant even talk to each other anymore, and he sees his kid every other weekend. wee, nice! that shit could happen to you too.
its obvious you havent thought about this more than half an hour. you know what you must do, everything else is just plain irresponsible and stupid.
Condoms suck... I can't even cum with a condom on...
So maybe get a condom and go on for hours. Get her nice and sore and chapped... Then she'll complain that it takes you so long, then say it's because of the stupid condom and she should go on the pill.
get her the fuckin 3 month implant, shows commitment + better than the pill. i swear women never remember that shit about taking it at the right time... ever.
Patriot is on the run, notice he's got no condom on ppl, he goes for the shot, aims, shoots and ... YEEEEEEEAH, WE GOT A SCORE Tl.net members, expect a new member in 9 months!!!
1) Get your girlfriend on birth control (mine's on Depo). Weigh the side effects: some girls are allergic to the pill, some cause weight gain, some cause spotting, etc. 2) If 1 fails, wear a fucking condom, idiot. Or just wear one anyway to be safe.
This thread is full of misinformation regarding pregnancy. You horny clueless teenage fucks are going to wreck your lives if you don't do some serious research.
It isn't only your life and your girl's that you are making decisions about here. When you flirt with the risk of pregnancy, you are making choices that affect another potential life as well. This is a really comprehensive article from a credible source that talks about all forms of birth control, how effective they are, and where to get them. Please make informed, responsible decisions.
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Not talking about HIV and such stuff.
