EPTSleeping with your ex's friend. - Page 2
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reki-
Netherlands327 Posts
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Belano
Sweden657 Posts
@JWD: Me and C are really good friends and we can talk about anything, there's really no problem in telling him. edit: thanks for the input though! Really helpful  | ||
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Hungary3932 Posts
You're about to make a move on your close friend's ex who also happens to be a friend of your ex (with whom you claim to be on good terms)! On October 27 2010 21:35 Belano wrote: I actually feel he would be cool about it On October 27 2010 21:35 Belano wrote: She has a new boyfriend though, which in my mind makes it more OK for some reason. Well, I can't help thinking your feelings seem to be distorted by the faint promise of getting laid! I really hope you follow your instinct to bring this up with B and C both before going through with it. If I were you, I probably wouldnt do it even if they give you the go-ahead. In such a situation a positive answer can be just good manners - because they feel they dont have any valid reason to object anymore, but as a personal matter, they might very well mind (I know I would, and you seem to think so would you!), and it can taint your relationship with both of them. You have to decide if jeopardizing those is worth it. #edit: I guess it depends a lot on your relationship with B and C, and we cant learn enough about that from an OP. I'd just make sure at least C knows you honestly care about his say, and he can actually stop you from doing it, and asking him is not just a formality. If he still doesnt mind, i guess it can be OK, but it may end up being rather awkward nonetheless. #edit2: lol these letters are confusing. B=your ex, C=your friend. | ||
BLinD-RawR
ALLEYCAT BLUES51068 Posts
most logical...yes? | ||
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Scorcher2k
United States802 Posts
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Randomaccount#77123
United States5003 Posts
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Wolf
Korea (South)3290 Posts
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Belano
Sweden657 Posts
On October 27 2010 22:38 Wolf wrote: What kind of world is this where when you have sex with someone, they immediately tell their friend and your exgirlfriend ? I mean, come on.. What are the chances they even find out soon after? Very unlikely. If they find out or not is not really the issue, I'm just trying to find out if it's OK or not, regardless of if they find out or not. And no, I don't have a girlfriend right now. If I had, I wouldn't have this dilemma  . | ||
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Wolf
Korea (South)3290 Posts
On October 27 2010 22:47 Belano wrote: If they find out or not is not really the issue, I'm just trying to find out if it's OK or not, regardless of if they find out or not. I say to do it. I mean, I don't really see how it could hurt. Like others have said, if your friends have issues with it, then maybe they aren't really your friends. | ||
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kasumimi
Greece460 Posts
 This is like trolling in real life | ||
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Grettin
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BLinD-RawR
ALLEYCAT BLUES51068 Posts
On October 27 2010 23:10 kasumimi wrote: I can't believe people voting "YES" so shamelessly This is like trolling in real life Well thats because its not illogical to have feelings for your EX's friends.I'm pretty sure C wouldn't mind..But I don't know the guy so...eh. | ||
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Subversion
South Africa3627 Posts
Having a bunch of nerds say FUCK YEAH DUDE HIT THAT isn't gonna do shit to help the relationships you're inevitably gonna fuck up (face it, you already know this is a bad idea). Up to you dude, if its worth getting your cock wet, then yeah whatever. I'd vote no though, sex is just sex, seriously. | ||
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Grettin
42411 Posts
On October 28 2010 00:01 Subversion wrote: I'd vote no though, sex is just sex, seriously. But with a beautiful girl, let me quote: She is one of the most beautiful women the sex would be even better than just sex! | ||
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muse5187
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QuixoticO
Netherlands810 Posts
But seriously we will never be able to help you considering we don't know these people or how they would cope with the situation and considering you already put down the pros/cons it's all about making the decision on your own. Protip: Fuck her. Life is short and people should learn that sex is just a hobby for most people anyways. | ||
JWD
United States12607 Posts
On October 28 2010 00:01 Subversion wrote: Lol, you wouldn't post here if you didn't know it was wrong. Having a bunch of nerds say FUCK YEAH DUDE HIT THAT isn't gonna do shit to help the relationships you're inevitably gonna fuck up (face it, you already know this is a bad idea). Up to you dude, if its worth getting your cock wet, then yeah whatever. I'd vote no though, sex is just sex, seriously. Are you a robot? Maybe the OP posted here because he knows he's going to sleep with A and wanted some pep talks to reassure him that there won't be any fallout. | ||
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TheGrimace
United States929 Posts
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Belano
Sweden657 Posts
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Grettin
42411 Posts
On October 28 2010 00:29 Belano wrote: Haha, I'm loving the feedback. Posting here was an experiment of sorts I guess, but it actually helped me a little. Probably going to talk to C this week Last tip: by doing so ur gonna screw this up. | ||
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