EPTI don't consider myself to be a good writer, but I'm glad I wrote this and made some of you think your own lives. I think that's one of the magical things about writing.
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thedeadhaji
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I don't consider myself to be a good writer, but I'm glad I wrote this and made some of you think your own lives. I think that's one of the magical things about writing. | ||
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PaPoolee
Netherlands660 Posts
 thank you for taking the time to write this down and offering to talk to anybody who is having problems in their life, shows how good of a person you are! | ||
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McKTenor13
United States1383 Posts
I'm also going to agree with everyone else. You are an absolutely fantastic writer, haji. Not many writers can move me with their words and detail like that. Thank you very much for sharing this with us. | ||
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Snuggles
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thedeadhaji
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On November 05 2011 16:16 a176 wrote: The one lesson many parents fail to teach us is that life is hard, life is difficult, life is unfair and unrelenting. These things such as pressure, stress, abuse, depression and despair, we are never taught how to handle it. So when it hits, it hits hard. While my parents have provided me with a very good life, I used to feel so empty, so poor, so helpless, because I was unable to deal with many of things some of the posters in this thread talk about. Over time I have learnt that 'shoulder to cry on' is the most important human condition. I ask people right and straight out about their problems, and insist if they don't want to talk about it, because I know what can happen when you don't have the option. I have no qualms about laying my feelings onto someone either. So to anyone out there with any kind of problem. Just talk to someone. Get their opinion. Get their advice. Its better then dwelling in your own cesspool of despair. It will make you more stronger and more confident in the long run. gl. This is such a great post. Thanks  | ||
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thedeadhaji
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On November 06 2011 05:32 Snuggles wrote: *sigh* I don't have anyone I can comfortably talk to... now it seems I just talk to myself to calm myself down... At least I'll be equipped to live the forever alone lifestyle. SOmeone to talk to certainly helps, but I don't necessarily think is mandatory. So I wouldn't despair too much. I do think it can be valuable to draw "a line" inside yourself where you've decided that you'll just abandon the rough situation and execute an exit plan (no matter how unmanly or however it may seem) that will get you to mental and physical safety. | ||
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