|
Wow, what a bunch of closed-minded bitches.
I give you props on that move, OP. People react differently to different things.
For instance, some people don't like to be nagged. If you suggest things to some people, they may resist it. Maybe the OP knows how his gf is and that she wouldn't take him seriously if he just talked to her.
This is kind of similar to the whole spiel to parents, "my gf is pregnant, I killed someone, I totaled the car, and I got a D on my math test. Just kidding, but I really did get a D on the math test." In their relief they are more tolerant of the bad news.
His gf was probably so worried about what was going to happen that she was a lot more receptive to his reasons for doing it afterwards. And I bet while she sat there in silence she reflected on some of the bitchy things she had done earlier in the day.
It is always better to let someone realize their own mistakes rather than to nag at them or rub their face in it.
|
You're an idiot... AND Protoss...
|
On February 20 2009 13:20 TruthBringer wrote:
Wow, what a bunch of closed-minded bitches.
I give you props on that move, OP. People react differently to different things.
For instance, some people don't like to be nagged. If you suggest things to some people, they may resist it. Maybe the OP knows how his gf is and that she wouldn't take him seriously if he just talked to her.
This is kind of similar to the whole spiel to parents, "my gf is pregnant, I killed someone, I totaled the car, and I got a D on my math test. Just kidding, but I really did get a D on the math test." In their relief they are more tolerant of the bad news.
His gf was probably so worried about what was going to happen that she was a lot more receptive to his reasons for doing it afterwards. And I bet while she sat there in silence she reflected on some of the bitchy things she had done earlier in the day.
It is always better to let someone realize their own mistakes rather than to nag at them or rub their face in it.
OR
you could be mature and discuss it?
|
This sounds like a domestic homicide in the making. Get help for your control issues.
|
On February 20 2009 13:03 mikeymoo wrote:
Wait so does this make me a strange person as well, by association? Seems like I'm a part of this, is the title means anything.
LMAO yah, we weren't a part of it. It's not like you were editing the OP and giving live reports of what was happening with us giving you "advice."
|
I cannot believe how much people are freaking out over this. Truthbringer nailed it on the head.
|
On February 20 2009 13:22 DoctorHelvetica wrote:Show nested quote +On February 20 2009 13:20 TruthBringer wrote:
Wow, what a bunch of closed-minded bitches.
I give you props on that move, OP. People react differently to different things.
For instance, some people don't like to be nagged. If you suggest things to some people, they may resist it. Maybe the OP knows how his gf is and that she wouldn't take him seriously if he just talked to her.
This is kind of similar to the whole spiel to parents, "my gf is pregnant, I killed someone, I totaled the car, and I got a D on my math test. Just kidding, but I really did get a D on the math test." In their relief they are more tolerant of the bad news.
His gf was probably so worried about what was going to happen that she was a lot more receptive to his reasons for doing it afterwards. And I bet while she sat there in silence she reflected on some of the bitchy things she had done earlier in the day.
It is always better to let someone realize their own mistakes rather than to nag at them or rub their face in it. OR you could be mature and discuss it?
Yeah really. Not to mention, how is he going to realize that his actions are fucked up in other people's perspectives if nobody tells him.
|
On February 20 2009 13:22 DoctorHelvetica wrote:Show nested quote +On February 20 2009 13:20 TruthBringer wrote:
Wow, what a bunch of closed-minded bitches.
I give you props on that move, OP. People react differently to different things.
For instance, some people don't like to be nagged. If you suggest things to some people, they may resist it. Maybe the OP knows how his gf is and that she wouldn't take him seriously if he just talked to her.
This is kind of similar to the whole spiel to parents, "my gf is pregnant, I killed someone, I totaled the car, and I got a D on my math test. Just kidding, but I really did get a D on the math test." In their relief they are more tolerant of the bad news.
His gf was probably so worried about what was going to happen that she was a lot more receptive to his reasons for doing it afterwards. And I bet while she sat there in silence she reflected on some of the bitchy things she had done earlier in the day.
It is always better to let someone realize their own mistakes rather than to nag at them or rub their face in it. OR you could be mature and discuss it?
That isn't much fun is it?
All in all, fuck this blog, full of shit.
Grow some balls and discuss the damn thing with her, no need to give her a "timeout", you need to seriously grow the fuck up.
|
lolol anyone else see the correlation between high post count vs low post count in the arguement
|
Calgary25951 Posts
|
You know if you replace the word, "girlfriend" in the opening post with "OP's right hand", it makes perfect sense.
|
On February 20 2009 13:43 KissBlade wrote:
You know if you replace the word, "girlfriend" in the opening post with "OP's right hand", it makes perfect sense.
I see what you did thaaaaaaaaar~
|
|
|
People are over-reacting. The things people are/should be actually concerned about is/was how weird and even outlandish the OP's understanding of punishment is, and also his understanding of his relationship, but other than that, the OP's responses since the conclusion of the event have been relatively mannered, despite the flames he's receiving.
|
I think you went wrong when you think punishment is the normal way to respond to behavior you don't like.
|
lol wtf give that guy a break. his gf was a bitch and he played a funny prank on her.
srsly drama queens...
|
On February 20 2009 14:01 REDBLUEGREEN wrote:
lol wtf give that guy a break. his gf was a bitch and he played a funny prank on her.
srsly drama queens...
This.
|
On February 20 2009 13:20 TruthBringer wrote:
Wow, what a bunch of closed-minded bitches.
I give you props on that move, OP. People react differently to different things.
For instance, some people don't like to be nagged. If you suggest things to some people, they may resist it. Maybe the OP knows how his gf is and that she wouldn't take him seriously if he just talked to her.
This is kind of similar to the whole spiel to parents, "my gf is pregnant, I killed someone, I totaled the car, and I got a D on my math test. Just kidding, but I really did get a D on the math test." In their relief they are more tolerant of the bad news.
His gf was probably so worried about what was going to happen that she was a lot more receptive to his reasons for doing it afterwards. And I bet while she sat there in silence she reflected on some of the bitchy things she had done earlier in the day.
It is always better to let someone realize their own mistakes rather than to nag at them or rub their face in it.
For sure homeboy lol. I find it funny how everyone is semi-freaking out over the whole thing when both me and her laughed about it...
P.S. Guys I gave her the link to the blog and shes wondering why everyone is backin her up on this when she was a total bitch lol thats a quote
|
No one is backing up her actions, you're both stupid for thinking this is cool/normal/funny.
|
DoctorHelvetica, you're drifting into ad hominem attacks. I agree with you that their opinions are questionable, but perhaps the OP's restraint and composure in his later posts are indicative of the actual level of his personality and intellect; there was obvious immaturity in the OP, but how are we to know the actual dynamics of their relationship, when evidently the two have had a positive outcome?
Edit: No offense intended; my point is just that perhaps they simply understand better, and perhaps we are being a little too pretentious with our judgments.
|
|
|
|
|
|
EPT
