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So my girlfriend and i just got into an arguement... too all the people that have seen my posts before yea it's the "cheating bitch". So she's being stalked by some random dude on facebook where she met him from some website. She then changing her relationship status to "In a relationship", then an idiot comes in and types "HURRICANE PENIS". I stronging disapproved of that and replied "@___ Stop being a fucking idiot" He then later on deletes the comment which tick-ed me off even more so i said "@____ Now, grow some balls. Why would you delete your comment. " This idiot was apparently my gf's "fake bf" to get rid of the stalking random dude. When i talked to her today she got all protecty and saying "stop being so serious/mature and chill out man" I explain to her that he if was going to be an idiot i'd tell him to stop being one. Now heres the problem we're in an arguement where i used the line "Arguing with you never actually had a good outcome for me. EIther a win, and look like a total douchebag. Or i lose and look like a total douchebag lol" Then she comes back with "so then what do you want huh? an i'm sorry? you want me to take back everything?"
I say the epic line "What i want, is a fucking time-machine -_-"
She says: "fine you win then i was wrong he was an idiot and i'm stupid for making this huge happy? now drop it"
I say "I didn't say thing about it..........." Then she says "fine drop it, just stop and shut up about it"
What can i do = (
   
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Osaka27128 Posts
If your girlfriend is creating false facebook boyfriends to scare away facebook stalkers, and has cheated on you,
What can i do = ( seems pretty obvious to me.
There are not enough hours in the day to deal with such petty shit. If she put half the amount of effort into your relationship that she put into facebook, you would both be much happier. Life is short man.
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wait this is over facebook?
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If you really care for her and want to stay with her then ime heals everything my friend, let it go and just start fresh the next day. It seems like one of those arguments you just should put behind you and not let it worry you so much.
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stop acting like a child, she's clearly cheating on you - grow a pair and look elsewhere
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Osaka27128 Posts
Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time.
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From a girl to you:
Dump her ass if you have any respect left for yourself. Quit letting her walk all over you just because you want to 'have a girlfriend'.
The fact you stuck with her even though she cheated on you makes me sad. She thinks she can get away with whatever she wants. Good job.
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So "be a man and the the right thing"? As in forget about it and better luck tmr? = P I'm really bad with these relationship bull shit haha
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Start weighing costs vs benefits. Seems pretty straight forward here..... Is what you're getting in return worth w/e you're putting in this relationship?
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I'ma fucking rage, she logged of MSN. Now i don't have a way to contact her (long distance phone call not really smart)
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Seems like you're making too much a big deal out of nothing and the more you act possessive and jealous, the more you'll drive her away.
If some idiot posts something nonsensical like "Hurricane Penis" on your girls facebook, who gives a fuck? You should have just played it cool and treated it as the act of an immature boy who is beneath you and unworthy of your retort. Instead, you let it rile you up and fuck up the situation between you and your girl.
Your proper response, assuming you're looking at her FB with her, should have been to say to your girl something like "Hurricane penis! how does this guy describe my genitalia so well?"
If you saw the comment while stalking her FB, then just ignore it.
But yeah, your approach is really bad. I'm not even sure what you expect her to do.
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On January 28 2011 13:35 lixlix wrote: Seems like you're making too much a big deal out of nothing and the more you act possessive and jealous, the more you'll drive her away.
If some idiot posts something nonsensical like "Hurricane Penis" on your girls facebook, who gives a fuck? You should have just played it cool and treated it as the act of an immature boy who is beneath you and unworthy of your retort. Instead, you let it rile you up and fuck up the situation between you and your girl.
Your proper response, assuming you're looking at her FB with her, should have been to say to your girl something like "Hurricane penis! how does this guy describe my genitalia so well?"
If you saw the comment while stalking her FB, then just ignore it.
But yeah, your approach is really bad. I'm not even sure what you expect her to do. He is her "fake bf" on facebook, i don't think i can really ignore that.
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On January 28 2011 13:35 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: I'ma fucking rage, she logged of MSN. Now i don't have a way to contact her (long distance phone call not really smart)
Long distance? Back up. Slow down. I've done this.
Explain.
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dump her. she's not worth it.
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On January 28 2011 13:37 Tex wrote:Show nested quote +On January 28 2011 13:35 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: I'ma fucking rage, she logged of MSN. Now i don't have a way to contact her (long distance phone call not really smart) Long distance? Back up. Slow down. I've done this. Explain. She's away at another school half way across the country for this year.
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A jealous guy is one of the least attractive creatures on earth. From the looks of things, even if she isn't cheating on you, you've killed the attraction in this relationship. The good news is you're young. I would just move on.
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On January 28 2011 13:38 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: She's away at another school half way across the country for this year.
So you're upset/jealous that you can't really do anything about this 'fake bf'- no, screw it.
Man up. Period. You chose to be in a LDR and you're getting upset that it's left you powerless in the relationship. She cheated on you, you let her get away with it (first mistake, imo).
You're young, you're probably not gonna marry this girl. I'd just cut your losses and look into some nicer, closer girls. Or get better at SC and disregard women all together.
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On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time. ^Words of wisdom.
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So, she's "being stalked" so she had to get a fake bf on facebook to get the stalker to go away. Then why aren't YOU her bf on facebook? She wouldn't have to get a fake bf if she considered you her bf... I suggest you find someone else and forget about her.
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dude
look at my blog topics.
people told me to leave my unfaithful gf and to not contact her even if she was offering a free booty call.
i gave in a few times and tried to restart something new but immature girls ... they need a long time to smarten the fuck up. i believe people can change. but childish and unfaithful girls may take a much longer time to change.
anyway
ditch her. easier said than done but once you move on, you're gonna find a lot of other girls out there. i mean.. i went through hell trying to ditch my cheating ex but after a couple of months, i met a prettier girl... and i'm texting her to sleep as i write this post.
dude.. ditch her.
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On January 28 2011 13:51 hp.Shell wrote: So, she's "being stalked" so she had to get a fake bf on facebook to get the stalker to go away. Then why aren't YOU her bf on facebook? She wouldn't have to get a fake bf if she considered you her bf... I suggest you find someone else and forget about her. That's why i was so pissed off...
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you really shouldnt put so much on what she does man. she sounds pretty petty, and all shes gonna do is keep jerking you around (in the bad way). some girls just wont get it for a while, or never. just how things are :/
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If i was going to end this, how do i do it? I'm starting to have a feeling that she doesn't consider me as her boyfriend anymore sadly.... *sigh* random shit always happen to me -______-
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Lets get real. at your age, a year is a lifetime.
Realistically, the only way to keep her as your GF at the end of the year was to preemptively tell her before she left to go to the other school
" we're both young and in a time of discovery. This time apart could be good for both of us and long distance relationships are difficult but I would like to remain friends with you".
Also, don't let her know too much about what you are doing while you guys are in different cities. Like don't update your FB or Twitter with what you're doing all the time.
Honestly, thats your best shot.
But now its too late and really you have no reason to be pissed off. Expecting a 17 year old girl to stay in a long distance monogamous relationship for a year is pretty damn unrealistic.
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On January 28 2011 14:00 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: If i was going to end this, how do i do it? I'm starting to have a feeling that she doesn't consider me as her boyfriend anymore sadly.... *sigh* random shit always happen to me -______-
if she doesn't consider you as her boyfriend, then ending it is not really something you need to do right? she's already done it for you.
Just ignore her, improve yourself, and date other girls.
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On January 28 2011 14:01 lixlix wrote:
Also, don't let her know too much about what you are doing while you guys are in different cities. Like don't update your FB or Twitter with what you're doing all the time.
^ This. I specifically stopped updating anything my ex-could read. Privacy'd everything. Anything that was left he eventually removed me from.
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On January 28 2011 13:37 meegrean wrote: dump her. she's not worth it.
ya dude not worth it.
And something my wife and I worked out is that we always put each others feelings first no matter what. If I get upset about something she is doing on FB or wherever, she stops. Done. And vice versa. Sometimes both of us feel at times that the other might be a little overboard. But this type of relationship is foolproof in my eyes.
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Alright! Dump her i shall. I'd like to go out with a bang a lot so, any suggestions?
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On January 28 2011 14:11 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Alright! Dump her i shall. I'd like to go out with a bang a lot so, any suggestions?
oh wow give me a minute...
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On January 28 2011 14:11 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Alright! Dump her i shall. I'd like to go out with a bang a lot so, any suggestions?
HURRICANE IM-DONE-WITH-YOU
Or just make that phone call anyway.
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just stop talking to her altogether
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On January 28 2011 14:11 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Alright! Dump her i shall. I'd like to go out with a bang a lot so, any suggestions? Sleep with her mum.
But seriously, i'm sure someone on TL will think of a genius way to break up.
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The conclusion of your OP shows she's ten times more mature than you. If you break up with her, it's your loss, but it's probably for the better. I say do it by text message, because that's what a thirteen year old would do. Good luck!
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On January 28 2011 14:20 Horrde wrote: I say do it by text message, because that's what almost every teenager does. Good luck! Fixed.
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On January 28 2011 14:21 Djzapz wrote: You have issues -_- Who me? Yeah i have issues with females these days.
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Suggestions: HURRICANE IM-DONE-WITH-YOU/call her Sleep with her mum. just stop talking to her altogether text message
Come on TL! If she's going to mess with me, I'll mess with her = )
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On January 28 2011 14:23 MaReK wrote:Show nested quote +On January 28 2011 14:20 Horrde wrote: I say do it by text message, because that's what almost every teenager does. Good luck! Fixed.
I can confirm this.
OP: Just call her, dude. Get it over with sooner rather than later.
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Just stop talking to her. Imo she's not worth your time, so why even bother informing her that you're dumping her? She'll figure it out eventually when you're "in a relationship" with someone else on facebook.
I've found this is the best way to do it from experience, if the girl is the type you're describing she is. If she's someone with integrity she deserves a proper dumping. If she doesn't have any integrity at all she deserves nothing at all, which is what you should give her.
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On January 28 2011 13:24 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: "Arguing with you never actually had a good outcome for me. EIther a win, and look like a total douchebag. Or i lose and look like a total douchebag lol" ( hate to break it to you... but all women are... Oh never mind. The fact you win at all is impressive though.
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On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time. Haha, I couldn't even read the rest of the posts without giggling at this.
I thought just based on the whole context of the blog that the age of the poster would have to be fairly young.
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Just dump her with zero emotions that will bug her more than anything else. Time to stop investing in this train-wreck.
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On January 28 2011 13:30 Manifesto7 wrote:If your girlfriend is creating false facebook boyfriends to scare away facebook stalkers, and has cheated on you, seems pretty obvious to me. There are not enough hours in the day to deal with such petty shit. If she put half the amount of effort into your relationship that she put into facebook, you would both be much happier. Life is short man.
On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time.
I lol'ed so hard.
But yeah... listen to Mani. At that age, it isn't worth your trouble to deal with it, unless she puts out
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On January 28 2011 14:29 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: Suggestions: HURRICANE IM-DONE-WITH-YOU/call her Sleep with her mum. just stop talking to her altogether text message
Come on TL! If she's going to mess with me, I'll mess with her = ) The best revenge is a life well lived. Don't try some sort of elaborate revenge scheme that someone on the internet cooked up, that's for the misanthropes on 4chan. Just go find another girl. You don't even need to tell her since obviously she's moved on.
edit: also her "fake bf" is probably her new bf
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Am I ever glad I didn't go through high school and early college with all that prolific facebook crap! She needs to grow up, you probably need to grow up, and there's no contingency I can think of that has you stay with her.
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I would suggest just dumping her in a low-key sort of way. Choose your method of communication and just let her know things aren't working out. (hopefully you guys don't end up fighting)
Not sure what kind of girl your gf is...but if you humiliate her she might go crazy and proceed to harass/stalk you for the next few months. X_X
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Just play with it,you're still a kid lots of stuff that you need to experience like heartbreak and etc. Anyway, all of these type of stuff will be pretty hilarious once you get to our age
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Look after optional girlfriends. Tell her that she either shapes up or she gets dumped for another girls you been checking up. Problem will be solved and you will be in a better relationship after you tell her that.
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On January 28 2011 14:32 Comeh wrote:Show nested quote +On January 28 2011 13:24 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: "Arguing with you never actually had a good outcome for me. EIther a win, and look like a total douchebag. Or i lose and look like a total douchebag lol" ( hate to break it to you... but all women are... Oh never mind. The fact you win at all is impressive though.
Yep... trying to recall the last time i won an argument...
On another note, why does she prefer to have a "fake" bf listed as her bf on fb? And what the hell do fb-stalker even mean? She ever heard about privacy settings? Or is she retarded enough to have her "stalker" as her friend...
You are both still young and it kinda shows, if a douche posted something on my GF's fb i would start with talking to her, then i would give him a call or go have a chat with him (not to beat him up or anything, but to talk to him). There is literally nothing to be gained arguing about it over facebook...
If you are gonna break up i would suggest doing it straight up: "Sorry this is not working out between us, i am not happy with the relationship and see no future in it and have made up my mind that the best thing for both of us is to break up. No, you cant change my mind and i see no point in discussing details, it is over."
If you want to have fun doing it i am sure there are some crazy ideas out there.
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Be a man! Or even better - BE A MANI!! Such good advice on the outset.. You say she cheated on you? Sounds like you are addicted... Just break up with her RIGHT NOW!! Or she will do it to you at the worst time possible!
GL HF!!
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Get her pregnant and then force her to get an abortion.
Actually, no. That's a terrible idea. Just be a man and break up and never talk to her again. You got more things to worry about than screwing over a crazy girl who lives super far away.
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See if you can get more STDs then her and share the fun!
I also have a feeling that this 'fake bf' might not be so fake homie!
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On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time.
1. this 2. wins the thread 3. words of wisdom
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On January 28 2011 13:35 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: I'ma fucking rage, she logged of MSN. Now i don't have a way to contact her (long distance phone call not really smart)
Are you fucking insane? Why would you want to contact someone like that? Is sticking your dick in her worth that much trouble?
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I <3 TL just for this. Whiny blog by high schoolers over what their bf/gf posted on facebook.
Seriously just drop her. You're both in 11th grade, and this year you're apart. You should both just relax the drama and search for romance and/or sex closer to home.
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You sound worse than her. Don't make snide remarks on facebook and talk to her about it instead.
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On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: Oh nevermind, your other blog about friends fighting about sc2 shows that you are in grade 11. God I am old.
If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time.
^_^ I love you Mani.........I do want to know what the answer would ahve been say in 15 years or so when your daughter is around that age. I for one am not looking forward to all these hormonal guys crawling over my daughter........can you force someone to become a Nun?
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On January 28 2011 13:31 Manifesto7 wrote: If she puts out, put up with it. If she doesn't she isn't worth the time.
Agreed 100%
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Wow, quit being an idiot and just dump her.
The title should have been "Highschool girls - I need a smack in the head"
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You're in grade 11. Have sex and immediately break up with her after. You gotta act cool when telling her your dumping her. Smoke a cig at the same time. It'll make her feel like a cheap whore.
OR
You could just dump her.
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Hurricane penis is probably an in-joke about KPop (Jokwon trying to pronounce "Hurricane venus," Korean doesn't have the "v" sound and it turns into a hilarious "p") -_-.
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What? You can't post on a wall if you're not friends with that person...? Pathetic that it could even go this far...
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Anyways, told her it's over now. I called her and said "It's over bitch, amen hallelujah. Now go get pregnant before you go cheat on some other dude. It'll make you're relationship last long" Then hanged up.
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You could have said something far more clever with the resources of TL at your fingertips, but that'll do son that'll do
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I don't know.. i'm still pissed of... anyone have any suggestions on what i should say to her again? lol This fucking made me rage harder then losing to MMM. And hell i believe i raged harder then idrA when he loses to cheese.
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On January 29 2011 14:53 MarineHeroSamKhan wrote: I don't know.. i'm still pissed of... anyone have any suggestions on what i should say to her again? lol This fucking made me rage harder then losing to MMM. And hell i believe i raged harder then idrA when he loses to cheese.
You seem to be missing the point... After you broke up with her you're not supposed to say anything to her again. You seem to be still hanging onto the illusion that maybe she'll be devastated and want you back and you'll get back together again and everything will be fine and dandy.
Don't. You broke up. It's over. No need to say anything to her ever again.
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But it's making me rage hard. Shes saying things to him that she never told me. Grrr i guess i'll go beat a pillow instead.
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Don't get raged over facebook drama, lollllllll.
Just ignore her.
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She doesn't know i can see her twitter account lol, she making false statements about her "first confessions" and shit. i know i still have some feelings for her, but shit this is getting ridiculous.
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who cares shes not your problem anymore
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Since its bothering you so much maybe you should cut off her skin and wear it as a coat?
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Osaka27128 Posts
Blog is horrendously mis-titled. There are no women involved.
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Believe me, a chick like that will prob be raging much worse than you, esp. given that you were the one who broke up wth her. Now just play it cool & nonchalant and make sure that when she tries to approach you with sum "no hard feelings"/"still be friends" bullshit, you CRUSH her!! Under no circumstances are you allowed to get back together with this chick. Crystal?! Oh and also focussing on studies is really important at your age... FOr further advice I think you shud just PM Mani. Am sure he'll set u straight!! JUST DONT DO ANY STUPID SHIT LIKE TALK BEHIND HER BACK, COMMENT ON FB, etc. Youre supposed to act like this dont bother you... I also suggest you SHUT DOWN YOUR FB ACCOUNT and save years of your life for doing stuff that actually makes a difference in your life!
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Who cares what the other half of this psychotic union thinks? Delete her from your FB and stop looking at her twitter (I dont use twitter, but I presume you have to look at their page deliberately? NFI!).
Out of sight, out of mind. You will forget about her completely within weeks.
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On January 29 2011 19:24 Manifesto7 wrote: Blog is horrendously mis-titled. There are no women involved. hahaha so true
seriously tho, ur still young so embrace the rage and jealousy ... once u reach a certain age you won't give a shit anymore ... or maybe it's just me
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Wow O_o this thing got bumped, anyways i'm starting to not give a shit anymore. But, my motto for life is that "if you fuck with me, i'll fuck with you" and yeah = P
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Actually it sounds like she's fucking with everyone else and not you.
hohohohoho
Seriously though, it's totally not worth it. It'll fuck with her more if you just pretend she doesn't exist anymore. Sounds like she's all about the attention / control, and by "fucking with her" you're just making her feel like she's got the control still. Just delete every possible way of contact with her..
I did the same to a really crazy bitch and like three-four years later she still texts me being all flirty and I just don't respond and it pisses her off so much, it's much more entertaining than any snide remarks or get-backs I could have done.
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