Dating: How's your luck? - Page 554

Hey guys, its again me. But i need real advice.

( see http://www.liquidhearth.com/forum/general/273445-dating-hows-your-luck?page=546#10903 )


This will be long. TLDR'er jokes are highly accepted.


If you dont want to read, in the first post i say im trying to move on a new life after breaking up with my 4 years long girl friend because of her cheating, and this time (thanks to my work) im trying with foreigners (non-turkish girls) since they are more friendly and better in many cases! (can explain if you ask what is this, but not our topic now)

I said im trying with strangers, but not only! I made a fresh new beginning with changing my friends and meeting new ones. Former friends were also her friends, so it was so hard for us and them to choose between. And i found a girl, she was my friend with benefits for a while but we stopped fucking, stood only as friends. As our friendship grows, we evolved something into, i dont know, i wont say brothers and sisters because theres still a fuck possibility (we kissed when we were high) but its like so strong, we are planning a life time friendship where we always put each other in to front when deciding about something serious etc. I guess you understood. This girl found me new girls to spend time, have sex, helped me to gain my man-pride back.

Later on, her normal friends i met during partying started to text me after our parties, some of them want to watch a movie, some of them say come to us this night so we can study (we have same studies) and some of them want drink a coffee. Here is the deal, i really dont know what to do.

Option A : There is a girl with a boyfriend. She is 4 age younger than i am. Her boyfriend is 1 age younger to her. She keeps talking with me and making jokes about "maybe i need a grown man like you (sexy whatsapp smile ";P" ) " And those jokes never end.. BUT she really loves his bf, her instagram page is full of with them kissing each other, boy spending time in her house with her mom, even after she tells me she will quit him after meeting him, she uploads pictures with him. And guy quit her this week, she cried really a RIVER till they start again. However, she constantly says guy is a kiddo, has a temper problems, she wants a cool guy, attractive guy (adds like you) and today, she said she went a fortune teller (its common in my culture, young chicks go) and teller described me giving clear info about my personality blabla. And conversation ended her saying maybe i want you. I juked all of this attempts by answering haha thanks, but could not juked the last one. I said im not into relationships but im open to any affairs, like friends with benefits. She changed topic into something different, did not answer this. I know even if i say i want her too, she wont quit her boyfriend and will make me his sugardaddy or shrine to cry. What would you do in such cases? She is damn hot btw, there is nothing sexy with her body, she is so small like minion type body (good butt tho) but there is something sexy with her. She is a GAMER GIRL, and always making jokes about how she can turn on a man BADLY if she wants. Its tempting me.

Option B: There is a Moroccan girl, i met while walking in the streets, she was asking the way but i could not help myself looking her tits lol. However, i said im going to same direction and walked with her, she gave me her number saying im the only dude who can speak english in the city (lel no) and maybe i can help more from times to times so she wont have any "culture shock" problems. She is planning to move Istanbul, right now she is in her country, our time together was awesome, she is an it in her country but planning to start teaching career in turkey and maybe modelling after that! But there is of course BUTS! First, she will have no money, no job when she comes. And expects me to help her! Before her departure, we were like almost having sex, we did not because she said she is VIRGIN. Said to myself WHAT THE FUCK! And she is serious about that, ISLAMIC WORLD! However, this brings so many problems, she started to ask questions such: would you come to my country and ask for my hand (ask my parents to potential marriage, like religious allow to spend time with ones daughter) and will you think about marriage again in future? PEFFFFFS, everything is good with her, she is ultra FEMALE, great in the kitchen, has super sexy body and a great face, tanned skin, charming smile, sexy french voice, sexy arabic, sexy turkish trying, fun to talk, i dont know why but i feel she respects me, listening me always, and believe what i say most of the times, she is like our grandmothers you know. Remember how they act to our grandpas! This is how i describe her. In every chance, im trying to convert her in a less conservative human, she wants to have sex but she says she will die if i leave her and she is not a young girl! This is so strange. 9 days after, she is coming back, i promised her to help about finding a job (almost find one) and a cheap flat. (almost find it too) But im not that rich, i recently bought a house and still paying its credits. This is a problem. I can seize in her attitudes, she puts me in a husband role due to her culture, i cant afford feeding two human being, when im always hungry, the fuck !

Option 3: And there is this bitch. After cheating, i guess the guy dumped her, even if she says she quit. Texting me 7/24 since 2 weeks, saying she cant sleep in her bed, some pillows smell like me still, there are memories everywhere in the house (we lived together for 2 years) and she dies for our sex. Her new guy was shit etc, never had a good sex since 9 months! She says she will make everything better, she will cure me, repair our relation, and everything will be really really better than ever, this time we are really making plans for marriage, she will wait until i fix my economy and go France with her to finish her masters together. She says even if i dont want to marry with her, she will be with me for at least 4 more years and she wont cheat on me again, that was a fault, she regrets every moment of that, everything she told me during her betrayal were typed with anger, and under affection of being in an another country with no happiness and money. BUT, i did not stop loving her just because she slept with another dude. I would do the same, but i would not leave her for being with a random girl. I would say sorry and never risk losing her. What she has done? She simply dumped me without saying sorry and i asked, is it worth to do this, you have only 1.5 month left in that country, she said yeah this happiness worth dumping you, im not gonna say sorry, i love him. This is why i dont want to be with her again. But there is something deep inside, saying that i should just check, how she acts, a better lover, or a bitch. However, being with her means i leave all the other options aside. And i leave my close friend that i mentioned above, she hates her. Simply, i will be imprisoned and im not the same guy. Half of me hates her so bad. The other half is only weak to her, it cant be the same love [when im planning how i would fuck her but not sex - see difference] and of course i dont want to have any serious relation.
I really need advice about what to do. Im not good about deciding, i dont have any close male friends, they all left the city, and 2014, finding a bro soo hard pals. This is why i kept long. Respect incoming answers, peace out!