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CecilSunkure
United States2829 Posts
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Mr. Wiggles
Canada5894 Posts
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bonifaceviii
Canada2890 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:28 -Kaiser- wrote: It's pretty repulsive that you all assume they were being irresponsible and not using any method of birth control. Accidents happen. If this was the first occurrence I'd agree with you, but the "accident" train rolled out of the station when he said there was already a scare. The girl's not taking her birth control correctly. | ||
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Eben
United States769 Posts
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VeNoM HaZ Skill
United States1528 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:38 CecilSunkure wrote: If a doctor told you you were sterile and you get someone pregnant, can you not sew this doctor? Find a lawyer to give him the good 'ol 1-2 cross-stitch. | ||
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mordek
United States12704 Posts
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Grovbolle
Denmark3805 Posts
Sorry to be the douche. But if you are "sterile" and she is eating pills. It's either miracle, sick statistical nugget, or cheating. Hoping for 1 or 2 for you though. | ||
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VTArlock
United States1763 Posts
It changes the relationship DRASTICALLY. Best of luck and best wishes on everything | ||
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:11 ShoCkeyy wrote: My thoughts are going crazy, it's my child that she is bearing, I already feel the pain of thinking of my baby being removed. Should we go through this procedure? I won't know till tomorrow. I set up an appointment for 9am at the clinic. My girlfriend couldn't call her self because she kept crying. I took it upon myself to call. I told her "No matter what, I'm here for you. In what ever decision you decide, I am here for you." Let's see how things go and how she will feel tomorrow. To be honest, I would love to have the child, but realistically speaking, I don't think we'll be able to handle it. I just needed to vent out a bit and let's hope everything goes well tomorrow. Either we have the child, or we don't. I'll update what happens tomorrow. If this is how you really feel then you need to tell her about it (if you haven't already). Sure, you can put on a brave face and logically convince yourself that abortion is for the best, but the emotional hits you're taking right now are only going to get worse if she goes through with it. First things first - she should really get a blood test to confirm the pregnancy. Home tests are sometimes wrong and it's going to be the first thing a doctor will do anyway. Assuming you live in the US, she can essentially do whatever she wants without having to consider you. At least be thankful your girlfriend is keeping you in the decision-making process. It's great you're venting this all out, but I hope you're also venting to her, as well. Either decision - keeping the baby or not - is going to be extremely difficult. Adoption is also an option should she choose to keep (quite reasonable considering you don't think you can handle it yet without the pain of "my baby being removed"). To everyone else reading this: If you're dating someone and sexually active make sure you have a contingency plan for when the unexpected happens. | ||
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Marradron
Netherlands1586 Posts
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imJealous
United States1382 Posts
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StarStruck
25339 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:24 ShoCkeyy wrote: Actually, I'm suppose to be sterile and she's on birth control, the daily kind. So it's basically really weird on how this happened. I have a thing called http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/guys/varicocele.html, it doesn't leave you sterile unless doctors say other wise, which is what they told me. Guess they were wrong? And the birth control failed some how. So this baby is like a miracle baby of some sort. I wouldn't know. Sorry I left this part out of the blog, I was just typing away with out really thinking. Unfortunately lots of the doctors I have met in my past are usually wrong. That's why I usually see more than one when it comes to serious issues such as that, but as you said your girlfriend was on the pill, so meh. Shit happens! | ||
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ecstatica
United States542 Posts
If you knew you were sterile why was she on a pill? Pills are generally not very good for women, aside from a few semi-mythical benefits. If you love her so much why is abortion the first thing on your mind, not the opposite? About cheating - anything is possible, you should know whether it could happen or not. You need to find out if you're in doubt. Or maybe it was a huge shit test and you just failed? | ||
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L_Master
United States8017 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:38 CecilSunkure wrote: If a doctor told you you were sterile and you get someone pregnant, can you not sew this doctor? Isn't that what surgeons are supposed to do to patients. In all seriousness though I hate this sue happy nature of American society. What are you going to sue the doctor for? Being wrong? If you have reason to think the doctor made mistakes out of laziness/negligence etc. then I can understand but if the doctor did his job to the best of his ability and there ended up being a mistake somewhere on the chain I hate the fact that their is a potential lawsuit there. Not to mention this aspect plays a pretty significant role in our rapidly increasing medical care costs. As to the OP...I can't really give much comment because I'm biased pretty strongly one way. To me, at the moment of conception, that is a living child. From my perspective if you go and have an abortion your murdering a child. Needless to say, I'm no supporter of abortion and cannot imagine anyone with my view even contemplating an abortion. It really all comes down to what you believe about the status of life in this months leading up to birth. If you don't view the cell mass as a living human until some other point in the pregnancy then I can understand why someone would choose to have an abortion. I think you need to really sit down and decide what your beliefs are about when life begins and ensure your in a comfortable spot with your own moral ground. Take some time to figure out how you feel and what you believe and make a rational, thought-out, reflected upon decision. | ||
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drgoats
United States310 Posts
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Mithriel
Netherlands2969 Posts
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:30 ShoCkeyy wrote: or some form of entity beyond our reality put that baby there. you should ask her what his name is (the other entity) seriously though, she's not being honest with you | ||
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PanN
United States2828 Posts
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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PanN
United States2828 Posts
On May 08 2012 03:28 Arcanefrost wrote: If you're sterile you really shouldn't have an abortion imo, maybe when you actually plan one it will take years to have one. Anyway, I think you ade the right decision by supporting her in whatever she decides. I don't think you can be sterile then magically have a baby years later? I could be completely wrong. But I was under the impression that being sterile means no babies ever. | ||
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