EPTDating: How's your luck? - Page 380
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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hunts
United States2113 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland25310 Posts
Also you know, kids aren't really some sort of curse from satan, they can be rewarding or help focus you in reappraising your life. Not a reason in and of itself to have one ofc | ||
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chadissilent
Canada1187 Posts
On January 24 2014 01:18 Wombat_NI wrote: I don't know how it is in Germany, I'd imagine so judging from my experiences here. Also you know, kids aren't really some sort of curse from satan, they can be rewarding or help focus you in reappraising your life. Not a reason in and of itself to have one ofc Definitely, and my post wasn't a dig at you. Maybe it'll just force 6strings to get his head out of his ass and grow up. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
On January 24 2014 01:06 chadissilent wrote: If she keeps the kid, this is the ultimate form of karma. Wow, teh fuck did I do to you guys to deserve all the gloating? Regardless of that, I'll keep you posted this weekend. | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6181 Posts
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34491 Posts
On January 24 2014 04:04 SixStrings wrote: If this were a romantic movie, people would get teary eyed because I got to make love once last time to the one who got away. If it was a romantic movie the part where you made her call him is terrible writing. | ||
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SixStrings
Germany2046 Posts
'You know what would be hot?'... | ||
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
The entire situation is super scumbaggy and then suggesting she calls her husband is just icing on the douchecake. | ||
white_horse
1019 Posts
-talking to a girl -texting to a girl -facebook private messaging a girl in a way that doesn't make you look like a creep? Or am I second guessing myself and the girls are unresponsive because they simply aren't interested in me as a guy? What if I just wanted to be friends? | ||
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Najda
United States3765 Posts
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Overpowered
Czech Republic764 Posts
I kind of think that people are mad at SixStrings not because he made a dick move, but because they are afraid that something like that could happen to their GFs with a man who has similar moral values. In my book, when a wife cheats, I wouldn't put blame on her lover. He just got an opportunity to get his dick wet. It was ultimately wife's choice to let him do that. And that's why SixString's story is so unsettling - because if that happened to them and they didn't put the blame on him, they would have to blame their precious little snowflake and that would make them sad. It would make me sad too. This whole assumption could be a long shot and it probably is, but I just wanted to say that (unfortunately) women can be scumbags as well. | ||
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Mikau
Netherlands1446 Posts
That doesn't take away from the fact that he came in here to tell (somewhat proudly with head high) that he cheated with her and made her call her husband. Not only that, the wife being to blame doesn't absolve SixStrings from any blame and since the wife isn't here to talk to that only leaves SixStrings left. | ||
rezoacken
Canada2719 Posts
On January 24 2014 05:40 white_horse wrote: What are you supposed to say, and how are you supposed to say things when you are -talking to a girl -texting to a girl -facebook private messaging a girl in a way that doesn't make you look like a creep? Or am I second guessing myself and the girls are unresponsive because they simply aren't interested in me as a guy? What if I just wanted to be friends? Can you be even more vague ? :p Are you texting "Hi what color are your panties" ? | ||
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maybenexttime
Poland5556 Posts
On January 24 2014 05:53 Overpowered wrote: I don't want to say that making the wife call her husband is not a dick move, because it is; but come on guys. This is the wife's fault as well, if not even more so. TL is pretty liberal forum and you guys still somehow can't hold women responsible for their actions and put all the blame on the man. Women are people and thus should be held accountable too. To be honest, I wouldn't be surprised if the wife thought it was hot - at least in the heat of the moment. I kind of think that people are mad at SixStrings not because he made a dick move, but because they are afraid that something like that could happen to their GFs with a man who has similar moral values. In my book, when a wife cheats, I wouldn't put blame on her lover. He just got an opportunity to get his dick wet. It was ultimately wife's choice to let him do that. And that's why SixString's story is so unsettling - because if that happened to them and they didn't put the blame on him, they would have to blame their precious little snowflake and that would make them sad. It would make me sad too. This whole assumption could be a long shot and it probably is, but I just wanted to say that (unfortunately) women can be scumbags as well. Is she posting in this thread or has a TL account? | ||
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NewSunshine
United States5938 Posts
On January 24 2014 04:45 SixStrings wrote: It's not like I put a gun to her head. 'You know what would be hot?'... I don't have a story to tell or anything, but all your posts lately have just made me go 'what the fuck' out loud. Like holy shit. And each of your subsequent posts seem to just make it worse. | ||
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LeeDawg
United States1306 Posts
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WombaT
Northern Ireland25310 Posts
That said, the whole 'call your husband' request kind of goes against the idea that it was some spontaneous, can't resist each other kind of thing. Also @Chad, nono I didn't take it in that way at all don't worry about it. It's a big cliche but kids really can be a blessing, I just don't think it's karmic justice when another life is involved. If he got an STI on the other hand... | ||
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Zooper31
United States5710 Posts
On January 24 2014 04:04 SixStrings wrote: If this were a romantic movie, people would get teary eyed because I got to make love once last time to the one who got away. And then you made her call the guy mid fuck and talk to him like a d-bag. Totally ruined the whole chick flick vibe and made it a bad porno instead. | ||
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