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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
Also, she's involved in retarded student protests and underground activity, something I think very low of, but I discussed her politics and she really has no good reasons for doing it, she's not an idiot. She'll probably have stopped it in a year's time anyway. So sorry there isn't a pokemon related punchline 'cos this is an actual question, but I'll leave you with this funny picture to make up for it: + Show Spoiler + ![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/CMwsd.jpg)  | ||
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Wolf
Korea (South)3290 Posts
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Tony Campolo
New Zealand364 Posts
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aidnai
United States1159 Posts
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underscore
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anatem
Romania1369 Posts
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Divinek
Canada4045 Posts
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sc4k
United Kingdom5454 Posts
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amd098
Korea (North)1366 Posts
But if you are, and things work out for you, she would stick with you for a very long time. She might be more willing to stay and make things work instead of giving up as it would have an effect on her son, so she might be more committed to the relationship than some other women. My friend had a kid with a girl at 18. Now he is 33 and married to that girl. I've never seen anyone so happy as the two of them, he realized that he is now responsible, and he went through school and got his CPA & MBA and makes a TON of money. He's a great dad, but he would never have gone through college he said if he did not have a daughter to support. I guess, its just a difference of what the two of you want in a relationship. If you just want someone temporarily, and she wants someone to settle down with, then its best you rethink it through. | ||
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Silentness
United States2821 Posts
It might of been 3 girls, but I'm not 100% sure the 3rd girl had a kid or not... she was probably hiding him/her from me. Trust me the kid will come first over you. This may not seem like a bad thing, but eventually it might become tedious. | ||
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legatus legionis
Netherlands559 Posts
I don't understand this: "she really has no good reasons for doing it, she's not an idiot". Isn't she an idiot because she doesn't have any good reasons? Anyway, if you keep it minor for now, are sure you won't get sucked in and become accountable for anything, then I would atleast test the waters. glhf | ||
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Jathin
United States3505 Posts
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meegrean
Thailand7699 Posts
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nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
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Servius_Fulvius
United States947 Posts
On February 16 2011 21:09 Silentness wrote: Trust me the kid will come first over you. This may not seem like a bad thing, but eventually it might become tedious. This is the only downside to the situation IF you consider it a downside. You could view it one of two ways: she was/is irresponsible enough to get pregnant from an old relationship/hookup OR having a child forces her to grow up in many ways and you could date a girl who's years beyond the typical 20-25-year-old age group. But hey, if you like her go for it and see how it works out  | ||
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quirinus
Croatia2489 Posts
Kids are huge thing. Parents don't have time for anything else, and the kid is the first thing over everything. If you don't have any experience with kids, don't do it. Hell, even if you do, stay away. xD | ||
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JoFu
United States25 Posts
"Also, she's involved in retarded student protests and underground activity, something I think very low of, but I discussed her politics and she really has no good reasons for doing it, she's not an idiot. She'll probably have stopped it in a year's time anyway." Loving how much "stay the fuck away from women with kids" I'm seeing. I guess if you really need "all of her attention all of the time", then this is a bad call. Really, I don't see a problem with it. Yeah, it may get complicated having to get a babysitter, but it makes that time seem more special. I dated a girl who had to take care of her 3 sisters and little brother every Friday and Saturday night because her parents were more social than she was, apparently. It was actually kind of fun, and you wind up looking like a pro every night when they all get put to bed having dealt with all of that. And needless to say, that pays off very well for you. | ||
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Catch]22
Sweden2683 Posts
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Sephy90
United States1785 Posts
On February 16 2011 22:21 JoFu wrote: I'm surprised you're not more turned off by this: "Also, she's involved in retarded student protests and underground activity, something I think very low of, but I discussed her politics and she really has no good reasons for doing it, she's not an idiot. She'll probably have stopped it in a year's time anyway." Loving how much "stay the fuck away from women with kids" I'm seeing. I guess if you really need "all of her attention all of the time", then this is a bad call. Really, I don't see a problem with it. Yeah, it may get complicated having to get a babysitter, but it makes that time seem more special. I dated a girl who had to take care of her 3 sisters and little brother every Friday and Saturday night because her parents were more social than she was, apparently. It was actually kind of fun, and you wind up looking like a pro every night when they all get put to bed having dealt with all of that. And needless to say, that pays off very well for you. Dating a single mom is way different than dating a girl who had to take care of her siblings only 2 times out of the week yo. That might've seemed like nothing to you but being a single parent is full-time job and it might get annoying that you don't get as much time with her as you want. Sure at first you don't mind but over the course of time you'll probably get tired of it. OP Since you sound kind of hesitant you should forget about her. You say she's awesome but come on you should know there are other awesome girls out there ^_^. Also I said you sound hesitant but it seems like you want to give this a shot so if you feel like you should then do it but just don't get yourself hurt ^_^. Again my advice is stay away. | ||
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DoubleZee
Canada556 Posts
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