Hey man don't kill your self to much it happens to everyone. Few years back i sat next to this girl on the train once and didn't get her info after having a great time talking with her. You gotta be fearless man and you gotta want it lol!

Edit: also just listen to dAPhREAk he gives the best advice on TL with it comes to ladies lolol <3

ziggurat

Canada847 Posts

January 24 2012 05:12 GMT

#22

That sucks, but really you blew it yourself by not asking her for her name or number right then and there. It may seem like it's hard to do but after you do it a couple times it becomes really easy, and if a girl is being friendly she'll almost always give it to you.

In fact, if you had gone back a day or two later she likely wouldn't have been that friendly anyway. From her point of view, she gave you really strong signals and you didn't reciprocate. She's probably thinking, I was all over him and he didn't even ask for my number?!? wtf???

Anyway like other posters have said you'll have lots more chances.

Salv

Canada3083 Posts

January 24 2012 05:25 GMT

#23

Let it be a lesson, if you're flirting with someone, you should either ask her out or at least introduce yourself to get her name before you leave.

Wasteweiser

Canada522 Posts

January 24 2012 06:01 GMT

#24

I've dated girls like that, a lot of trouble and worth no ones time... Could be wrong but I highly doubt it.

Inzek

Chile802 Posts

January 24 2012 14:09 GMT

#25

cmon, this will happens so much...
my own experience:
i had a little party on my house, a friend brings 3 girls... ge get out go dancing and stuff, but my friend leaves some of his things in my house. so i dance wi all 3 girls and whatever, but later when we are walking back to my place (we were close) to take my friend's shit, i was walking alone in the front of the group, so this girl comes to walk next to me and start talking (things like, you like movies?, like music?, we should go out someday, etc,etc, me was like aha aha yeah.. aha...)... so we get to my place, my friend and i go to my apartment to pick his things and they leave, i never said bye, neitehr asked for facebook, mail, phone number, or anything.... dumb as fuck....
thing is, it has happened, it will happen again.. no big deal.

OpticalShot

Canada6330 Posts

January 24 2012 15:35 GMT

#26

Well let this be a lesson that you should keep your cool! I'm extremely bored at work so here hmmm let my imagination fly~

Act 2, Scene 3

Girl: "By the way sweetie, you signed in the wrong place!" smiling brightly
darthfoley: flustered "Oh oops, hahaha thanks for pointing it out." fixes it
Girl: pausing a little "Hmmm, well, that's it, enjoy the slopes~"
darthfoley: "Thanks, uhhh, erm, yeah, have a nice day." starts walking away from counter
Girl: desperately, to darthfoley who is now walking away "AND oh uhhh stay safe out there!" :3
darthfoley: turns back briefly "Yeah, aha, thanks again." turns around awkwardly and continues towards the stage door 3
Girl: "Oh, and..." next-in-line customer walks up "Hi, how may I help you?"
darthfoley: rushing "By the way," turns around "what's your..." notices her with next customer, turns around and exits via stage door 3 "name. DAMMIT."

end of Scene 3

Well, that didn't help did it?
I'm such a meanie heheh x_x;;

Servius_Fulvius

United States947 Posts

January 24 2012 16:10 GMT

#27

On January 24 2012 10:30 darthfoley wrote:
At this point, i was so happy that someone who was attractive was this outgoing and flirtatious with me, right off the bat.

This gradually increases over time. When I was 17 I would have said the same thing, but I'm 25 and see things a lot differently. First it was small, subtle things. Then girls I only thought of as friends doing strange things. In hindsight I realize that they liked me and I really wish they said something because I would have given them a chance. Some people (like a lot of TL girl blog posters) keep feelings like this to themselves when they shouldn't. And then you meet the people who have feelings for you and speak up about it.

For now, use this as proof there are attractive, outgoing, and flirtatious people who will give you attention.

Now stop dwelling on it and get back to living life!

Jibba

United States22883 Posts

January 24 2012 16:47 GMT

#28

On January 24 2012 15:01 Wasteweiser wrote:
I've dated girls like that, a lot of trouble and worth no ones time... Could be wrong but I highly doubt it.

What? She was doing her job and was cordial about it. Jesus Christ. Wait until you guys start paying for your own meals at restaurants. If you go half mast every time a girl/attendant giggles while taking your money, you're completely doomed.

If I had to guess, there was zero flirting going on.

bonifaceviii

Canada2890 Posts

January 24 2012 20:21 GMT

#29

In this thread, a teenager thinks the girl isn't just trying to sell him something

Ushio

Canada868 Posts

January 24 2012 20:30 GMT

#30

On January 25 2012 01:47 Jibba wrote:

Show nested quote +

Jibba has a point

ziggurat

Canada847 Posts

January 24 2012 22:12 GMT

#31

On January 25 2012 05:30 Ushio wrote:

Show nested quote +

Jibba has a point

I don't think it's a very good point. The fact is that if you're friendly and attractive you'll meet lots of women in sales positions who will be friendly and flirtatious with you. Some genuinely find you attractive, and some are just doing it because it's their job. The only way to find out which is which is to man up and ask for the digits.