EPTAside from that, it's unlikely you'll be able to approach her logically to change her mind about it and an emotional argument would have more affect since she likely has more of an emotional attachment.
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
Aside from that, it's unlikely you'll be able to approach her logically to change her mind about it and an emotional argument would have more affect since she likely has more of an emotional attachment. | ||
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frogrubdown
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
My saying here that I hope she flushes out the little bastard is my being polite and understanding to her. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On January 23 2014 02:23 frogrubdown wrote: Based on your posting here overall, you don't seem up to the responsibilities of having a penis. Have you considered setting it aside until you're capable of using it appropriately? Try as I might, he keeps reminding me that he's there. | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32130 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On January 23 2014 02:36 QuanticHawk wrote: oh man i hope that the woman in question is the wife of the dude who kicked your ass Sorry to disappoint. | ||
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Snotling
Germany885 Posts
just show her your post here, she will instantly recognise that you are not father-material. | ||
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Kojak21
Canada1104 Posts
anyways yeeee if ur not gunna use protection, make sure she shares the same views as you on that subject, thought that was common sense | ||
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MightyBill
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On January 23 2014 07:04 Snotling wrote: just sho her your post here, she will instantly recognise that you are not father-material. On our first night together, I puked on her sofa after taking a big swig out of a whisky glass I'd been using as an ashtray the entire night. On a separate occasion, she found me passed out drunk while a fat man (I'm not even bi) tried to jerk off my flaccid wiener. She also makes more money in a month than I do in a year despite being five years younger. I don't think there's any danger of her mistaking me for 'father material'. | ||
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WombaT
Northern Ireland26359 Posts
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farvacola
United States18855 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland26359 Posts
Nah, I'm actually not too bad, also have a kid myself. I just respected my partner, then not-partner, now currently-kind of partner's decision in that regard. I'm not one for big walls of text contextualising things, because when other people do it I don't really get it. Doesn't matter how detailed the synopsis, there are always a lot of things that are intangible to those who don't know you. Shameless Wombat/Minibat picture. + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](https://fbcdn-sphotos-g-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn2/t1/1555533_10151884541591034_1072664688_n.jpg) | ||
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Restrider
Germany129 Posts
On January 23 2014 09:49 SixStrings wrote: On our first night together, I puked on her sofa after taking a big swig out of a whisky glass I'd been using as an ashtray the entire night. On a separate occasion, she found me passed out drunk while a fat man (I'm not even bi) tried to jerk off my flaccid wiener. She also makes more money in a month than I do in a year despite being five years younger. I don't think there's any danger of her mistaking me for 'father material'. With this track record, she should know that she cannot really expect you to provide for her, if she gets the child. | ||
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MightyBill
93 Posts
On January 23 2014 17:55 Restrider wrote: With this track record, she should know that she cannot really expect you to provide for her, if she gets the child. Modern women don't really look for a provider anymore. Just for someone that loves them. | ||
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gedatsu
1286 Posts
On January 23 2014 20:48 MightyBill wrote: Modern women don't really look for a provider anymore. Just for someone that loves them. It is exceedingly common that a man who loses his job, loses his partner shortly afterwards. | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6192 Posts
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rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
Either way, be modern, I personally keep every records of where me and my girlfriend stand on money. When someone pays for something he/she writes it there and it shows the balance, unless specified as a gift. Never had a money conflict in my couple. | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
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