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On December 29 2012 19:34 maartendq wrote:Show nested quote +On December 28 2012 02:46 AngryMag wrote:My tip would be to avoid dating self righteous over the top christian nutjobs. In my opinion you should try to date more open minded people, who are better at accepting you as a person and your views on various topics. You shouldn't have much trouble finding more open minded people on campus. If you want to get laid, dating religous girls is a waste of time/money and effort  I personally would not date a girl who describes herself as christian or religious, I want to share leisure time together and I will certainly not visit christian meetings/gatherings with her. Just because you're dating someone who's religious doesn't mean you have to attend services with her. I just broke up with my girlfriend (or rather, she broke up with me). She was pretty religious while I wasn't. Our conclusions to certain issues, however, were usually the same. The only thing that differed was the way we got there. We both respected each others convictions as well. In the end you don't choose who you fall in love with.
depends on how religious the person is and how flexible they're willing to be with you. I dated a super religious girl once for a pretty long time (she didn't let on how truly "devout" she was until months into the relationship) and our religious differences ended up being one of the primary reasons we broke up. it depends on the religion (some are a lot more relaxed than others), but in my experiences, dating a very religious person almost always leads to a "convert or we're done" ultimatum somewhere down the line. I feel like it's not worth trying a relationship like that because the odds of success are so low.
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It's only been a month since I've turned 21 and I have yet to engage in a relationship >.< You are my idol and have inspired me for my new year's resolution to be more outgoing and social with girls :D
I'm more afraid of a relationship ending because I might have done something wrong (which is why I thought I'd wait for a couple more years), but I definitely agree college is where you should experience everything. Sending her an email was the best move and I'm happy for you to be able to accept her rejection. Now you have more experience towards a more awesome relationship!
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You should probably consider the fact that her telling you "no kissing before marriage" was just an exuse because she was not interested just like girls will tell you they have a boyfriend instead of saying no to a date. Like most people here I would also not consider the two of you as boyfriend/girlfriend but then again that does not really matter, best of luck in the future!
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Going with the flow here, you basically weren't alpha enough for her to break out of her shell. Or maybe her little sheltered views are looking for someone so fucking alpha+ that it'll take at least another decade before she realizes she's been (and still is) a depreciating asset and her value is about to hit the floor. Whatever dude, you seem to be okay with starting up a conversation and taking first steps so you should be fine. Better luck next time!
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