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zerroth
Canada173 Posts
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sc2superfan101
3583 Posts
On May 08 2012 02:11 ShoCkeyy wrote: We talked about the situation, we agreed to having an abortion though. oh fuck i have to stop reading these blogs. trying so hard not to judge... whatever. people gonna do what they gonna do. God bless ya son. | ||
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bokchoi
Korea (South)9498 Posts
On May 10 2012 07:25 sc2superfan101 wrote: oh fuck i have to stop reading these blogs. trying so hard not to judge... whatever. people gonna do what they gonna do. God bless ya son. So you'd rather a child be born to unprepared parents, and live a shitty life filled with hardship? | ||
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L_Master
United States8017 Posts
On May 10 2012 15:57 bokchoi wrote: So you'd rather a child be born to unprepared parents, and live a shitty life filled with hardship? There is no guarantee by any means the child is going to have a shitty life. It may be more likely but money/economic status is hardly the most important thing out there. Even if there was an extremely high chance of this happening...is it really better to murder the child than to give him or her the chance to live and forge a life of his own? Again though, alot of it comes down to your beliefs. Take for instance, a 6 month old or a 1 year old in the same situation. No one suggests the child should be killed because it's likely to have a shitty life filled with hardships. When you believe as I do, that life begins immediately at conception, their really isn't another option. It's not for other people to decide if a person should live or die...it should absolutely be that persons choice and his choice alone. | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
On May 10 2012 07:25 sc2superfan101 wrote: God bless ya son. i heard this actually means "fuck you" from all the crazy religious fanatic townies in my small rural college town | ||
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ShoCkeyy
7815 Posts
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mordek
United States12705 Posts
On May 10 2012 17:12 KurtistheTurtle wrote: i heard this actually means "fuck you" from all the crazy religious fanatic townies in my small rural college town That could be true and it's hard to tell on the internet but I'd give the benefit of the doubt. It's honestly really hard to tell someone "God bless you" through this medium without it coming across that way though. I'm saddened by the situation but I can truly say God bless you and I pray for the best to come. | ||
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L_Master
United States8017 Posts
On May 10 2012 22:53 ShoCkeyy wrote: Abortion in my eyes is correct before the heart starts to form. The reason why I say this is because the unborn child has no thought process before this. It doesn't even know its going to be born. There is no brain activity. I for one like I said, wanted to keep the baby. But my girlfriend chose other wise. Understandable. Even though I obviously dislike very much the idea of abortion, I understand that many people see the point of life at different points and am not going to hold them to my moral standards based on my own beliefs. I can only imagine how tough it must be whichever way you end up choosing and wish you the best in the future. | ||
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Slardar
Canada7593 Posts
On May 10 2012 22:53 ShoCkeyy wrote: Abortion in my eyes is correct before the heart starts to form. The reason why I say this is because the unborn child has no thought process before this. It doesn't even know its going to be born. There is no brain activity. I for one like I said, wanted to keep the baby. But my girlfriend chose other wise. Good for you for respecting your GF to let her go with the decision and good luck in the future! Semi-Offtopic the only thing is I can't understand is your pro-abortion rationale. Nobody knows they will be born, and we all know the potential for the unborn child, so it doesn't seem like it matters in which "stage" the fetus is. That entire thought process has always urked me. | ||
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Blazinghand
United States25558 Posts
Let's not discuss abortion on his blog, okay guys? Don't even go there. This isn't the place. | ||
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Dfgj
Singapore5922 Posts
On May 11 2012 06:44 Slardar wrote: Good for you for respecting your GF to let her go with the decision and good luck in the future! Semi-Offtopic the only thing is I can't understand is your pro-abortion rationale. Nobody knows they will be born, and we all know the potential for the unborn child, so it doesn't seem like it matters in which "stage" the fetus is. That entire thought process has always urked me. Part of the argument is that a person has potential, yes, but there's no 'person' yet to have potential. And then you go into the philosophical definitions of what constitutes personhood and whether they're valid or not, which is a discussion for another thread entirely. Anyways, it's good you're handling this issue and being supportive, ShoCkeyy. Hopefully things turn out well in the end - I'd never want to end up in that situation :< | ||
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Lousy!
Canada73 Posts
Doctors told my boyfriend's mom that she's infertile. She ended up having 3 kids and then her uterus was removed. So... that's that. You'll have a next time, hopefully when you're both more prepared for it. Best of luck to you! | ||
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sc2superfan101
3583 Posts
On May 10 2012 17:12 KurtistheTurtle wrote: i heard this actually means "fuck you" from all the crazy religious fanatic townies in my small rural college town i guess it probably does for some people. for me it means: "goddamn you just did or went through something that will probably stay with your eternal soul for a long time and if you've got any shot of making it out okay you're gonna need God's help cause I'm about as powerless as can be to help you." and it was a lot nicer than some of the other things i wanted to say and honestly, those other things should never be said by anyone so i decided i might as well say a nice thing that should be said. edit: i don't want to sound like im blasting the OP though, cause im not. he was caught in what sounds like a really tough situation and besides it wasnt like it is all his choice or whatever. | ||
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3Form
United Kingdom389 Posts
GL OP. I doubt it's any comfort but you've reinforced my resolve to never go anywhere unprotected again! An old friend of mine just had a child. He's 24, she's barely 18. They've been together for about a year and they are now engaged. He had actually asked me to be his best man for the girlfriend before last. I'm really worried how this is going to turn out. I also do voluntary work at a child contact centre - this is where separated parents bring their children so that the parent who doesn't have custody (90% of the time the father) can see them. It's a supervised environment for the parents that are not mature or civil enough to show respect for each other. I really hope that those who are mature enough are the majority. We have screaming and shouting. We have parents playing the children off against their ex-partners. All of this often happens in the presence of the children. For what it's worth I think you have probably made the best decision (let's leave wrong and right out of this). For these reasons I hope that if I do ever have children it's a responsible decision made in the correct environment. | ||
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Nibbler89
884 Posts
On May 10 2012 07:25 sc2superfan101 wrote: oh fuck i have to stop reading these blogs. trying so hard not to judge... whatever. people gonna do what they gonna do. God bless ya son. There's this thing called an opportunity cost. When you spend money and time on the things you enjoy there's a lot of things that time and money could have been spent on instead. For example helping starving children in Africa. I'm guessing you buy yourself nice things and don't spend all your extra money or time helping children not die from starvation, and you probably don't even think about it. This isn't like the past where the world is too big for you to help others around the world either so there's no real excuse other than we all live for ourselves and you either accept that fact or live as a hypocrite. There are varying degrees of evil but the vast majority of us care more about having a refreshing soda or shiny new computer than saving the money to help someone actually in need and when you do, you are basically letting people die. And no donating a bit of money every year or volunteering doesn't mean shit and it shouldn't be the reason you do it anyways. Jesus would be ashamed of most of the modern day hypocrites that say they are religious.(at least in the western world, I think he'd like a lot of people that practice eastern religions) There I made it easier for you to not judge others from now on. | ||
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sc2superfan101
3583 Posts
On May 12 2012 00:23 Nibbler89 wrote: There's this thing called an opportunity cost. When you spend money and time on the things you enjoy there's a lot of things that time and money could have been spent on instead. For example helping starving children in Africa. I'm guessing you buy yourself nice things and don't spend all your extra money or time helping children not die from starvation, and you probably don't even think about it. This isn't like the past where the world is too big for you to help others around the world either so there's no real excuse other than we all live for ourselves and you either accept that fact or live as a hypocrite. There are varying degrees of evil but the vast majority of us care more about having a refreshing soda or shiny new computer than saving the money to help someone actually in need. And no donating a bit of money every year or volunteering doesn't mean shit and it shouldn't be the reason you do it anyways. Jesus would be ashamed of most of the modern day hypocrites that say they are religious.(at least in the western world, I think he'd like a lot of people that practice eastern religions) There I made it easier for you to not judge others from now on. well therein lies the problem (and after this post we gotta move this to PM's cause its bordering on off-topic): just cause i judge myself (and i shouldn't) doesn't mean that its easier to not judge other people. ill be the first person to admit that i am generally a piece of dog shit, but that don't mean it makes it easy for me to look at something i don't think is right and not judge the person who does it. its the "i may be a POS, but at least i don't do that!" syndrome. yeah its wrong and it makes me an even bigger POS, but there it is. we all got our flaws and thats one of mine i s'pose. i try to keep my judgements to a minimum, and thought i actually succeeded pretty well here. imo Jesus is ashamed of the vast, vast, vast majority of people that will ever live and ever have lived. but thats a discussion for another time and another place. the fact is: what happened here happened and it has nothing to do with me and i just hope everyone involved can get out ok and maybe learn a thing or two. gl to all involved. | ||
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ruiyang
252 Posts
DAFUQ i just read? Your best friend is a dog, that you just lost and believe be reincarnated as your unborn baby while she was on the pill and you are sterile? Strangest story of my life o_O | ||
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ShoCkeyy
7815 Posts
On May 12 2012 10:17 ruiyang wrote: Sorry but... DAFUQ i just read? Your best friend is a dog, that you just lost and believe be reincarnated as your unborn baby while she was on the pill and you are sterile? Strangest story of my life o_O I never said I believed that my dog was reincarnated to my unborn child, I said it was a possibility... You never know with how life is and since we don't know what happens with life after death. | ||
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ruiyang
252 Posts
On May 12 2012 10:31 ShoCkeyy wrote: I never said I believed that my dog was reincarnated to my unborn child, I said it was a possibility... You never know with how life is and since we don't know what happens with life after death. Im sorry, but a lot of things dont add up. Your still considering the possibility of your dog reincarnated as your unborn child. Cant tell whether just really stupid or best troll ever. In any case. You need to sit down and think carefully. How did this happen? Are you really sterile? If yes, is it a miracle (might be your only chance to get a kid) or is it a disaster (possibility of her cheating). Do you really love her? If yes, enough to deal with all the burdens? Enough to raise a kid? Money isnt necessarily the biggest problem. Making the choice that leaves least scars to your and her life is more important. Mental scars. | ||
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ShoCkeyy
7815 Posts
On May 12 2012 11:09 ruiyang wrote: Im sorry, but a lot of things dont add up. Your still considering the possibility of your dog reincarnated as your unborn child. Cant tell whether just really stupid or best troll ever. In any case. You need to sit down and think carefully. How did this happen? Are you really sterile? If yes, is it a miracle (might be your only chance to get a kid) or is it a disaster (possibility of her cheating). Do you really love her? If yes, enough to deal with all the burdens? Enough to raise a kid? Money isnt necessarily the biggest problem. Making the choice that leaves least scars to your and her life is more important. Mental scars. Have you read the blog at all? Lol, a lot of those questions were already answered. | ||
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