EPTOn June 28 2016 02:05 IgnE wrote:
I think the moral of the story is that Irish chicks are all drunken bimbos.
I think the moral of the story is that Irish chicks are all drunken bimbos.
I've been to Ireland. There are no bimbos. Only drunken girls.
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Godwrath
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I've been to Ireland. There are no bimbos. Only drunken girls. | ||
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DickMcFanny
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On June 28 2016 02:05 IgnE wrote: I think the moral of the story is that Irish chicks are all drunken bimbos. That's not what I wanted to imply at all. They dress in a fashion that foreigners often wouldn't consider out of place at a brothel, but that's just a culture thing. Like how a Saudi man must feel when he comes to Germany, seeing exposed forearms and tight pants. That's how I feel when I can look into a girl's colon from across the room on a winter's day. Conversation I had with a Spanish colleague when she took me out on my first weekend in Ireland: She: Just talk to others foreigners. Me: How will I know who the foreigners are? She: They're the ones who wear pants. That's not to say they behave like prostitutes, they just like showing off a boob or two. I'm not the kind of dude who sleeps with drunk girls, but if you are, Ireland will make you very happy. | ||
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Obviously I can't just pick up the pace and say something to her along the lines of "hey, you have a nice behind, can I get your number?". Because while true and definitely on my mind, that would be creepy as fuck. She definitely knows this, as almost immediately, she darts into a coffee shop. I follow. I see she's has some pretty blue eyes, and I comment about that to break the ice. I introduce myself, and get her name almost immediately. I offer to buy her coffee and we chat for a couple more minutes and I find out she is single before I get her number and then put forward the idea of going for dinner one night this week. I text her so she has my number, and get a response immediately with a smiley face at the end. I'm not some super good looking guy. Yea I'm 6 ft 3, and maybe she has a thing for taller guys, but I'm definitely not in the best shape. I work in service at a car dealership, and was in my work uniform at the time, all sweaty and smelly and dirty at the time. I was walking home because I don't own a car (although I own all the tools to do pretty much any repair, and have the knowledge at my fingertips if not already in my head, I'd rather just rent as I need it and cab/uber/bus wherever because if I go out, I tend to drink at the same time). This is probably not going to turn into anything in the long term. I'm not foolish enough to think so. I'm sure it'll be fun while it lasts. I have zero expectations, so I wouldn't be disappointed if we never meet up. But this is just one of those times that really shows that it really is the woman in the driver's seat in most cases. If she didn't give me an opportunity, I would have just assumed she was a bit of a tease and just enjoyed the show while it lasted, and went on my way without ever really thinking about it again. I didn't make this happen, she did. | ||
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Before you feel the conversation is totally dead just ask. It's better than beating a dead horse. | ||
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Uldridge
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Don't be too discouraged too quickly dude, you have to give it time; I'm sure you'll have better luck/better "game" before you realise it. | ||
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On June 28 2016 05:18 DickMcFanny wrote: That's not what I wanted to imply at all. They dress in a fashion that foreigners often wouldn't consider out of place at a brothel, but that's just a culture thing. Like how a Saudi man must feel when he comes to Germany, seeing exposed forearms and tight pants. That's how I feel when I can look into a girl's colon from across the room on a winter's day. This is sooo true. I love Ireland to death, and I visit at least once a year. But sometimes it seems there are no clothes to bridge the gap between sweatpants and cheap pink dresses available. Same for makeup: Nothing....or ALL of it. xD | ||
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I'm not the kind of dude who sleeps with drunk girls, but if you are, Ireland will make you very happy. Indeed. Also it didn't help that the first group of Irish women i met were on a hen party. Damn that was scary. And good. | ||
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LemOn
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I can't imagine it being much different from Scotland where of course this is the case if you go out on Friday nights - all girls dress like you've described the social norm almost is that when a girl lets you buy her a drink there's almost a 50/50 chance of banging her - you know, because she has manners (As opposed to Prague, where you buy local girls drink after drink and when they've had enough they wave "bye thanks" and return to their boyfriend without blinking an eye  )I've heard This yesterday and even though there's a lot of stuff I disagree with one approach clearly applies in Dirk's case. You need to find an environment with suitable mates. E.g. you don't want drunken sluts then stop going to bars and using Tinder altogether. Instead join one of the more serious sites, either just change your approach towards girls on the street who's way of dressing you like, or if that's not your thing and you don;t want to work on your fears then do something easier and look for social clubs, activity groups and interest circles with potentially suitable mates with advantageous sex ratio (more females to males. I didn't mean Swingers groups ;P) I'd like to see the slut drunk ratio on stuff like meditation and book club groups  here there's sites like internations and meetup.com, I'm sure any larger city in Ireland will have something simmilar | ||
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On June 28 2016 05:01 plasmidghost wrote: Alright I'm just going to message the following to every girl I get matched with: My love for you is like a truck BERSERKER Would you like some making fuck BERSERKER If they get it they're the one Can't see how this can possibly go wrong, if I'm honest. It weeds out all of the not-cool people. | ||
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