EPTDating a girl with a child? - Page 3
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DoctorHelvetica
United States15034 Posts
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Firereaver
India1701 Posts
And please dont hit it and quit it like the majority of idiots will suggest here... Shes already probably got enuff shit in her past and present life to handle without more from you. My 2 cents. | ||
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Fen
Australia1848 Posts
If no, then don't bother. If yes, then consider how you feel about raising someone elses child. Single mothers are either looking for a random hookup or a father for their child. Seeing as you're considering dating her, then its obviously not a random hookup. So by dating her, you are also accepting the role of being the father to that child, because as you get more and more involved with each other, that is what you will be expected to do. | ||
Rekrul
Korea (South)17174 Posts
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Kickboxer
Slovenia1308 Posts
I might sound like a total prick, but that's the one situation in life I'd never, ever get into. Hell, for the bohemian twenty-something nerd it sucks enough to have your own kid! A friend of mine had his not long ago and he's basically disappeared off the face of the world. | ||
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jacen
Austria3644 Posts
On February 17 2011 18:39 Rekrul wrote: DON'T Spokem like a boss! And true too. | ||
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thesideshow
930 Posts
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Never.Die
Japan189 Posts
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tonight
United States11130 Posts
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kellymilkies
Singapore1393 Posts
Good luck with whatever you decide. Unless you are ready to go for a long term relationship I suggest you guys just stay as friend. Think of the kid. | ||
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Torenhire
United States11681 Posts
On February 17 2011 18:39 Rekrul wrote: DON'T This should be the only reply you read in the thread, sc4k :D also welcome back  | ||
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AlphaWhale
Australia328 Posts
On February 16 2011 21:09 Silentness wrote: Trust me the kid will come first over you. This may not seem like a bad thing, but eventually it might become tedious. Unless the woman is a bronze league mother, the child will always come first - even if it's both of yours. | ||
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MetalMarine
United States1559 Posts
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CapnAmerica
United States508 Posts
You never want to take a huge step like that without thinking it through first. Having a girlfriend is one thing, having a kid is another (and if you are committed to the relationship, they will become your kid). If you don't feel comfortable, give yourself more time to do your own thing. It's better to discover someone who fits perfectly for you somewhere down the line than to be sitting in your bedroom wanting to kill yourself because you're fed up with the kid's nagging. | ||
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kNightLite
United States408 Posts
As long as you're cool with the surrogate father thing, I say give it a chance. Who knows, you may end up loving the kid just as much as the girl. You won't know until you try. However if you're not comfortable with the surrogate father thing, then you need to be up-front about that with the mother and establish some boundaries. The last thing you want to do is set up false expectations. | ||
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Rabbitmaster
1357 Posts
On February 16 2011 20:33 underscore wrote: Don't do it, for her sake. She already got a child doesn't need a 2nd (you). This, and no offense. | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
To be honest... it wasn't that hard of a decision for others to make. You guys were clearly on different stages of experience, life and baby-making. | ||
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
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