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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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Chaosu
Poland404 Posts
On January 16 2014 19:02 Shotcoder wrote: So is it weird to talk to and want to date a girl not because she's physically attractive or your type but because you find her "intriguing" for a lack of a better term? Idk what it is honestly. You're growing up? | ||
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Calanthe
United States141 Posts
On January 16 2014 19:02 Shotcoder wrote: So is it weird to talk to and want to date a girl not because she's physically attractive or your type but because you find her "intriguing" for a lack of a better term? Idk what it is honestly. Not weird at all. | ||
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
On January 16 2014 19:02 Shotcoder wrote: So is it weird to talk to and want to date a girl not because she's physically attractive or your type but because you find her "intriguing" for a lack of a better term? Idk what it is honestly. Whatever floats your boat bro. People overthink shit, if you wanna see her just give it a shot. | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
On January 16 2014 19:02 Shotcoder wrote: So is it weird to talk to and want to date a girl not because she's physically attractive or your type but because you find her "intriguing" for a lack of a better term? Idk what it is honestly. Just hit it doggy style so you don't have to look at her when you're slamming her like a screen door in a hurricane. | ||
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Monsen
Germany2548 Posts
On January 16 2014 18:34 Erik.TheRed wrote: Because nothing solves marital issues like a little assault here and there, right? Granted, the husband sounds like a bonehead for beating up a random dude, but that doesn't make what sixstrings did any better if he knew about the situation (her being married). I mean come on, you're just asking for trouble at that point. I really wonder how Romanians deal with that problem. | ||
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IAmWithStupid
Russian Federation1016 Posts
On my way home I'm sitting in a nearly empty train and a cute girls comes to me and asks if the seat next to me is free. I say "yes". I've always wanted to try out this very cheesy and nerdy pick-up line. So I ask: -"Excuse me, do you consist of beryllium, gold and titanium?" = "wow, no, I don't know... Why are you asking?" - "Because you are beautiful!" And she did not only understand this joke, but laughed at it and blushed. After a nice conversation I sealed the deal asking for her number. I explained the situation with my phone, said that she had to go old fashioned way and write down her number on a piece of paper. I had only my resume with me, so I gave her a pen and the blank side of my CV. She turned it around, glanced at it and wrote her number bias my CV. The problem is I forgot her name, because my brain was washed out during the interview. I'm so terrible at this dating stuff... | ||
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pyrogenetix
China5094 Posts
On January 15 2014 17:14 MightyBill wrote: On cheating girls I do have a funny story. About 7 years ago I was banging a girl on a regular basis for like 2 months. So we were enjoying ourselves when suddenly she got a phone call which she answered, after which she said "you got to leave now, my boyfriend is coming over in 10 minutes". So my reaction was more along the lives of "what the fuck you have a boyfriend?". Anyway she went to have a quick shower after she shoved me out of her room (in a big student house). I couldn't really think straight for my next plan of action, because about 5 minutes before I was happily exercising my carnal lusts, so I went to the toilet to call a buddy for advise, like should I wait for the guy and tell him? Or just walk away? His advice was pretty golden: "don't be a white Knight, you'll just get punched. Just steal something that is hers, she'll never dare to call you again anyway!" So I took her toasti maker from the kitchen. And believe me, the tosti's still taste good  Wtf that is insane. Reminds me of my story. Not as crazy but still pretty good I think. So I was in a really shitty mood and went to the bar just to get drunk, but then I make eye contact with this really cute halfie girl, and I have a soft spot for halfies. We start talking and yadda yadda meet all her friends, turns out she's half Swedish and half Chinese and boom I'm a Chinese guy that grew up in Sweden so it all just fell into place. We stay till late then she asks me to go over to her place. It's all dark and we were both drunk so I didn't really pay much attention to her living room and we stumbled straight into her room. It was so damn messy. I think I'm a pretty messy guy but damn she had fuckin everything on her floor. Packets of instant oatmeal, tampons, vitamin C pills, pens, bandages, books, candy everything. This freaks me out a little but whatever I have other things on my mind. We bang. Hard. So hard the bedsheets came off and the thinner mattress thingy slid down to the floor. Afterwards I went to the toilet to wash my dick and came back to sleep. The next morning we bang again. Hard. Afterwards I collect myself and see a stack of polaroid photos on her desk with her and some very Swedish looking guy. Turns out that's her boyfriend. I also see that she has a ton of self inflicted cut scars on her left upper arm. I made up some excuse to leave and scooped up my clothes and went to the living room to change. There is a girl sitting on the sofa. I come back into the room. Turns out she has two roommates and they both probably heard us last night and in the morning. I got dressed really quickly and just left. I had pretty mixed feelings about it because I did have fun banging her but felt it was really uncool towards her boyfriend. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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xM(Z
Romania5281 Posts
On January 17 2014 00:03 Monsen wrote: I really wonder how Romanians deal with that problem. first, they beat the crap out of their (ex) women; second, they give that dude a few beers/get him drunk, then kick the shit out of him too. | ||
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
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Orcasgt24
Canada3238 Posts
On January 17 2014 21:49 IAmWithStupid wrote: So yesterday was a pretty crazy day. It all started with battery explosion in my phone. I don't know why, it just happened. Then I had a 6 hour long interview, it was fun but exhausting. On my way home I'm sitting in a nearly empty train and a cute girls comes to me and asks if the seat next to me is free. I say "yes". I've always wanted to try out this very cheesy and nerdy pick-up line. So I ask: -"Excuse me, do you consist of beryllium, gold and titanium?" = "wow, no, I don't know... Why are you asking?" - "Because you are beautiful!" And she did not only understand this joke, but laughed at it and blushed. After a nice conversation I sealed the deal asking for her number. I explained the situation with my phone, said that she had to go old fashioned way and write down her number on a piece of paper. I had only my resume with me, so I gave her a pen and the blank side of my CV. She turned it around, glanced at it and wrote her number bias my CV. The problem is I forgot her name, because my brain was washed out during the interview. I'm so terrible at this dating stuff... You can ask her name again. She wrote the number on a resume so all you have to say is I forget your name because I had a busy day. Other than that A+. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On January 18 2014 08:16 MysteryMeat1 wrote: Ima have to steal that chem pick up line! I'm curious how you would deliver it, do you say B-E-A-U-tiful? (As in from Bruce Almighty) I think that would help with the confusion if they aren't too fond of chemistry. | ||
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APurpleCow
United States1372 Posts
On January 18 2014 08:42 Najda wrote: I'm curious how you would deliver it, do you say B-E-A-U-tiful? (As in from Bruce Almighty) I think that would help with the confusion if they aren't too fond of chemistry. if the girl doesn't get it, you don't want the girl | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
On January 18 2014 11:52 APurpleCow wrote: if the girl doesn't get it, you don't want the girl I wouldn't judge someone for missing a completely out of context chemistry joke like that. | ||
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
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IAmWithStupid
Russian Federation1016 Posts
On January 18 2014 11:52 APurpleCow wrote: if the girl doesn't get it, you don't want the girl Not necessarily. It's kind of a test. If she understands, you can mention other nerdy/scientific stuff. If not, speak about simple things... Later you can send her a text starting with "Hey, BeAuTiful!.." | ||
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maybenexttime
Poland5555 Posts
On January 18 2014 17:29 IAmWithStupid wrote: Not necessarily. It's kind of a test. If she understands, you can mention other nerdy/scientific stuff. If not, speak about simple things... Later you can send her a text starting with "Hey, BeAuTiful!.." But did you say that in Russian and she had to make the connection: Be-Au-Ti -> English = beauty -> back to Russian -> smile?  Or are you currently living outside of RF? | ||
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IAmWithStupid
Russian Federation1016 Posts
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