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On October 14 2016 22:22 LegalLord wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:06 Biff The Understudy wrote:On October 14 2016 22:02 a_flayer wrote: Instead of rape, can we talk about Clintons suggestion to build a missile network around China if it doesn't force itself into North Korea? Wait... Building a missile defense system against a nuclearized North Korea sounds like a reasonably good idea to me? Don't think North Korea has good enough missile technology for that to be worth the backlash from countries who aren't too fond of that kind of military buildup. Which is why it was a hypothetical prefaced by "if they continue to develop this missile program and they get an ICBM that has the capacity to carry a small nuclear weapon on it"
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Whoever said that "rape culture" is the #1 important issue in American society is INDEED high off his mind.
There are far more important things than that "issue" such as in no particular ranking
1. Climate change, water level is rising every single year due to ice melting. We must make plans to evacuate people that lives close by and we have to figure out a way to develop the infrastructure of the inner country.
2. Many facilities within the country was at one point pretty high quality but as far as degradation goes, there are many road, bridges, buildings that need a complete revamp.
3. Sustainable energy
4. Making sure that both public and private sectors to come out with long term job and create new sustainable industry that would benefit to EVERYBODY.
5. Education system.
6. Foreign policies.
and that's just on top of my head.
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On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority.
This I agree with wholly.
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On October 14 2016 22:35 LegalLord wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:23 Biff The Understudy wrote: Well anyway, it's something she said once in 2013, is it something she still wants to do, and/or is it relevant? Truth is that current technology for missile defense can do fuck all against any real nuclear threat. An ICBM is notoriously hard to shoot down even under extremely simplified scenarios. It's been compared to hitting a bullet with a bullet, although in the case of Russia, the US, and possibly China, it's like shooting down a bullet that can create fake bullets to throw you off, and that can change trajectories to mess up your targeting, with a bullet. And of course there are thousands of bullets and if all else fails they could just nuke your defense system pretty easily. The entire missile defense issue is more about being provocative than any actual missile defense.
North Korea in this analogy would be using a slingshot.
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On October 14 2016 22:39 Biff The Understudy wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:35 GreenHorizons wrote:On October 14 2016 22:31 Sent. wrote: Why would you build a missile defense system around China or Russia? I can understand surrounding Iran or North Korea with such systems because they're poor as fuck and can't afford to build thousands of missiles but it doesn't seem logical against great/super/mega powers. If I recall correctly missile defense systems aren't cost effective. I think you misread my comment, but remind us how Russia feels about the "defense system" we're installing over there in your neck of the woods? The US - Russia balance of power holds by the Mutual Annihilation doctrine. If you build an anti missile system around them, suddenly the balance changes drastically: the US can annihilate Russia, but Russia can't annihilate the US. That's a historical doctrine that has existed from the cold war. I don't think the US - Chinese relations are based on any such doctrine. And North Korea, well... But again and again, it's probably a terrible idea and it's not in Clinton platform. What's the deal here exactly?
Besides that anyone would know it's a terrible idea before having to be told so (presumably a SoS should be on that list), it's further evidence of her hawkish tendencies. So for people like Plansix who are voting for her with thoughts of their brother not going to war, it's more evidence that it was always a pipe dream.
Also, if you think Hillary's platform accurately represents what she intends to accomplish, then I also have a bridge to sell you.
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On October 14 2016 22:32 Antyee wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:28 TheTenthDoc wrote: If men are bragging about acting sexually towards women without their consent and normalizing at as "locker room talk" you have a huge societal problem.
Whether you call it "rape culture" or "people are shitheads" doesn't matter. It's still a huge fucking problem, and arguing about what to call it won't make it go away. It'll just distract from the real problem. Which is usually what people want to do when they start complaining about people calling things rape culture. Trump has taken the biggest nosedive of his polling because of it. It doesn't seem to be too much of an issue since people have been denouncing him for it and noone apart from the biggest nutjobs tried to make up excuses for him.
I think at least 10% of the country believes it's perfectly fine for him to talk as he did as long as it's "locker room talk" (which has nothing to do with locker rooms and everything to do with men talking to men). What percent are we okay with believing that? If one in 10 people believe it's acceptable to decide to "move on" married women when they've shown zero signs of consent...as long as you only talk about it later with only guys and take them furniture shopping first...I don't think that's an okay place to be.
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On October 14 2016 22:47 TheTenthDoc wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:32 Antyee wrote:On October 14 2016 22:28 TheTenthDoc wrote: If men are bragging about acting sexually towards women without their consent and normalizing at as "locker room talk" you have a huge societal problem.
Whether you call it "rape culture" or "people are shitheads" doesn't matter. It's still a huge fucking problem, and arguing about what to call it won't make it go away. It'll just distract from the real problem. Which is usually what people want to do when they start complaining about people calling things rape culture. Trump has taken the biggest nosedive of his polling because of it. It doesn't seem to be too much of an issue since people have been denouncing him for it and noone apart from the biggest nutjobs tried to make up excuses for him. I think at least 10% of the country believes it's perfectly fine for him to talk as he did as long as it's "locker room talk" (which has nothing to do with locker rooms and everything to do with men talking to men). What percent are we okay with believing that? If one in 10 people believe it's acceptable to decide to "move on" married women when they've shown zero signs of consent...as long as you only talk about it later with only guys and take them furniture shopping first...I don't think that's an okay place to be.
Care to provide something that supports your 10% claim?
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On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. While I don't agree with Biff on the topic, I do have to note the irony in you pointing this out in a post filled with debunked pop sci pack theory 'red pill' garbage
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On October 14 2016 22:51 Dan HH wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. While I don't agree with Biff on the topic, I do have to note the irony in you pointing this out in a post filled with debunked pop sci pack theory 'red pill' garbage
Citation needed.
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On October 14 2016 22:47 ticklishmusic wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:35 LegalLord wrote:On October 14 2016 22:23 Biff The Understudy wrote: Well anyway, it's something she said once in 2013, is it something she still wants to do, and/or is it relevant? Truth is that current technology for missile defense can do fuck all against any real nuclear threat. An ICBM is notoriously hard to shoot down even under extremely simplified scenarios. It's been compared to hitting a bullet with a bullet, although in the case of Russia, the US, and possibly China, it's like shooting down a bullet that can create fake bullets to throw you off, and that can change trajectories to mess up your targeting, with a bullet. And of course there are thousands of bullets and if all else fails they could just nuke your defense system pretty easily. The entire missile defense issue is more about being provocative than any actual missile defense. North Korea in this analogy would be using a slingshot. Slingshots have limited range. They could probably hit East China, South Korea, Japan, or Far East Russia if they really wanted.
China wouldn't be too pleased with the missile defense since it obviously wouldn't be useful but it would be provocative.
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On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority.
1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate.
2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary.
3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up.
4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same.
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On October 14 2016 22:56 Thieving Magpie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. 1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate. 2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary. 3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up. 4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same. Truly insightful look into a SJW's mind. Thank you.
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On October 14 2016 22:52 RealityIsKing wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:51 Dan HH wrote:On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. While I don't agree with Biff on the topic, I do have to note the irony in you pointing this out in a post filled with debunked pop sci pack theory 'red pill' garbage Citation needed.
http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/the_myth_of_the_alpha_male
Analysis spread across multiple study groups.
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On October 14 2016 22:51 Dan HH wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. While I don't agree with Biff on the topic, I do have to note the irony in you pointing this out in a post filled with debunked pop sci pack theory 'red pill' garbage It’s been a while since I seen one of these gems on TL. But once you start discussing sexual assault on the internet, it is only a matter of time this stuff shows up.
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On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority.
Err, however much I loathe the Kardashians, the fact that there's sex tapes floating about does not give anybody the right to harrass Kim. And the fact that Miley sits half naked on a wrecking ball, and hordes of teenagers subsequently want to walk around buck naked is ALSO not a reason to harrass them.
Men just need to learn that just because they are sexually attracted to someone, they are not allowed to force themselves upon her, despite the fact that she was dressed provocatively, or her nude pics are floating around the internet. Go home and jerk off if your sexual angst is so high you cannot contain it.
So no, the "whore culture" as you so vulgarly put it, is not a good reason for molesting women. And there are plenty of instincts that I have that I can choose not to act upon. And cat-calling is a pretty fucking deplorable response to the "sexual power" of women, so yeah, I choose not to act upon that "instinct".
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On October 14 2016 23:01 NukeD wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:56 Thieving Magpie wrote:On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. 1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate. 2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary. 3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up. 4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same. Truly insightful look into a SJW's mind. Thank you.
Which are you disagreeing with? That women also desire sex or that women are treated differently in western culture?
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On October 14 2016 22:35 GreenHorizons wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:31 Sent. wrote: Why would you build a missile defense system around China or Russia? I can understand surrounding Iran or North Korea with such systems because they're poor as fuck and can't afford to build thousands of missiles but it doesn't seem logical against great/super/mega powers. If I recall correctly missile defense systems aren't cost effective. I think you misread my comment, but remind us how Russia feels about the "defense system" we're installing over there in your neck of the woods? EDIT: But at this point Trump is so terrible and third party so unrealistic (for Hillary supporters) that wikileaks could release an email from Hillary to Podesta maniacally laughing about a list of evil things she would do as president, and her supporters still would vote for her while minimizing/making excuses.
I wasn't responding to you directly, a_flayer was the first one to bring this up. That shield in Poland and Romania was designed to protect Europe against Iranian missiles, when NATO-Russia relations weren't as bad as they're today. I understand why Russia doesn't like it but I was asking about the rationale behind surrounding Russia or China with missile defense systems when it's obvious that it's imposssible to stop their technologically advanced missiles from destorying targets in the West.
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On October 14 2016 22:56 Thieving Magpie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. 1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate. 2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary. 3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up. 4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same.
Regarding your point 4: Okay, so when I fantasize about having a guy tie me up and forcefully penetrating my pussy then I am just being manipulated in thinking that I would enjoy being dominated in such a fashion? It couldn't possibly have anything to do with the duality of man? Or the belief in a higher authority (be it a King, God aka religion or potentially a husband/spouse) and the willingness to be slave to any of those parties? The kind of submission versus domination that exists within all people because of our immensely complex brains? It is all about rape culture and glorification that is forced into my brain at a young age?
I don't think I would be willing to accept that I have so little consciousness regarding myself that this is not inherent to me and possibly most human beings to a lesser or greater extent.
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On October 14 2016 22:56 Thieving Magpie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. 1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate. 2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary. 3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up. 4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same.
This is probably the most anti-women thing I read in a very long time. You are saying that women are too weak to have a mind of their own, make decisions for themselves or just do anything not for men. It's not western society but you who think they are only fuck toys.
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On October 14 2016 23:05 a_flayer wrote:Show nested quote +On October 14 2016 22:56 Thieving Magpie wrote:On October 14 2016 22:40 Kickboxer wrote: The relationship between genders when it comes to sex and courtship (seduction) is an extremely complicated matter, and there is no simple way to address it. I do agree women remain far too vulnerable to actual assault and sexual bullying, and that this is a real issue we need to work on, but the term "rape culture" is simply not the best one, and the people fighting for the cause need to choose another banner in addition to facing some serious issues they have willfully chosen to ignore.
Women simply do prefer assertive powerful men. They do prefer "aggressive" men. It might be deeply illogical and unfortunate, but it is a pragmatic fact of reality. It is the way Homo Sapiens mates, and anyone honest with themselves who's not angered by their own sexual frustration will begrudgingly recognize this.
A vast majority of females (that have not experienced sexual trauma of course) strongly prefer a hint of "sexual aggression", they do respond to "dominance", they do respond to a certain degree of autonomous boldness, and sometimes you simply do have to kiss the girl (or as "dogs" would figuratively put it "grab her by the pussy"), or you will lose her to a more confident man - even though she is not holding up a consent poster. Until the split second the woman actively resists (which is the clear line of real sexual assault as far as I am concerned) the distinction between "alpha" behavior that often brings great real-life success with women, and cancerous behavior that terrorizes them is nearly impossible to draw.
And that, in a nutshell, is why some people are willing to forgive Trump for his "locker room" talk (though he is still a pig because he's clearly crossed this line habitually).
Cat-calling is also a nuanced concept because it is in many ways an instinctive response to the sexual power an attractive woman willingly exerts upon the male subconsciousness. No, this does not mean they "deserve" to be groped let alone assaulted (!), but it is a particular form of violence against men that I feel is never properly addressed.
What I just said perhaps makes some people facepalm and cringe, but your problem then lies with the factual reality of sexual relations between men and women and not with my speculation.
Women rage about the necessity of wearing make-up 24/7 and about being objectified all the time, but most of them nevertheless spend half their money and time specifically on the task of appearing sexually attractive to men in a radius as wide as possible, because that gives them vast amounts of "soft" power over men.
Our culture has been glorifying female sexual liberation for 30 years non-stop, in addition to enforcing highly dubious ideas of "gender fluidity" marshaled by the exact same people using the term rape culture, to a point where most female celebrities (women adored and mimicked by young girls all across the world) are famous for some kind of porn, and many of them, frankly, act like sluts - or more precisely, they act like men. Why don't we ever talk about that? Do you think this contributes to the problem of rape culture or not?
Post-Samantha, in the age of Miley Cyrus and the Kardashians, is it safe to say we have a "whore culture" problem in addition to a "rape culture" problem? Is this a legitimate topic to discuss or am I deplorable? I don't know but if someone is triggered by the obscene (and deliberately obtuse) way I framed this, they should understand that championing beta behavior as a one-stop solution to the issues of violence between genders triggers many people, too, and directly helps politicians like Trump rally the silent majority. 1.) People are attracted to the options around them. If they live in a culture that values rape, they will be attracted to rapey things. Women are not "illogically" attracted to it, its a side effect that rape permeates so much of the culture that often the choice women have is to either fetish it or become celibate. 2.) Women wear makeup because the west is such a misogynistic culture, it is impossible for women to feel value outside of their own bodies. Western culture emphasizes the importance of the female body as a fuck toy to rape that in order for many women engaged in that culture, beautification to maximize the value they are told to have becomes primary. 3.) There is no such thing as a whore problem. Women enjoying sex is a not a whore problem. A whore problem is when you disallow and make illegal for women to earn an income and women are forced to become whores to make ends meet. A woman enjoying sex is, in and of itself, normal. Now if women walked around, grabbing little boys dicks, going to school and and took videos of little boys peeing, broke into peoples houses and fucked men at gun point, then you can talk about women acting too much like men. But just because they like having sex too--that's a fairly stupid thing to bring up. 4.) The reason women are doing the things you observe them doing is because the west glorifies rape. Women, also being part of western culture, can't help but be forced to engage in it as well. That's what the fucking word culture means--its the thing a group of people do. The reason its illogical and seems to serve people's interest other than the woman's is because the west is a misogynistic culture that doesn't give a fuck about the woman's thoughts and ideas. And then teaches the woman to think the same. Regarding your point 4: Okay, so when I fantasize about having a guy tie me up and forcefully penetrating my pussy then I am just being manipulated in thinking that I would enjoy being dominated in such a fashion? It couldn't possibly have anything to do with the duality of man? Or the belief in a higher authority (be it a King, God aka religion or potentially a husband/spouse) and the willingness to be slave to any of those parties? It is all about rape culture and glorification that is forced into my brain at a young age? I don't think I would be willing to accept that I have so little consciousness regarding myself that this is not inherent to me and possibly most human beings to a lesser or greater extent. Short answer: No.
Long answer: It is hard to prescribe how much culture influences someone’s specific tastes in anything. It is a factor, but is one of many. And not all aspects of culture are bad. But we should be aware of when they are influences our views on a specific subject, like gender or the number of sexual partners someone has.
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