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On October 11 2011 09:30 groms wrote:
Thanks man I feel a little better now.
Edit: Oh to be clear it wasn't like I knew her boss, she was the CEO's daughter and I never met the guy. Also she was only one year younger than me. Sorry, I just realized I wasn't too clear and I think I might have given the impression I was much older than her.
Ah, I wasn't too worried about the age; I was just a bit concerned regarding whether or not your job was at stake! 
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Haha nah it was just a summer job no worries mate :D
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I'm happily married. Then again, I'm awful at starcraft.
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Haven't had much success lately, all the girls like me just none like me like me I used to feel shitty about myself but playing football and lifting coupled with my outgoing nature has made me feel like they're missing out (in a sense.) Whatever happens happens, i'm sure i'll find the girl sometime in the near future
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Go dancing, meet girl, ask her to take a walk with me outside, make out, exchange numbers. Fuck socializing.
Pretty much all I've been doing. I'm not even socially awkward, I just dislike socializing most of the time.
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there is nothing like an overbearing relationship to steer you away from dating. Happily single <3
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the mother of my child, when we first started living together,
used to complain that when I leave the toilet seat up, she would FALL into the toilet ass first as if she just didn't even observe her surroundings.
This happened FREQUENTLY.
We are no longer together, and I've dated a few girls since;
but that was seriously the most RIDICULOUS thing I actually had to worry about living with my gf.
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Another girl I dated for about a week and a half had explained to me on our first get together she had just graduated and was looking for a job as a youth counselor. I found out a week in after waking up in her apartment when she confesses she failed the final exam and is actually working part time at a liquor store.
I also discovered that same day after her first confession that before me she had been sleeping with a friend of mine consistently for about a year but they were never "in a relationship"
At this point I don't really flip out, I just leave casually and even a kiss goodbye.
The next time she called, I ended it with " no I think we're done; good luck, have fun"
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Till next time..
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Currently dating my bf. He's a gamer just like me and it's p awesome.
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i just put on some FFVII tunes, blast it with the windows down, and the girls come to me
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On October 11 2011 13:19 DeadCell wrote:
Another girl I dated for about a week and a half had explained to me on our first get together she had just graduated and was looking for a job as a youth counselor. I found out a week in after waking up in her apartment when she confesses she failed the final exam and is actually working part time at a liquor store.
I also discovered that same day after her first confession that before me she had been sleeping with a friend of mine consistently for about a year but they were never "in a relationship"
At this point I don't really flip out, I just leave casually and even a kiss goodbye.
The next time she called, I ended it with " no I think we're done; good luck, have fun"
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Till next time..
lol'd at the kiss goodbye part
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On October 11 2011 13:26 Endymion wrote:
i just put on some FFVII tunes, blast it with the windows down, and the girls come to me
You must have a bunch of gamer girls for neighbors.
/jealous
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On October 11 2011 13:19 DeadCell wrote:
the mother of my child, when we first started living together,
used to complain that when I leave the toilet seat up, she would FALL into the toilet ass first as if she just didn't even observe her surroundings.
This happened FREQUENTLY.
We are no longer together, and I've dated a few girls since;
but that was seriously the most RIDICULOUS thing I actually had to worry about living with my gf.
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Another girl I dated for about a week and a half had explained to me on our first get together she had just graduated and was looking for a job as a youth counselor. I found out a week in after waking up in her apartment when she confesses she failed the final exam and is actually working part time at a liquor store.
I also discovered that same day after her first confession that before me she had been sleeping with a friend of mine consistently for about a year but they were never "in a relationship"
At this point I don't really flip out, I just leave casually and even a kiss goodbye.
The next time she called, I ended it with " no I think we're done; good luck, have fun"
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Till next time..
Wow, you didn't BM her? You even said gl hf?
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Terrible. Indian immigrants are strict parents, and the kids of Indian immigrants aren't rebellious =_=. (Yes I have brown fever.)
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i met a girl through her friend who liked me. I rejected her friend because i liked this girl, her other freind liked me months later and i rejected her as well. i would cut class during her lunch period to walk around with her. after a year I decided to tell her I had a crush on her. she said stfu stop being an asshole. after an hour she sarcasticly gave in and said OK i believe u! and i said ill take that as a rejection and she said sure if u want to~ few weeks later i hooked up with her best friend at a party because i was tipsy... yea she stopped talking to me. she later said she never liked me back. The sad part is im like in love with her and i dont wanna date anyone but her and it frustrates me so much. I'm 17 and i never had a girlfriend because i spent the last 2 years liking her. Now i shut myself from friends and play starcraft all day yay...
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<rant>
Had a gf for almost 4 years. I nearly tear some ligaments in my knee moving a very heavy desk for her in our apartment. I am currently a senior in college. So I get rushed home to get it looked at by a surgeon and get an mri. While I am at home on bed rest she decides she no longer wants to be with me and hasnt been happy in a while. She calls me up and breaks up with me over the phone. Tells me I have to split the fee to break our lease. Cancelling cable and electric and I need to be out of the apt in 30 days. All of this happening while I am drugged up at home.
This happened 3 weeks ago and It was the best thing that has ever happened to me. I was ready to move to bumblefuck, IL for her and marry her. I now realize that i dodged a bullet. I will now go and enjoy my last semester and never look back. Remember, it could always be worse. :D
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Well, my "luck" with women really depends on how you define luck.
I am real comfortable with women, like to think I am above average looking, and too be honest don't really have trouble attracting women.
Thing is, I either attract the wrong type of women entirely, or am just really really bad at choosing. Part of it is just that I am not really sure what I want, other than I want someone about as smart/attractive as I think I am, and eventually want to start a family.
I've gotten to the point where I am kind of jaded with the whole dating thing, but realistically it is likely my fault. Over the past three years my four relationships went like this: 1) Pretty girl dumb as bricks 2) Really smart girl, overly obsessive 3) Pretty girl, obsessive 4) Down to earth girl, also super obsessive.
The main link there is the obsessive part... so either I choose terribly wrong, or am doing something horribly right to build such an attachment in these girls minds. Three of the four still text me on a bi-weekly basis, and I for the most part ignore it because it is creepy as fuck. It is frustrating for me, because I end up with a bunch of baggage and hurting someone who I didn't need to... not to mention the fact that being stalked is about as weird/annoying as it gets.
At this point, I feel too gun-shy to actually get into a proper relationship because I don't want to have to add another stalker to the list of people I've left heart broken after things didn't quite work out. I dunno, everyone tells me I will know when the right girl comes around, but I worry that by being detatched like I am will make me miss the right girl for me.
-.-
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I've learned firsthand that confidence is what it takes to get a girl. I used to be shy and submissive as fuck, and I actually managed to get a girlfriend... but as I believe someone posted in this thread earlier, bad attracts bad. She ended up being crazy and completely fake, even going as far as faking her emotions throughout our entire relationship. That was about.... 8 months ago. I have a new girlfriend now and things are going pretty well. I've been dating new girl for about 2 months. I met her at a concert... Saw her, thought she was cute, so I talked to her and the rest is history. It's funny because she actually asked me for my number before I could ask for hers, so I must've done something right.
I don't mean to sound sexist, but from what I've noticed, most women are looking for a man who will lead and make decisions. That's where I went wrong with my ex, and it's where I'm going right with my current girlfriend. It's all about being confident, assertive, and directing the relationship.
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On October 11 2011 15:06 iamahydralisk wrote:
I've learned firsthand that confidence is what it takes to get a girl. I used to be shy and submissive as fuck, and I actually managed to get a girlfriend... but as I believe someone posted in this thread earlier, bad attracts bad. She ended up being crazy and completely fake, even going as far as faking her emotions throughout our entire relationship. That was about.... 8 months ago. I have a new girlfriend now and things are going pretty well. I've been dating new girl for about 2 months. I met her at a concert... Saw her, thought she was cute, so I talked to her and the rest is history. It's funny because she actually asked me for my number before I could ask for hers, so I must've done something right.
I don't mean to sound sexist, but from what I've noticed, most women are looking for a man who will lead and make decisions. That's where I went wrong with my ex, and it's where I'm going right with my current girlfriend. It's all about being confident, assertive, and directing the relationship.
Maybe it's less about your confidence and more about the fact that you're a hydralisk.
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The shows all these girls are watching on T.V makes them like this i'm certain; it causes them to have this mind-set and complain about everything( Expecting the Perfect Boyfriend). While at the same time being having the longest lasting grudges that they never let go of.
Obviously not all Girls are like this but i feel like the main cause of this is the brain washing going on TV and movies and shows all the time.
They want to make everyone hate each other and they've done a darn good job at it.
Also to add i think when Women/Girls watch all these shows on TV it also causes and/or makes them become more emotional creatures that expect everything to be served on a plate in-front of them.
Like they are a princess or something.
/End Rant
Wait a bit more i agree with the guy above the post above me.... i find in a Relationship you have to boss your GirlFriend around a bit (Be an asshole sometimes) But not a complete Asshole.
Just be mean enough so that she doesn't turn crazy and become dominant and become the alpha---- per se..
I'm not saying beat your GirlFriend or whatever i just mean Don't let here just push you around like a scrub etc.
Don't take her crap all the time if she's being dumb.. Just try to be reasonable..... Sometimes she might understand and come into reconciliation with you.
OK i've said enough lol
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On October 11 2011 13:19 DeadCell wrote:
the mother of my child, when we first started living together,
used to complain that when I leave the toilet seat up, she would FALL into the toilet ass first as if she just didn't even observe her surroundings.
This happened FREQUENTLY.
I don't ever leave the seat up, but if I found out that anyone I live with frequently fell into the toilet if the seat was left up, I would immediately start doing it.
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