EPTA Story of a Girl - Page 2
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i think about ending the suffering every day. I just don't see the point of it all. | ||
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At the time, I think my mind essentially blocked it out because it doesn't know how to deal with the situation. Like I said, my roommate was much closer to her, and he was visibly affected by the loss. This being said, I don't know and don't want to know how I'd react to losing someone even closer to me. | ||
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On November 04 2011 18:45 PanoRaMa wrote: When I RTed this I wanted to CC this to Christine Lu but I didn't really know her and I felt I'd be nosy, but you might be interested in this Haji: http://www.quora.com/Psychology/Why-do-successful-people-commit-suicide-sometimes/answer/Christine-Lu  Reading that story makes me realize that one more wrong step and I could have possibly headed down the same road. On November 04 2011 19:00 Nouar wrote: I also have that experience since a close coworker of mine committed suicide in 2008 shooting herself while being on the phone with her boyfriend (don't EVER do that you'll destroy his life, too...) >< I can't fathom the misery the boyfriend now has to live with for the rest of his life I can't even think of what I'd be able to say to him. On November 04 2011 19:13 mardi wrote: omg, I'm a ChemE major. Studying at 5AM fml. I know the toils of this ridiculous major. I know the pain people do and I've seen some people starting to go crazy in the ChemE computer labs and study room. The pressure to succeed and do well is so great sometimes. There's no shame in taking a semester or a year off, I have learned. More power to the people brave enough to set things aside for a while and figure things out for themselves. This reminds me of another college friend who had issues stemming from academics. Maybe I'll write about him in the future | ||
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This story definitely reminded me of her. Just shows how much some people need a shoulder to lean on. Suicide is such a terrible thing. | ||
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It's never easy to cope with the death of a friend. | ||
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On November 04 2011 19:53 TheKefka wrote: Such a sad story TT. I'm a second year engineer student now and I have to say the first year,over here in Croatia at least,is laughable compared to the second.Mainly because of Thermodynamics and Fluid Mechanics which demand a ridiculose amount of work and quite frankly I am not sure I will be able to handle it along with 4 other subjects all at once right now. To be honest I don' really sleep much at all and can't remember the last time I went out to party with my friends. My life consists right now basically of college,spending as much time as possible with my gf and sc2.Sleep and food are so low on my priority rank its quite disturbing>_> I'm a decent student, yetI know that I'd get crushed were I to study Chem E. | ||
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On November 04 2011 21:30 hazelynut wrote: Thank you for writing this. Maybe submit it to the Prince as a guest piece, future classes of Tigers might need it. I'm a little curious - is the library you referred to Forbes? What's the process of submitting a guest piece? As you might guess, I know no one who works at the Prince. It was Wilson, fwiw. | ||
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On November 04 2011 18:00 flamewheel wrote: I'm not going to lie. When I saw this line: I thought this would be a story about how you became really good friends with this girl. I've met a lot of my friends along the lines of "misery loves company". Didn't see the ending coming :/ Nobody deserves to die alone. Was reading a little and like fw thought it was going to be the usual story where you get to know her, decided to read the rest later, skipped to the comments and saw fw's post and skimmed back up into this line. On November 04 2011 17:48 thedeadhaji wrote: The one her took her life, was the girl. Was struck frozen for a moment trying to digest what I just read. | ||
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On November 04 2011 22:35 Mobius_1 wrote: Damn, I have friends studying ChemEng, and they seem to have it pretty tough academically. Shame that she couldn't find another way out, as Tyrion Lannister said:"Death is so terribly final, while life is full of possibilities." I think that once you fall really deep, you can no longer think rationally. You become impulsive and driven by your emotions, and those emotions are never positive. Prevention, whether through the help of those close to you, or just simply escaping it all, should really be stressed more than it is right now | ||
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On November 04 2011 23:50 Nizaris wrote: Good read. had a slight tear in my eye at work... i think about ending the suffering every day. I just don't see the point of it all. Work is not worth dying over. I can't say this enough towards people, particularly in Japan who kill themselves over their occupation. | ||
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Over time I have learnt that 'shoulder to cry on' is the most important human condition. I ask people right and straight out about their problems, and insist if they don't want to talk about it, because I know what can happen when you don't have the option. I have no qualms about laying my feelings onto someone either. So to anyone out there with any kind of problem. Just talk to someone. Get their opinion. Get their advice. Its better then dwelling in your own cesspool of despair. It will make you more stronger and more confident in the long run. gl. | ||
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